kdsingh80 Posted January 27, 2016 Author Report Share Posted January 27, 2016 Just now, Satkirin_Kaur said: Frightened? More like petrified of it! There is a reason I have avoided having any children up till now! LOL you avoided any children but joined navy? what if your country has thrown you in some brutal war ? you could had lost your limbs? or could had been taken as POW , sorry but I don't think anybody afraid of pain should join defence service 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CdnSikhGirl Posted January 27, 2016 Report Share Posted January 27, 2016 10 minutes ago, kdsingh80 said: LOL you avoided any children but joined navy? what if your country has thrown you in some brutal war ? you could had lost your limbs? or could had been taken as POW , sorry but I don't think anybody afraid of pain should join defence service I took that risk... knowing it would be a 'remote' possibility. With childbirth its inevitable...and unavoidable. You can mask it with epidural or take narcotics that make you loopy so you dont care as much (which also effect the baby). Closest to avoiding it is opting for major abdominal surgery (c-section) which is not without its own risks. I'd rather the slim chances of ever sustaining battle wounds to the inevitable reality of turning my girl bits into hamburg. The POW scenario not likely... more than likely I would have drowned to death as the submarine broke up and sank... 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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dalsingh101 Posted January 27, 2016 Report Share Posted January 27, 2016 You planning on having kids Satkiran? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ragmaala Posted January 27, 2016 Report Share Posted January 27, 2016 omg the babies hindi dub was too funnyy. !!!!!!!!! @GurpreetKaur 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samurai Posted January 27, 2016 Report Share Posted January 27, 2016 14 minutes ago, dalsingh101 said: You planning on having kids Satkiran? Bro...where we going with this...lol 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ragmaala Posted January 27, 2016 Report Share Posted January 27, 2016 satkiran, would you like to adopt ? if you dont want to physically give birth. would you like to get a surrogate mother from India with dna of your husband ? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CdnSikhGirl Posted January 28, 2016 Report Share Posted January 28, 2016 48 minutes ago, Ragmaala said: satkiran, would you like to adopt ? if you dont want to physically give birth. would you like to get a surrogate mother from India with dna of your husband ? @Ragmaala I actually have thought of adoption... Or surrogate mother using both my egg and his sperm through IVF. But I don't think it's financially feasible. And we will likely try soon given our age and not much time left really. But I have made it abundantly clear I'm not going through the birth. If Canada won't allow me to do elective planned C section (which is planned I think usually the week prior to when labour would have happened) then I will go to India and have it. I made it perfectly clear I don't want to be incontinent rest of my life or have lasting problems with pelvic floor etc. And definitely would rather stitches on my abdomen than down there... However I'm still trying to see if they will do c section under general anesthetic. And if not general at least IV sedation (that causes anterograde amnesia). I'm not particularly fond of having major abdominal surgery while completely aware either... And the I'm still worried they won't give me proper pain meds for after. I was ok after this surgery only because they gave me hydromorphone afterwards for 3-4 days. Without it I would have been crying in pain every time I had to get up to go to washroom etc. I read that most pain meds get into breastmilk so if breastfeeding do you have to suffer through post op pain without anything stronger than Tylenol or Motrin?? Yes in scared to death... No matter which way I do it I will have to bear pain and post op healing. If c section is similar to cholecystectomy in pain level I'll be ok. But I'll snap of I have to do full labour with hours of agony before being ripped to pieces down there and chancing long term pelvic floor damage. I also don't feel like pooping in front of people (which I know happens in majority of times during pushing stage)... So yes I know all the horrible things which happen in labour and delivery. Lol and I'm petrified of all of them!! It a cross I guess I have to bear with no way to avoid it except insist on c section due to tokophobia and that too with either general anesthetic or IV sedation at very least. And a guarantee of adequate pain control for afterward. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GurpreetKaur Posted January 28, 2016 Report Share Posted January 28, 2016 @Satkirin_Kaur They are so cute!!!! The reaction at 0:22 is something I can watch 1000 times and melt every single time. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BhagatSingh Posted January 28, 2016 Report Share Posted January 28, 2016 18 minutes ago, GurpreetKaur said: They are so cute!!!! The reaction at 0:22 is something I can watch 1000 times and melt every single time. Lol that was my reaction for like 13 years straight. Are humans becoming weak? is nowWill you have babies? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GurpreetKaur Posted January 28, 2016 Report Share Posted January 28, 2016 8 minutes ago, BhagatSingh said: Lol that was my reaction for like 13 years straight. Are humans becoming weak? is nowWill you have babies? Lucky you, my daddy was never home sober, only when he did not drink for 5 years during the sarpanchi thingy( a miracle ) lol. Haha.. I don't know who started the baby thing. I can't resist babies and dogs talk lol. