GurpreetKaur

Waheguru ji ka Khalsa, Waheguru ji ki Fateh!
This is a fictional account of a Khalsa soldiers journey to return to his home. In the early 1700's in modern-day Northern India, it is a time of strife. In the midst of war, we glimpse one soldiers desperate journey against the odds to reach his home.
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Guru Fateh!
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There are plenty walking around in a three piece suit

Sri Guru Tegh Bahadur Ji, by Sant Isher Singh Ji Karamsar Rarasahib.
 
 

Why are you looking down on people who want to meditate or do bhagti ?
Shakti only comes after your are perfect in Bhagti.  Not the other way around.
Sant Jarnail Singh was a true  khalsa.He meditated on Japji Sahib.
 
 
 
 

You are doing what she has been doing. Judging whole gender based on personal beliefs and couple incidents. Not gonna argue whether women are dirty or not, if you perceive them to be dirty chances are you will manifest it . Dirty word itself is pretty insulting no matter in what context you talk about it. Men or women, no one is dirty, it's just our mind. Once we clean them up then this word dirty will be gone from dictionary.
All the people above, listen to this and you will find peace. 
 

Bhagat pooran Singh ji started from begging and cleaning people's feces while taking care of those not so blessed people. Over the time he became such a well known person that he was given Medals. My thinking is totally different than you, for me you don't demand leadership roles, you do your kirat and you will be rewarded then you have no big Ego. If a woman or man really want to serve, they can start from anywhere and what they have. All that leadership roles are an Ego trip and it will get us nowhere. Mother teresa said that when she clean people's feces, she's not disgusted since she sees God in everyone. Bhagat ji is a mother Teresa for India and had the same thinking. These are the type of leaders I want. Not who can't take no and start a war.
I thought the biggest reason you were fighting since there is not a single place where female panj peyarey are allowed and you told me yesterday that AKJ allow it so I am just thinking all that time you wasted on women right was not even necessary. 
Agree that no one should be overlooked based on their gender, but I have more respect for the woman  with high avastha who let it go since she realized all of this is trivial.

@akalpurkh
Kabeer ji did not waste his life with rosary. In the beginning people are not at the state where they can do simran or rememberance of Vaheguroo without any aid. Rosary is just an aid, just like simran or kirtan to remember Vaheguroo. I do jaap with Rosary or Telly counter because without it, i end up doing nothing. Now you will say 5 banis are brahmanvad too. I do set a goal for 40 days or a month and try to finish it. For you this might be a brahamanvad, but for me it's my time well spent since I am nowhere near to be able to remember Vaheguroo ji 24/7.
Don't create blockage for beginner who are trying their best to reach a state where they won't need anything. I have read numerous times how when people do paath by counting they are doing brahamvad. Maskeen ji said in the beginning people start doing path or simran because they want something( maya) but eventually their  Kundalini rises and they start feeling the Love. You can't expect me to start climbing mountains when I am learning how to climb stairs. 
A baby takes baby steps to learn walking, he uses mothers hands and furniture to walk and eventually start walking on his own. If you can do simran and jaap without any aid, good for you. Don't discourage others.
If someone wants to do 40 sukhmani sahib in 20 days or 10 days, there is nothing wrong in it. Repetition is for our subconscious mind and everything that gets into subconscious part of the mind start becoming reality. If someone wants to carry a Rosary and Telly counter, let's not close our mind and start saying stop this, say Vaheguroo's name in your heart. Tell them great job,make sure ego won't enter in you saying I did this much amount of paath then the very whole purpose is defeated.

Ingredients:
Get sick 
Fake tears.
Good acting. 
Method:
Go to mom and act like it's your last day on this planet. Hold your head like it's gonna explode. Demand anything and wish fulfilled.
Thats the best recipe out there, I wonder if that will work on my saas after marriage . I know it won't.  lol
i will post something useful later on lol
 

What is varans? 
I would actually apreciate if you can put that in Jatt people's mind that they are low caste. They will reform since only an egotistical person is proud of something which is Mundane. 
But more important than that is don't call someone Shudar, I read your post long time ago where you called a guy shudar because he said he is jatt and not scared. I don't care what your books says or your teachers teach you, no one is shudar and no one is higher. Guru Nanak dev ji gave us Sikhi so those so called low caste people have a place to worship since they were not allowed and in 21st century, I don't wanna hear low caste or high caste from a person who knows more than any average joe about Life and why are we here.

I thought baptized Sikhs are above caste systems? 
 
 

They are not taking it seriously because every single thing that OP is saying has been said on this forum so many times by the same person. Every thought of OP seems to be influenced by reading posts over here. True, there could be a 13 year old writing all this but where is she now? Unless she actively participate no one will trust. I joined the forum in distress too and when I posted my life here, I came back to check people's responses or to find some relief. I mean if I tell someone my pain, I will reply again if they talk to me . I won't just post and forget about it. 
 

