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  1. On 9/6/2023 at 12:50 PM, GurjantGnostic said:

    Think about this Veer Ji,

    If you apply that logic to all 4 kurehit then even thinking about a cigarette

    This one is also correct. Its known as Jagat Jooth. In many traditions if you said this T-word you had to wash your mouth and say “Waheguru”. Thinking of this crap , negativity enters mind. As per bachans of puratan Mahapurkhs and True Guru. 

  2. On 9/6/2023 at 12:50 PM, GurjantGnostic said:

    Think about this Veer Ji,

    If you apply that logic to all 4 kurehit then even thinking about a cigarette, a drink, a haircut or some camel meat breaks Amrit. You smell kabab? Amrit broken. 

    I do agree with what you do in mind you do karmically though, but when it comes to Kurehit and Amrit I think the line is drawn in the doingness. 


    The above video is your answer to the 4th kurehat.

    btw taking food from a person who uses Tobacco is also a bujjer kurehat.

  3. On 9/28/2023 at 6:12 AM, SriAkaalJiSahai said:

    VJKK VJKF!

    So as the title states. How do you the sangat deal with Indian food smell?

    How do you combat the smell during the cooking process and after?

    How do make dishes without the smell being so potent and strong?

    Has anyone every called you out because you smell like "curry"?

    I just wanna smell good and feel good. I do take good hygiene care. I shower everyday, I use good products, I apply perfume oil very mindfully, I steam iron my clothes (I never wear the same stuff for more than 2 days) I always change my undergarments everyday or 2 days(depends how bad it is)

    If

  4. On 9/24/2023 at 10:30 AM, Harjapman said:But slowly slowly I fell into lust and then I started waking up late, couldn’t be bothered to path(even if I did, I wouldn’t enjoy it). I used to go to santhia but even that’s becoming boring to me now. Everything is starting to feel like a chore and all I want is to have that desire of Amrit again. 

     

    please tell me what this manmukh should do. 

    You need to keep good company and sangat. Which can be in form of books, social media, gurudwara.

    You also need to be re-baptized because you have given into lust. Lusting over woman is a bujjer kurehit, which is part of “Par istri sang” means companionship of a woman other than your wife. It can be physical, mental —- Kal Yug has many forms of sins in 2023. So stay away from bad things.

  5. On 3/20/2018 at 9:11 AM, rinkal said:

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    ਕਯੋ ਕੀਤਾ ? 😡🤬

    ਹੁਣ ਜਦੋ ਅਗੇ ਵਿਆਹ ਕਾਰਵਾਓਗੇ ਤੇ ਅਗਲੇ ਸਪੌਸ ਨੂੰ ਤੁਸੀ ਦੋਨੋ ਜੂਨੇ ਇਹ ਗੁਲ ਦੱਸੋਗੇ ਕੇ ਲੂਕਾ ਕੇ ਰੱਖੋ ਗੇ 

    ਜਿਹ ਸੁਜਾ ਸਿਰਫ ਮੂੰਹ ਕਾਲਾ ਕਰਵਾਣ ਦੀ ਹੈ ਤਾ ਇਹ ਤਾ ਬਹੁਤ ਹੀ ਫਾਇਦੇ ਵਾਲੀ ਸੁਜਾ ਹੈ | ਜਿਸ ਵਿਚ ਥਵਾਦੀ ਨਿੰਦਿਆ ਹੋਣੀ ਹੈ ਸੰਗਤ ਚ ਅਥਵਾ ਪਾਪ ਦਾ ਭਾਰ ਖਤਮ ਜਾ ਫੇਰ ਘੁੱਟ ਹੋ ਜਾਣਾ ਹੈ |

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  6. On 9/12/2023 at 7:59 PM, kdsingh80 said:

    https://indianexpress.com/article/cities/chandigarh/punjab-tourism-hub-cm-bhagwant-mann-pitches-amritsar-wedding-destination-film-city-8935033/

     

    With Delhi Amritsar expressway coming in 2024, this is great idea. Mann is doing serious effort to improve economy of Punjab. 

    Bad idea. More alcohol dancing singing and disrespectful tourist in ASR.

  7. On 5/31/2021 at 9:06 PM, Trimandeep Singh said:

    Not to offend anyone but I found these verses in Sri Gyan Parbodh by Guru Gobind Singh Ji Maharaj.

