JOYce Posted October 27, 2003 Report Share Posted October 27, 2003 Success Ordinary men seeks security, unordinary ones looks for opportunity. "Why some people achieves success after success when the other ones only struggling for same. I got a few reasons by my thinking with the help of a great managemengt thinker. Might possible this list will be short but i tell U my friend this is not wrong. I hope u 'll surely help me to acomplish it. So be A THINKER. & post UR views. Waiting 4 UR views" Only URz Joyce STEPS TO BUILD A POSITIVE ATTITUDE · Change focus look for the positive. · Make a habit to do it now · Develop a attitude of gratitude · Get into the continuous education gaining program · Built a positive self-esteem · Stay away from negative influences · Learn to like the thinks , you must have to do. · Start your day with a positive · Be a good finder OBSTACLE TO SUCCESS · Ego · Fear of failure / success · No plan(ing) · Lack of formalized goals · Life changes · Procrastination (tal-m-tol) · Family responsibilities · Financial Security issues. · Lack of Focus · Giving up Vision for ready money · Doing too much alone · Over Commitment · Lack of Commitment · Lack of Training · Lack of Persistence (dridta) · Lack of Priorities Read the above list for 21 days(to remember & understand) & implement in your life and it’ll change ur life my dear. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JOYce Posted November 12, 2003 Author Report Share Posted November 12, 2003 After success formulae here is some success habits from the personalities of a few successful people from the pen of Sir Bill FitzPatrick. I hope this will ensurely help to develop UR personality as it does coz to me. read it with JOYce Commit to Never Ending Impro ve m e n t Constantly seek ways to do things better in all areas of your life. The Japanese have a word for the concept of never ending improvement, kaizen. Pro g ress and ultimate success come to those who train and keep training. If you choose to stop and become aware, you can become a better spouse, son, daug hter, friend, e m p l o y e r, employee, athlete and citizen. Commitment comes from the inside out and is tested often. Measure yourself against the best. Most others will choose to be average. This is what average means. You won’t know your limits if you don’t keep trying. Reject the idea of good enough. Commit to excellence. Take each of your goals and think of how you can improve one percent each month. Success is a journey. It is not a quick fix. The joy is in the doing. Think of success not as a peak to be climbed but a high plateau to be walked. Always encourage children or employees to do their best and to keep going. Set the bar high for yourself and them. You will all be the better for it.. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JOYce Posted November 14, 2003 Author Report Share Posted November 14, 2003 Success Sutra: The Joy Of Confidence Most people are always striving to better themselves. It's the "American Way." For proof, check the sales figures on the number of self-improvement books sold each year. It is an indication of people's awareness that in order to better themselves, they have to continue improving their personal abilities. To excel in any situation, you must have confidence, and confidence comes, first and foremost, from knowledge. You have to know and understand yourself and your goals. You have to recognize and accept your weaknesses as well as your special talents. This requires a kind of personal honesty that not everyone is capable of exercising. Getting up out of bed in the morning; doing what has to be done; and all the while increasing your own knowledge - all this very definitely requires a great deal of personal motivation, discipline, and energy. But then the rewards can be beyond your wildest dreams, for make no mistake about it. Confidence gives ... -You the ability to laugh at rejection -You a way to grab people's attention -You a quick and easy way to rid yourself of uneasy tension -You superior listening skills for peak performance Warning: It will cost you if don't have confidence but it will amaze you with what you can accomplish once you MASTER it! Now go out an experience the joy--it is time for you to have the same success as others. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sherni-E-Punjab Posted November 15, 2003 Report Share Posted November 15, 2003 Pay Check: 70% Monthly Neccesties 10% Savings 10% Charity 10% To Rupy Kaur = 100% ........... Joking, I forgot the other 10 now ..... 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JOYce Posted November 17, 2003 Author Report Share Posted November 17, 2003 Pay Check: 70% Monthly Neccesties 10% Savings 10% Charity 10% To Rupy Kaur = 100% ........... Joking, I forgot the other 10 now ..... hey Bunn I M serious about success So I expect same from U I hope U 'll be coz UR psoting reflects so. Hope next time U post some usefull in the reply. Waiting.................. URz It Depends Whose Hands It's In A basketball in my hands is worth about $19. A basketball in Michael Jordan's hands is worth about $33 million. It depends whose hands it's in A baseball in my hands is worth about $6. A baseball in Mark McGuire's hands is worth $19 million. It depends whose hands it's in A tennis racket is useless in my hands. A tennis racket in Venue Williams' hands is a Championship Winning. It depends whose hands it's in A rod in my hands will keep away a wild animal. A rod in Moses' hands will part the mighty sea. It depends whose hands it's in A sling shot in my hands is a kid's toy A sling shot in David's hand is a mighty weapon. It depends whose hands it's in Two fish and 5 loaves of bread in my hands is a couple of fish sandwiches. Two fish and 5 loaves of bread in God's hands will feed thousands. It depends whose hands it's in Nails in my hands might produce a birdhouse Nails in Jesus Christ's hands will produce salvation for the entire world. It depends whose hands it's in As you see now it depends whose hands it's in. So put your concerns, your worries, your fears, your hopes, your dreams, your families and your relationships in God's hands because It depends whose hands it's in. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JOYce Posted November 24, 2003 Author Report Share Posted November 24, 2003 " Become a good role model. Set a good example by your behavior. " " Wise people learn from their mistakes but wiser people learn from others mistakes." " Making a mistake is not the end of the world but repeating it certainly can be." " Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is a gift, thats why we call it the present." " People don't care how much you know, they want to know how much you care." " It's never too late to show kindness." " Laugh with people not at them." " Money becomes a blessing or a curse by the way we use or abuse it." " Don't gossip. People who gossip with you also gossip about you." " It is better to be alone than in bad company." " Jealous people: Their own problems don't bother them as much as other people's successes bother them." " Give sincere appreciation to others. Don't flatter. Appreciation comes from the heart, flattering comes from the mouth." " Make your parents proud and give a great heritage of values to your children." " Pick your mentors and role models carefully as they can lead or mislead you." " Never look for a job. Always look for a career." " Don't try to buy friendship. Stay away from the people who do that." " Take initiative. Don't wait for things to happen. Make them happen." " Personalities without principles make life miserable." " Judge a persons character not only by how they make a living but also how they spend it." " Choose your advisors based on values and not on convenience." " Learn to be nice to people. It is nice to be important but it is more important to be nice." " Learn to express your opinions but don't talk back to others. Learn the art of disagreeing without being disagreeable." " Become labeled as trustworthy and a person of integrity, because our credibility affects our profitability not only in money but also in goodwill." " Choose your friends carefully. We reveal our character not only by the company we keep but also by the company we avoid." " Return what you borrow on time as it builds credibility." " Don't cheat as it becomes a habit and habits form character." " Be well groomed because you never get a second chance to create a first impression." " Never take anything without asking permission because borrowing without permission is stealing." " Be polite, courteous and sensitive to others feelings. It shows compassion." " Remember you have freedom of choice but not freedom of consequences so make your choices carefully." " Accept constructive criticism in a positive manner. It only shows that the giver cares." " Honour is more important than Honours." " Do the right thing for the right reason." " Success is getting what you want, happiness is wanting what you get." " Do not disclose anything told in confidence." " Be a good listener. Listening shows caring and makes the other person feel important." " Practice courtesy. Don't complete the other persons sentence." " Don't whisper in the company of the others. It's bad manners." " Our actions and inactions can be hurtful to ourselves and others." " There is no accomplishment without activity. However, all activity does not result in accomplishment." 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JOYce Posted November 25, 2003 Author Report Share Posted November 25, 2003 Make Today Special Many people enjoy using the first few minutes of the day for their re f l e c t i v e time. How did yesterday go? What do you want to accomplish today? What will be most important? This, of course, becomes your prioritized to-do list. How will today vary from your usual routine? Can you think of any small things that you can do? Perhaps there is something that you’ve been avoiding, that, if you do it, would make you feel especially proud of yourself. Give each day a specific purpose. For unsuccessful, unhappy people, there is often a sameness to their days. Is it Monday or Thursday? Is it March or November? Is it 3 o'clock in the afternoon or 10 o'clock in the morning? They’re in a rut and it doesn't matter. Everybody has the same amount of time each day. How are you going to spend your 24 hours? Plan in advance. Make lists. Lists are your road map to personal accomplishment and balanced living. Always carry paper and pen. What are you doing today to ensure a better tomorrow for yourself and your family?. . 