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"Did Zaehner who was an alcoholic19 know anything about Guru Nanak’s teachings?" LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

please give some honest thoughtful advice to a young person on How to be a Singh in Todays World. I dont want to hear too much about wishy washy spiritual stuff unless its meaningful and useful. examples on things to address: 1- looks - a beard, a turban, a kara - should you aim to be a pretty boy? or is the natural look for a singh to be tough roughed warrior type whos not too fussed. depending on the person, singhs can do either, and some are better at one than the other. 2- girls. treat them like princesses? should a singh should do his own thing, and not chase a girl, be too sensitive and kiss up to her. i think so. 3-career/sport - a singh should be good at what he does, set himself apart by having lots of heart and doing well. 4- healthy - a singh shouldnt be too skinny or too fat. he should watch his diet and keep fit. 5- be knowledgeable about his history, religion, and have a good command of general knowledge and common sense. in short, be educated and sensible. 6- shouldnt steal, screw over other ppl, steal cheat, etc. should be honest and dependable. should want to do right, where he can, and shouldnt miss up a chance to help out someone who needs it. .. those are just thigns that came to mind. please add your own personal lessons learnt, etc. yes, the above doesnt necessarily apply only to singhs, it can apply to anyone. but it does apply to a singh, and it iis important.

waheguru ji ka khalsa .. waheguru ji ka khalsa due to gurus blesssing, my family have found a great gift ... she is a small puppy doggy who is now our pet. there is a small problem, she does not know how to bark... and there is also another problem .. she has long sort of hair and it falls over her eyes. is it ok to cut that hair short.. so it doesnt cover her eyes? is this against sikhi.. phul chook maaf

you shouldnt have sex at all if you are not ready

the answer is simple and remarkable - seek out the company of believers in a social setting (eg a football club, gurdwara, church or other - deleting the others as desired), do as they do and make an effort to interact fully in their customs, observing their rituals and establishing a social bond with the community. By now you are half way there - the next part is more difficult and in some ways easier. Actively seek out things that delight you - for example you might discover the writings of a great author, or the music of a superb artist, it can be anything really. Now all of this is good fun, but you really need to address any outstanding problems that stand in your way. Think carefully and widely about it, then with courage, push yourself to follow through in your resolution. If you are a sikh, then this will solve your problem about faith because if you believe sikh teachings - then all that happiness is due to the Creator - and so you should have faith because he has made you happy - rewarded you for your faith and so on. It will also demonstrate that faith is found and sometimes lost, too easily, and regardless of what people might say, it isnt something mysterious or shall we say, spiritual - instead it is directly related to our immediate experiences, and its explanation or lack of, lies within our social interactions. The sikh gurus knew this fact fully well, and it is for that reason that they stressed the importance of social involvement. neo, pheena if your arguments cannot even convince a child than santa clause exists - then what good will it do to explain to a thinking adult that an invisible being is watching her, and so she should have faith that he does - isnt this very circular anyway. I suspect there is nothing in sikh scriptures that can convince a skeptical person about god. Which is pretty amusing to me, because if you cant even do that - then what value can you ascribe to religious faith, which is just blind faith. Its strange that the sikh gurus placed so much emphasis on God - when it seems quite clear to me that theirs was a philosophy of extremely practical interest. For example by stressing the benefits of an egalitarian society they gave us a refreshing social model to follow. Perhaps they adopted the idea of god only to put all good and decent men of whatever background on the same level by postulating that theirs was a common god. Or maybe they genuinely believed in god - but they do not stop to explain this to their sikhs, it is automatically taken for granted that by deciding to be a sikh you believe - which is reasonable from their perspective of making a religon, but for someone neutral, it doesnt stand to reason.

sorry, that didnt work either.. it sounds like trying to convince a teenager that santa clause exists because he 'watches over you' etc etc

im in the same boat actually.. and to be honest, no amount of quoting "he watches over you" will help one bit! thats not gonna do it ppl. use your heads, come up with something original, rise to the occasion. are you men of god so much devoid of creativity? does not your great faith in the supreme creator inspire you above the ordinary? anyway, kaur ji, while the last thing i wanna do is dwell on 'faith problems', if you need to talk, feel free to drop me a message.

why are you sitting infront of a computer reading websites when you could be listening to kirtan doing naam jap or seva? why do you spend two hours a day eating when you could be doing naam jaap? why do you sleep 10 hours a day when you could be doing seva? like i said, if you need to assume that, go ahead. u wanna have a baby and sometimes it takes more than one go....

When married, do you imagine spending quality time doing household work with your beloved? Would this be a spiritual thing? If so, would that involve listening to kirtan, reciting gurbani, discussing stuff, doing kirtan, etc? Maybe washing dishes to a shabad or going to sleep to kirtan? Could you make love to your partner while listening to gurbani in the background? Also give a clear and concise explanation. Thanks. (if you need to, assume your trying for a baby and the fate of the human race depends on it)

veer if your cards fill up, just go to one of the larger towns and find a photo place. they usually have some card readers and will happily tranfer your photos onto blank cds. this way you can have backups and keep snapping photos without having to carry your laptop around. my suggestion is not to bother taking it with you, it might not be worth the hassle. and you might appreciate not having a computer around for a change!

by seeking from your question you are heading down a road full of misery, anger and frustration. why do that to yourself? cultivate love and thrive in it. those around you will notice and what happens next is up to them. educate yourself, so you can one day be in a position to answer the questions of a youngster. be the change you wish to see listen and learn, practise good hygiene

if you use gel .. stop using it after a few days your dhari will look better.

waheguru waheguru

waheguru waheguru