All of that stuff has been said on this forum. Every single thing you are saying has been discussed on, argued on and it gotten to the point where no party was listening to each other but just getting on with the argument.  
You are 13.. Only 13 living in America ( a place where so much freedom is given that option is on you how you gonna and wanna use that freedom ). Even if you are given no freedom you can still get it. I don't know if your words are exactly your words or are being influenced by reading posts on this forum. Let's talk about being a housewife like your mom. I have not met a single Indian family who does not want their kids to excel in academic area and land a perfect job. Most of the mundey either getting on with drugs or driving trucks so parents always have high hopes from their daughters. Being happy and unhappy is such a weird phenomena, you can have everything and you can still be unhappy or you can be a penniless but can be the happiest person ever . However, let's agree that your family will force you to be a housewife then you always have the option to make it clear that you wanna have a career and work. Your husband will help you to have a career. This thing you should not be worrying and thinking about at the age of 13 to be honest .
I won't talk about why harimandar sahib Ji is not allowing women do Seva since I will never question why women are given the right to give birth and men not. And so many other rituals and rules which goes above our head but are there. Things like laws where you slap a man and people laugh with you but if you slap a woman they will be ready to kill. There are advantages and disadvantages of being a man and woman . This issue has been discussed and there are many other places which allows women to do all Seva and instead of fighting with the people who are non supportive, let's go to them who are supportive. We can waste our whole life fighting about who is given more priveledge and if we do the math, we will realize we women are not that victim as much we are calling ourself . You are pretty young, don't and I mean don't get influenced with things you read or hear. 
Why vaheguroo loves men more than women ?
And how exactly we have gotten to this conclusion? Oh based on the perception that society thinks men can have more freedom and able to do Seva at gurughar and women can't so god loves men more than women. Then think about all those people at this moment crying for food, God must have hated them so much that they are born like this. People suffering from diseases, dying every single day are the most hatred people by God?
you are only 13 and your thinking is Making me sad since all the stuff you said is exactly the words of other member and please don't go on that route. This women rights thing will get you so crazy that you will forget the real meaning of life.
Everybody regardless of their gender go through phases where they feel their life is worthless no matter how much money, status they have. It's human nature, only people who do meditation and do good deeds feel good about their lives .  Very few are those who can stay happy. Don't think your life is doomed since you are assuming all these things. Good and bad days both will come until you will learn there is no difference between them and it will take quite a time to get there unfortunately but it's all worth it lol 
I don't know where I am going with this but you gotta change your thinking and instead of looking all the stuff you saying. Look into the things you can do. Start with baby steps, look for the things you can do but your bro ether can't? Parents have their different ways to show love. I used to complain that my brother would get new clothes and I used to wear his used one. But my brother was more spoiled one and I was the easy one to listen so I was helping mom dad financially by wearing my brothers used school uniform lol. That time I never got it and now I know I helped them. I did get new clothes but those were girly ones. Even my friends used to get their older sisters used clothes so gender has nothing to do with it. Some parents love girls more than boys and it's pretty common and it has nothing to do with gender . I have never seen men complaining, they actually feel happy. My brother appreciate now when mom treating me really nice and he joins her and I kinda get extra attention . The point is everybody have their own way of showing love. 
Don't feel bad about being a woman, anybody who calls you unclean and dirty has to clean itself first. You are the only one who can judge where you stand, what other says will be useless since their opinion are their perceptions not your reality . I have never felt bad about being a woman, always felt blessed. Being a woman is a huge blessing, without women this world will stop so why think bad about oneself . Gurbani never put women down and 10th Master never hated women. I think you are referring to CK series, you are only 13. Start with what is good rather than what you assume is not good. Start with cultivating love first and see how it changes you . YouTube Hans wilheim, I am too lazy to upload but worth listening .
 
 
 

Ref: Healing Mantras by Thomas Ashley-Farrand
 
Bhul chuk maaf

I spoke to a WW2 vet once who told me that he had immense respect for Sikhs b/c they never drank, while all the other soldier would drink a great deal of liqour to calm themselves before battle. 

Ji 

Why Repeating A Mantra Is So Powerful And How To Do It
http://www.thewayofmeditation.com.au/blog/repeating-mantra/
 

enjoy

@GLA7 
No one can control bad thoughts, these arises due to our desires and deeds done in this or previous lifetimes. But it can be very much tackled, when bad thought arises remind yourself that you are not this thought, you are witnessing it and create a gap from it. And let go of it, do not pay attention to it or it will surely drag you down. Do this and thought loses it power and vanishes in a moment. 
Shaheed Singhs are, you can say the best possible sikhs you can look upto. They do not go around bossing people like we think. 
If person wishes to do Sri Dasam Jee Bani, and if not amritdhari, atleast person should correct his eating habits, be strictly vegetarian during the jaap and maintain no bad company, including movies, TV or internet garbage.
On a positive note, I heard that if Shaheed Singhs are happy with you and wants to give you something, even Guru Gobind Singh Maharaj Jee won't say NO to Shaheed Singhs wishes and agrees with them.
Good luck.

Just Gold, thanks for sharing. 

Giani ji talks about a Singh who completed 2 lakh japa of Brahm kavach.  It may inspire someone so felt like sharing
 

all who profit earn the karma, including the butcher, the owner, and the eater, and the farmer. taken from a sant's katha, don't recall who.
 
 cut it down, you have to protect your family's health and safety. i'll give an example, if i see a spider  in the house i'll gently pick it up and put it outside. i don't want to unnecessarily kill living things. but if I saw a cockroach I would kill it b/c they carry disease. it would be  a greater wrong to let it live and expose my family to disease. btw, there are no roachs in my very clean house, just an example :)
 

You might have seen many people who are joining defence forces and guarding our nation 24×7. But, today you will meet this couple who has dedicated their lives for our country’s safety.
Bikramjit Singh who is in the Indian army and his wife Amarjit Kaur who is serving in the BSF.
http://www.ssbcrack.com/2016/07/army-couple-dedicated-lives-countrys-safety.html
 

Baldev Singh, you and myself were most likely hindus only a few generations/centuries ago. So what? Does that make us HIndus now?

Another great kirtan session. Enjoy...
 
 

Bhagat Sadhna j iwas a butcher and he was enlightened.

However Bhai Gurdas ji warns that just because Sadhna ji was a butcher doesn't mean you should become one too.