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wjkk,wjkf the way i got Gurbani kant was by hearing my parents every morning, from the age of 5 to 10, they would wake me up amrit vela to sit with them and listen. then i started reading from a gutka for correct pronounciations. I teach Gurbani to sikh youth were i live and the most effective way of learning to memorize is by taking it step by step, for example: Jap Ji Sahib most of you all know mool mantre and maybe a liitle more. next step i would say is take 5 poree's at a time or 2 pages at a time, once you have that much memorized then move on to the 5 poree's or 2 pages. This is how i tought 8 yer olds to recite Jap Ji Sahib kant. and now their working on Jaap Sahib. (remember step by step) also listening helps, put Cd's of Gurbani on that your working on to memorize and just keep on litsening until you are able to recite with what your listening to. And even if you know your Bhaanee's kant do use a gutka just for the sake of not making pronounciation mistakes. i hope my procedures help someone. wjkk,wjkf

wjkk,wjkf well, i know my Nitnaym and Rehraas kant, also many shabads since i do Kirtan, now i'm working on memorizing Asaa Di Vaar. personal expirence:Well i'll say this much that it is very easy to get distracted while reciting Gurbani, but by focusing and understanding what i'm reciting gives me such energy when i'm done, and it lasts all day, well thats me. soo much more but can't explain in words. oh i just want to say, if you are distracted don't force yourself to recite Gurbani, Gurbani should be recited in nimrata and sharda so wait until mind is clear and then restart. wjkk,wjkf

My gursikh bhanji is aware everything will be fine she has full faith in waheguroo. She is recovering from the damage that was done to her and her parents. There are many true gursikhs out there but there are also many pakandis(fake) I just want to remind you all my question was what should be done about such pakandi (fake) gursikhs singhs? wjkk,wjkf

He saw the gursikh girl from distance and fell in love with her, at the beginging he looked like a decent gursikh man only after the families got them engaged the true identity of this guy came out. they were never dating they were engaged (to be married) for a couple of months and even then the girls parents never allowed them to go out, but the only contact they had was phone calls or e-mails. wjkk, wjkf

i'm telling the facts that relate to both families, i know exactly what happened in both families i'm not just telling you all what i heard, i was there when it all happened. the guy did feel guilty of breaking her engagement but he claims that if he loves someone he will do anything to get her, but he is married so how much of a chance does he really think he has? the family has no problem with the rishta breaking they do realize waheguroo does everything for a reason, the situation is that these singhs walk among other singhs and are looked up to because of the way they present temselves wearing bana and giving advice to other singhs. i think that after what he did he really does not deserve all this respect of being such a great singh, look beyond the bana you will see a manipulative freak, who will anything to save himself even if it means ruining someone emotionally and mentally. He is living his life o.k great but now this girl is messed up because of him and his actions. he didn't lose anything but a mother and father lost a part of their daughter, a brother lost his sister, and a little sister lost the person she looked up to, all this because of one guy who is now living the life with his wife. wjkk, wjkf

the second guy heard the rumers and ran straight for india. He didn't give his engagement a chance, nore did he trust the girl. he is also spread the rumers that he heard from the first guy, so he did the same thing as the first dude wjkk, wjkf

wjkk, wjkf i would never name the guy or the girl, the parents are very well known and who ever knows them they know what happened. i witness everything that had happened and yes there are stories that the guy made up to cover himself so that he looks like the good guy, sure he could be in the clear and noone would believe the girl side, that is whats happening .only the people who were there and saw everything from the day they got engaged know the truth. the least the guy can do is go in sangat and apoligize to the girls parents to admit he did wrong. when a girl is insulted(badhnami) it walks with her for a long time even if she knows it all a lie it affects her, her parents, brother and sister. with Waheguroo ji di kirpa she will one day get over all this, wjkk,wjkf

wjkk, wjkf first of all i want to say great job with this site! I have a very important gursikh friend who is like a sister to me and a incident occured in this gursikh family that bothered me a lot, i wanted to share this with you all, to see what you all think! A very well-known gursikh family was played with by a so called gursikh. He claimed to be in love with their gursikh daughter, he manipulated, played, broke down this gursikh girl. At one point he was engaged to her but when she came to her senses the family broke off the engagement. But while they were engaged he tortured her mentally, he would book hotel rooms and try to convince her to go with him but she never went, he made her go against her family. He disrespected her and her family. As the rishta broke he got so angry that he showed up at her cegep, in public started to drag her, she faught him and a security guard came and stoped the fight, the guard ask if she wanted to press charges and she said yes. he was in jail for three days then the girl and the parents went to court, some families begged the girls family to let it all go, her parents thaught about it and gave him a chance since that guy had no father on his head to take care of him. This so called gursikh got married and now is living his own seperate life. this gursikh girl was getting engaged for the second time everything was going well until her first fiance(guy she was engaged to) called up the new guy she was engaged to and started to tell dreadfull, disgusting, horrifying, lies about her. I'm saying lies that can ruin a indian girls life. The new guy broke off the engagement since he believed those lies. The guy wanted revenge for being sent to jail, now he was satisfied. Her parents who people looked up to are now suffering, they lost a part of their daughter, she now does not believe in gursikhs, she has changed, because those lies have damaged her emotionally and mentally. Now my question to all of you is that, this so called gursikh walks among other gursikhs, noone has punished him, nore has he asked for forgiveness what do you think should be done to these types of singhs? i personally think he does not even deserve to be called a singh, a true gursikh would never take revenge on a gursikh bibi. wjkk, wjkf