    ਅਧੋ ਸੁ ਧੂਮ ਧੂਮਹੀ॥
    Many with faces upside down light the fire
    ਅਘੂਰ ਨੇਤ੍ਰ ਘੂਮਹੀ॥
    Many ascetics roam forsaking their sleep.
    ਸੁ ਪੰਚ ਅਗਨ ਸਾਧੀਯੰ॥
    Many perform austerity of five fires

    ਨ ਤਾਮ ਪਾਰ ਲਾਧੀਯੰ॥੧੦॥੮੮॥
    Even they have not been able to know thy limits.


    ਅਨੰਤ ਜਗ੍ਯ ਕਰਮਣੰ ॥
    (ਭਾਵੇਾਂ ਕੋਈ) ਅਨੰਤ ਯੱਗ ਅਤੇ ਕਰਮ (ਕਰਦਾ ਫਿਰੇ)
    The performance of innumerable acts of sacrifices

    ਗਜਾਦਿ ਆਦਿ ਧਰਮਣੰ ॥
    The performance of the religious act of giving elephants etc. in charity
    ਅਨੇਕ ਦੇਸ ਭਰਮਣੰ ॥
    Wandering in many countries
    ਨ ਏਕ ਨਾਮ ਕੇ ਸਮੰ ॥੧੨॥੯੦॥
    All these acts do not equal the merit of the remembrance of the Name of One Lord.

    ਕਰੋਰ ਕੋਟ ਦਾਨਕੰ॥
    One may perform millions of types of charities
    ਅਨੇਕ ਜਗ੍ਯ ਕ੍ਰਤਬਿਯੰ॥
    (ਅਨੇਕ ਤਰ੍ਰਹਾ ਦੇ ਯੱਗ ਕਰਦਾ ਫਿਰੇ)
    He may perform many types of sacrifices and actions.

    ਸਨ੍ਯਾਸ ਆਦਿ ਧਰਮਣੰ ॥
    One may adopt the religious garb of mendicant
    ਉਦਾਸ ਨਾਮ ਕਰਮਣੰ ॥੧੫॥੯੩॥
    He may perform many rituals of a hermit. 


    ਜਗਾਦਿ ਆਦਿ ਧਰਮਣੰ ॥
    (ਭਾਵੇਾਂ ਕੋਈ) ਯੱਗ ਆਦਿ ਧਰਮਾ ਦਾ ਪਾਲਨ ਕਰੇ,
    One may perform the religious acts of the ancient ages

    ਬੈਰਾਗ ਆਦਿ ਕਰਮਣੰ ॥
    He may perform the ascetic and monastic works.
    ਦਯਾਦਿ ਆਦਿ ਕਾਮਣੰ ॥
    He may perform the works of mercy etc., and magic
    ਅਨਾਦ ਸੰਜਮੰ ਬ੍ਰਿਦੰ ॥੧੭॥੯੫॥
    They are all wworks of great restraint, prevalent from times immemorial.

     

    I don't think any type of Sikh Havan or Hindu Havan has been mentioned. If guru sahib has rejected something, doesn't mean we produce a 'Sikh' version of it and justify it by reading certain banis.

    There's no need of doing Havan. If it would have been, it must be mentioned in Gurbani. 

    Gurmukhs like Baba Harnaam Singh Ji, Bhai Sahib Randhir Singh Ji, Sant Attar Singh Ji and probably Nanaksar waale Mahapurakhs also never engaged in these rituals.

    It's better to spend your time reading and understanding bani than to discover new ways to attain Mukti. As long as you follow Rehat and do abhyaas, no-one can stop you.

    And even if Havan was in line with Sikhi, we don't find any hukam for this anywhere. So if it's true, still it is not a Paap if you don't do it. This is MY logic for jhatka, sukha etc. We can't find any HUKAMS related to them. But we should just respect those people who do these and focus on ourselves.

    Bhul chuk maaf

    Trimandeep Singh 

    Correct. No place for fire rituals

  8. With surti & mental concentration a person can get darshan and knowledge of different places, ppl etc. with surti mental concentrqation a person can feel hot / cold on their body when its really not present physically. A person who spends time mentally in such acts has already broken their amrit. Bcoz an act done in high mental concentration is same as experienced physically.

    western definition of adultery is limited to only sexual intercourse. Sikhi definition of adultery is *not* but encompass all acts that would involve companionship with a woman who is  ot your wife. Its a cardinal sin.-

     

  9. A person will get sex thoughts time to time, it has to do with your intention. There is difference in “thinking” & “lusting”.  Once you are enjoying lust over a woman. You have already violated her. Even though she may not know this. Some ppl think that they can get away with just mental lust and henceforth new morcha in kal yug has opened up. This is just another extension of the physical act.

