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KAuR P

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  • Birthday 05/05/1998

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  1. Hnji I talked to my cousin. He was really happy with my decision. Moreover he added that I'll now go to college and there are so many restrictions afterwards ( for instance restrictions of hair cut etc. ). He meant that I'll start going to college now. The environment of the college can effect me in any way. He said that I may wish to do makeup and may want to cut my hair. Because I usually trim my hair. But I'll not do it. I secretly heard my mother's and grandmother conversation. My mother said that my dad said it will be difficult to find a suitable match for me. This is the main reason they are not allowing me but dad said that I can marry a amritdhari boy and later I can take amrit. Why should I depend on someone? I am strong enough to be me. If everyone starts to think like this no one will take amrit. Even boys. They can also think that they may not be able to find an amritdhari girl. That's not the right way. We should at least start. The rest of world will start by seeing us. This makes me really sad that my parents think like that. I used to think that they are always right. But no they are wrong here. I am fed off of this.
  2. Thank you for the reply. Well I do keertan and play harmonium. I don't know the history as well. I'll definatly work on that as well. I can read gurmukhi too. The thing is I had not done nitnem as a routine. But I have also started that. I'll make sure that my parents will trust me and feel that I am able to do this. I trust myself. I don't want to disobey them. Thank you again
  3. I talked to my dad as well as mom. My dad said that it will a sin if u take amrit and later you won't be able to keep all the rehits. He said if you want to do path then do it and also at least you must do nitnem and should know the 5 banis by heart. Moreover he added that I'll now go to college and there are so many restrictions afterwards ( for instance restrictions of hair cut etc. ). My mom again said that first make yourself good enough. And prove that you will not break our trust again. Walk on the path of truth. Why she always keep talking about what I did wrong? I am trying to be good then why they are not supporting me? They said that do nitnem daily and should not think that its a burden on you to do it daily. And if we feel that you are ready to take amrit then we'll all take amrit together. But my mom always keep on remembering me that I did something wrong. And I feel that she thinks that I am not able to take amrit as I'll definatly break the maryada and will not be able to take rehits. @paapiman @Gunahgar @CdnSikhGirl
  4. My dad don't drink. Actually he must think that I am still not ready. Because I never talked about this and now I am suddenly saying this. And yes! We live in a same home. Thank u for the support :)
  5. @paapiman @Gunahgar waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh. Today I just called my father when he was on work. I told him that I want to take amrit. And he said no. :( He must be thinking that I am not ready or I can't keep all the rehits properly. And can't do nitnem. How to convince him that I'll do it. I can do this.
  6. @paapiman waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh. Brother I found this today. Go to the link Victory & Virtue: Instructions to the New Amritdhari Sikhs - SikhNet
  7. Okay ji. Thank you so much. U all are doing a gr8 job. Keep this going. And I'll also try to encourage and help others. Want to be like you all.
  8. Can you please explain a bit which type of questions they will ask. If u don't mind.
  9. @paapiman @Gunahgar thank you so much brothers!! You really helped me. Since morning I was not sure that I'll take amrit. But now I am. So I'll surely take it. Thank you so much :)
  10. Thank you again. I was also worried about that as what will panj pyara's ask. But this question is also cleared. :)
  11. Today I told this decision to my grandmother and she was kinda happy. She's an amritdhari too. Now I've just told my decision to my mum. I'll go with my cousin and will surely take amrit. But its not possible before a month. Because I am giving my 12th board exams so I'll not be able to go to my cousin's place.
  12. Thank you ji. I'll surely take amrit. I have a close cousin who is amritdhari. He always encourages me and my grandmother too. And yes please tell me about nitnem and rehits so that I'll not do anything wrong. Thank you again
  13. Hnji I just did that and explained what just happened to me ..... :'( How to tell her and all other family members that I am not joking. I really want to take amrit. Now tell me what to do ?
  14. @paapiman My mother judt came and asked me what are you doing. I said was searching on amrit shak. She said first make yourself good enough to take amrit. I know I did really bad things in my life. But now I am trying to solve it. And she just laughed at me. I said I am not joking. I am serious. If I said I'll do it. Why she reacted like this?? I know she shows that she hates me for what I did but still she loves me I can see it. I am trying na to be good. Then why she laughed. Felt really bad. :'(
  15. Thank you so much ji....... I was really looking for a answer like that. It really helped me. Brother! I request you to answer another question. Actually I didn't talk to my parents about that. So how how to tell this to them. I am quiet sure that they will be happy buy still want to know as none of my family members have taken amrit. Again a big thank to you.
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