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BhagatSingh Posted January 28, 2016 Report Share Posted January 28, 2016 1 minute ago, GurpreetKaur said: Lucky you, my daddy was never home sober, only when he did not drink for 5 years during the sarpanchi thingy( a miracle ) lol. My dad was very religious, he did a lot of bhagti. I see a lot of his qualities in myself, the good and bad lol. Quote Haha.. I don't know who started the baby thing. I can't resist babies and dogs talk lol. Oh really? Wow I didn't know dogs could talk. ;) 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GurpreetKaur Posted January 28, 2016 Report Share Posted January 28, 2016 6 minutes ago, BhagatSingh said: My dad was very religious, he did a lot of bhagti. I see a lot of his qualities in myself, the good and bad lol. that's a great thing, very few people are blessed with spiritual parents. Oh really? Wow I didn't know dogs could talk. ;) I meant talk about dogs and babies but yup they do talk. @Satkirin_Kaur Do you like animals, I am like so curious about you lol 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BhagatSingh Posted January 28, 2016 Report Share Posted January 28, 2016 @GurpreetKaur Even spiritual parents annoy the shit out of you sometimes lol. But I probably don't know how good I have it, since I haven't had to deal with non-spiritual parents. I don't know if women experience this when they see guys, but as a guy, that girl off-screen is tugging on my attention each second of that video. No matter how much I focus on the dog, that string of awareness is constantly getting tugged towards the right. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CdnSikhGirl Posted January 28, 2016 Report Share Posted January 28, 2016 I'm in an apartment so I can't have dogs but I have a purebred Bengal cat and a ferret. The cat can string whole sentences together. Seriously YouTube Bangal cats taking. I grew up with dogs though. I love animals.... If anyone hurt an animal in front of me I think id murder them. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GurpreetKaur Posted January 28, 2016 Report Share Posted January 28, 2016 18 minutes ago, BhagatSingh said: @GurpreetKaur Even spiritual parents annoy the shit out of you sometimes lol. But I probably don't know how good I have it, since I haven't had to deal with non-spiritual parents. I don't know if women experience this when they see guys, but as a guy, that girl off-screen is tugging on my attention each second of that video. No matter how much I focus on the dog, that string of awareness is constantly getting tugged towards the right. Haha.. Naw, women only give attention to someone they have a crush on or are in love. See women do have control over men, that's what I have been saying since ages lol. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GurpreetKaur Posted January 28, 2016 Report Share Posted January 28, 2016 9 minutes ago, Satkirin_Kaur said: I'm in an apartment so I can't have dogs but I have a purebred Bengal cat and a ferret. The cat can string whole sentences together. Seriously YouTube Bangal cats taking. I grew up with dogs though. I love animals.... If anyone hurt an animal in front of me I think id murder them. Dogs talk too, they say I love yuuuuu lol. One cat always stand front of our door and do meow meow, she does not look stray. She's like pretty clean and once I tried to pet her. She was all cool and having fun then out of no where she ran. I sat there like a loser and thinking wait what happened billy? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CdnSikhGirl Posted January 28, 2016 Report Share Posted January 28, 2016 Her name is..... Maya lol 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GurpreetKaur Posted January 28, 2016 Report Share Posted January 28, 2016 1 minute ago, Satkirin_Kaur said: Her name is..... Maya lol Omg!!!!... I don't like cats but man can I have her???? She's beautiful!! 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GurpreetKaur Posted January 28, 2016 Report Share Posted January 28, 2016 I want them Alaskan Malamute. Walk with them in snow. They are beautiful lol. Even these animals are Maya, man getting rid of maya is hard lol 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CdnSikhGirl Posted January 28, 2016 Report Share Posted January 28, 2016 31 minutes ago, GurpreetKaur said: I want them Alaskan Malamute. Walk with them in snow. They are beautiful lol. Even these animals are Maya, man getting rid of maya is hard lol But the consciousness within them is NOT Maya... it's VERY real. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kdsingh80 Posted January 28, 2016 Author Report Share Posted January 28, 2016 6 hours ago, BhagatSingh said: Lol that was my reaction for like 13 years straight. Are humans becoming weak? is nowWill you have babies? Nothing wrong with that, if humans are becoming weak then eventually they are not going to have children . In sikhism this is on the rise , Birth rate is quite low and you see plenty of aged sikhs unmarried or couple with no or 1 child.Ultimately Sikhism will become like Parsi religion 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samurai Posted January 28, 2016 Report Share Posted January 28, 2016 8 hours ago, BhagatSingh said: @GurpreetKaur Even spiritual parents annoy the shit out of you sometimes lol. But I probably don't know how good I have it, since I haven't had to deal with non-spiritual parents. I don't know if women experience this when they see guys, but as a guy, that girl off-screen is tugging on my attention each second of that video. No matter how much I focus on the dog, that string of awareness is constantly getting tugged towards the right. count your blessings that you've got spiritual parents, my mums good with path pooja but my dad is like a typical jatt..annoying as hell. we clash so much especially when it comes to dharam.. when i first got into sikhi he was like "ageh piche kosh karda nee si, hon giani bangaya".lol my mind kept saying.."come on camera bit more to your right"..lol 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GurpreetKaur Posted January 28, 2016 Report Share Posted January 28, 2016 8 hours ago, kdsingh80 said: Nothing wrong with that, if humans are becoming weak then eventually they are not going to have children . In sikhism this is on the rise , Birth rate is quite low and you see plenty of aged sikhs unmarried or couple with no or 1 child.Ultimately Sikhism will become like Parsi religion Teens are popping kids like nobody's business these days. Lol. They ain't scared. I don't think we have to be concerned about population lol. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ragmaala Posted January 28, 2016 Report Share Posted January 28, 2016 " ain't no body got time for that" 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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