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JOYce Posted November 26, 2003 Author Report Share Posted November 26, 2003 TEAM WORK A bunch of smart MBA students about to give their final paper just got nicely drunk & did not study. Next day morning remorse filled them & they thought of a brilliant idea of fooling their dean to cover their absence. They painted their hands & dresses with oil & grease &, with disheveled hair, they burst in the examination hall where the paper was going on. They painted a sob story of how their car developed a flat tyre the previous night on a desolate road & how they didn't get any help & had to rough out back to the campus which they reached just a few minutes earlier. They pleaded for a re-exam after a few days. The dean said he was a reasonable man & he would give the re-exam after three days. The boys worked hard for the three days & went to the hall confidently. The dean explained that since this was an extraordinary request, the four students will give the examination from four different halls, the question paper being the same. The question paper was given to the four halls.It had 100 marks.The first question which had just 5 marks was simple. The second question which had 95 marks was:- "WHICH TYRE ??" They all write different 'n' feel shame while submitting to it... So Team work is essential !!!!! – . 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JOYce Posted December 10, 2003 Author Report Share Posted December 10, 2003 Risk Failure Be ready. There is no better time to start taking positive action than right now. You re s e a rch and you have confidence in your preparations. You don’t allow yourself to become paralyzed by indecision. You realize that a time comes when you must act. If you hesitate too long, doubts will linger and turn into fears. Yes, you may stumble. Yes, you may be rejected. Yes, you may fail. This is life. Life’s winners accept that in trying they may have to adjust and even start again and again. The diff e rence between successful people and others is not whether you make mistakes or even temporarily fail, but how you re s p o n d . Many people look for guarantees before taking independent action. Yet, in seeking assurances, they frequently receive cautions, which can easily be used as excuses for inaction. Be aware that those who love you the most may be the loudest in warning you not to risk.. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JOYce Posted December 15, 2003 Author Report Share Posted December 15, 2003 FACT #1 WHAT'S AIMED AT VENUS BUT REACHES MARS? This may sound familiar, if you have felt burdened with the task of flawless management at work and at home which means, taking your boardroom with equal magnitude which also means that the women in you has to squeeze the chores of 48 hours in 24 hours. The day demands you to be superwoman. Which you do only to crack up under pressure. So when do you "no" and treat yourself as human? Would require a messiah to show you the way. Thank God. Famine makes sure you don't go nuts. It also makes sure that the message reaches the male fraternity. Perfect target, then. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JOYce Posted December 16, 2003 Author Report Share Posted December 16, 2003 Cause Change The status quo may be comforting, but for there to be growth, there must be change. Since you seek growth, you must seek change. You must see yourself and your environment not only as it is, but also as it could and should be. Yo u seek the changes necessary to reach the better you so that you can play your part in making a better world. First, you change yourself. Can you change your day and spend more time with your family? Can you change your standard lunch routine and take a walk? Can you change your drive home and stop at a nursing home for twenty min-utes and see someone who may have few visitors? Can you change your off i c e habits and find the time to make five more phone calls? What are the possible consequences of not changing? Realize that many people don’t make plans because they don’t want to risk any change. Doing little with your life is much easier and safer than taking risks, but then you will be a small person. Instead, seek the changes which will allow you to be all that you can be.. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JOYce Posted December 19, 2003 Author Report Share Posted December 19, 2003 Act As You Feel When you feel in the mood to do something, this is the best time to do it. If you feel happy, smile. If you feel daring, act. If you receive good service, compliment. If you feel energetic, do something positive. If you know a good joke, tell it. If you feel generous, give. If you are interested in becoming wealthy, save and invest. If someone needs help, lend them your strong hands or soft voice. If you give your word, keep it. If you want to make things better, vote.. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JOYce Posted December 22, 2003 Author Report Share Posted December 22, 2003 UR Approach The Trip One day a father of a very wealthy family took his son on a trip to the country with the firm purpose of showing his son how poor people live.They spent a couple of days and nights on the farm of what would be considered a very poor family. On their return from their trip, the father asked his son, "How was the trip?" "It was great, Dad." "Did you see how poor people live?" the father asked. "Oh yeah," said the son. "So, tell me, what did you learn from the trip?" asked the father. The son answered: "I saw that we have one dog and they had four. We have a pool that reaches to the middle of our garden and they have a creek that has no end. We have imported lanterns in our garden and they have the stars at night. Our patio reaches to the front yard and they have the whole horizon. We have a small piece of land to live on and they have fields that go beyond our sight. We have servants who serve us, but they serve others. We buy our food, but they grow theirs. We have walls around our property to protect us, they have friends to protect them." The boy's father was speechless. Then his son added, "Thanks, Dad, for showing me how poor we are." Isn't perspective a wonderful thing? Makes you wonder what would happen if we all gave thanks for everything we have, instead of worrying about what we don't have. Appreciate every single thing you have, especially your friends! "Life is too short and friends are too few." 