I believe that when we say pavan guru pani pita, and har kar vich dharamsal hovei kirtan sada basoya, we are in fact saying god is family. This is why I feel we need to challenge the status quo that Sikhs speak Punjabi to saying Sikhs speak Gurmukhi and this would encourage a sea change in the way people communicate. Whenever I listen to the news on a Punjabi or Sikh channel I am surprised how different the language has changed from the similar cross border Pakistani news channels that cater for the Punjabi audience there. I seriously believe that we do not need to go down the route of Hinduism whereby Sanskrit became a language too difficult for the indian people. Gurmukhi is no that hard to understand and when it is incorporated into media such as the news t becomes more familiar and people ask questions about what the presenter has just said etc. The danger is that we allow Punjabi to become more hindi like which is what I see happening especially when you go to places like chandigarh.
There are so many hidden gems in Gurbani it requires Individuals to seek them out and make them understandable within their own fram of reference. So for me God is Family and a home is a dharamsaal that is the ideal anyway but I am far from this reality its jut hat gurbani gives me understanding and thus hope and clarity in my life.