  10. 2 hours ago, GurjantGnostic said:

    That's not advised but not a kurehit. 

    1. Cutting or trimming of hair or Kesh,

    2. Fornication or adultery,

    3. Halal meat 

    4. Use of tobacco and intoxication drug.

    English translation above misinterpreted and made suit to fit Western culture definition of adultery. Sikh principle is very high and cant 4 kuraits cannot be interpreted to suit western definitions.


    What the author did falls into “Par istri sang”…. and this includes mental act via surti carries same consequence that would be of actual physical. 

  11. On 2/21/2021 at 8:20 PM, Samarbir Singh said:

    I went on a vacation and my cousions were and he is bad influence and starting talking to me about sex and stuff like that and because we were on vacation I missed out on rehras sahib and Kirtan Sohila and morning nitnem the next day also I masterbaited and relapsed and I feel so bad and I mad at myself how stupid I am will I be forgiven

    You need to get pesh and retake amrit. This one of 4 kuraits. Before u retake amrit make sure u stop all this. There is zero room (allowance) for such things in Sikhi. Your not even allowed to think of another woman in your dreams, even by mistake. 

  12. On 2/22/2021 at 6:03 AM, Guest Paapiman said:

    Calm down bro. Just Calm down. Dont make masturbation look like an assault or a murder. Masturbation is NOT a Cardinal sin.

    Do Ardas for forgiveness and try not to repeat the same mistake again.

     

    Bhul chuk maaf

    Its a cardinal sin. Lusting, fanatcising & watching things. You need to re-baptize. This is par istri sang. Companionship with another woman even though its mental. Its the same. Its a new weapon of kal yug.

  13. On 3/6/2016 at 10:39 AM, paapiman said:

    Some more tips (from another topic):

    • Diet control - Avoid spicy food, Garlic, eating from outside, etc.
    • Before you go to sleep, recite Sri Kirtan Sohela Sahib jee 5 times, instead of one. Do jaap of Rakheya day shabad. This won't take much time
    • Keep playing Gurbani on an audio player, while you are asleep
    • When you wake up, immediately start doing jaap of Mool Mantar or any Shabad you like. Keep the mala/counter nearby.
    • Engage in physical workout, when sexual thoughts attack
    • Wash your hands, feet and face with cold water, when sexual thoughts attack
    • Start listening to Katha and Kirtan, when sexual thoughts attack. For most people, one can concentrate in them, better than Naam Simran/Nitnem.
    • Start playing a game or watching a documentary or engage in any other activity, which can assist you in diverting your mind from sexual thoughts

     

    Bhul chuk maaf

    The only way is via Guru Shabad / Gurbani. Rest is all superficial. Constant saturation of mind with Gurbani and focussed listenning to Gurbani.

  14. On 1/2/2023 at 8:30 AM, Guru_Ka_Daas said:

    I was born in America, parents from Punjab India. I have been myself been studying religions throughout my life. My life has not been easy though from day I was born I've been experiencing obstacles, betrayals, sadness and disappointments through out my life. That's why I am trying to become more spiritual with Guru Sahibs and deciding to increase my prayers. Although it seems like no matter how much I pray and try to stay positive only negative things happen with me - so I am not sure if it's my past Karma from previous births? Because in this birth I am certain did nothing wrong, but I have to tolerate my struggles I guess. I've just accepted my fate / destiny. Do you know by any chance all other Banis what day of time should be recited such as Day time or night time or afternoon for Shastar Naam mala, Braham Kavach etc. 

    I can understand. Ppl leaving their cultures & migrating to foreign lands is a tragedy for kids like you.

  15. On 12/15/2022 at 2:44 PM, paapiman said:

    There is a reason that consumption of alcohol is a Kurehat and not a Bajjar Kurehat. Singhs can consume alcohol in a battlefield. There are two historical references to alcohol consumption in Sikh literature.

    Other than that, Sardar Charat Singh Sukarchakia, the famous Sikh warrior and grandfather of Maharaja Ranjit Singh used to drink alcohol too. Maharaja Ranjit Singh, who has made Sikhs famous all over the world, also used to drink alcohol. Just a couple of examples. Obviously, they don't justify the use of alcohol for recreational or intoxication purposes.

    Also, from a modern perspective, alcohol is probably used in a lot of medications and other stuff like colognes, mouthwashes, deodorants, etc, so it makes sense for it to be a Kurehat only.

     

    Bhul chuk maaf

    Was Maharaja Ranjit Singh, amritdhari?

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