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JOYce Posted December 23, 2003 Author Report Share Posted December 23, 2003 Success Path 'Success isn't the absence of failure. It is having the determination to never quit because "quitters never win and winners never quit". Almost every person who has achieved anything worthwhile with his or her life has not only experienced failure, but experienced it many times... God wants you to achieve something worthwhile - not necessarily spectacular... If you feel you have failed, be encouraged. Now's the time to give God a chance. "He'll mend even a broken heart if you'll give him all the pieces."' 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JOYce Posted December 27, 2003 Author Report Share Posted December 27, 2003 The Victor If you think you are beaten, you are. If you think you dare not, you don't. If you like to win but think you can't, It's almost a cinch you won't. If you think you'll lose, you're lost. For out in the world we find Success begins with a fellow's will. It's all in the state of mind. If you think you are out classed, you are. You've got to think high to rise. You've got to be sure of your-self before You can ever win the prize. Life's battles don't always go To the stronger or faster man. But sooner or later, the man who wins Is the man who thinks he can. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JOYce Posted January 9, 2004 Author Report Share Posted January 9, 2004 Do U Know Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover......... . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . MARK TWAIN 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JOYce Posted January 22, 2004 Author Report Share Posted January 22, 2004 LIFE AS A JUGGLER In a university commencement address several years ago, Brian Dyson, CEO of Coca Cola Enterprises, spoke of the relation of work to one's other commitments: "Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air. You name them - work, family, health, friends and spirit - and you're keeping all of these in the air. You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls - family, health, friends and spirit - are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered. They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How? -Don't undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special. -Don't set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you. -Don't take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless. -Don't let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life -Don't give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. -Don't be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each other. -Don't be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. -Don't shut love out of your life by saying it's impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings. -Don't run through life so fast that you forget Not only where you've been, but also where you are going. -Don't forget, a person's greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. -Don't be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily. -Don't use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved. -Life is not a race, but a journey to be savored each step of the way. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JOYce Posted February 18, 2004 Author Report Share Posted February 18, 2004 Maintain A P o s i t i ve Mental Attitude A positive mental attitude results from a life dedicated to self-impro v e m e n t and service. With a personal commitment to doing your best today, you don’t have to be overly concerned about tomorrow. You can be confident that good things will happen and be equally confident that if trouble comes you will have the strength and skills to cope, take control and then conquer. You are tough. You stay at it. You don’t allow your doubts to destroy your dreams. Hope does spring etern a l . You are thankful to have the curiosity to keep learning. You are grateful to see opportunity knock so often. You are thankful to have the personality to keep making new friends. Your mind can only hold one thought at a time so make that one thought positive. Count your blessings. The way is clear. The world is a better place because you are in it.. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Noor Posted February 19, 2004 Report Share Posted February 19, 2004 JOYce ..thnx for that, was really good. I especially like the 'It Depends Whose Hands It's In' ..thats so true. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JOYce Posted February 28, 2004 Author Report Share Posted February 28, 2004 UR welcome Noor Virre. Anyway Life is a worth Must see worthiness of it.... http://www.sikhawareness.com/sikhawareness...opic.php?t=3649 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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