Trimandeep Singh

Sangat here can visit AKJ.Org and GurmatBibek.com. The websites have plenty of recipes of cookies, ice creams, cupcakes, pizza etc for those people who want to follow dietary bibek and make everything at home from scratch. I know a family here in Delhi and their home made namkeen and chips are much better than Haldirams and Bikano foods.
Here are the links
https://www.akj.org/blog.php?q=Ng==
https://www.gurmatbibek.com/category.php?id=68
Trimandeep Singh

Haven't read anything related to this in any of the Rehatnamey. But senior gursikhs do believe that kirpaan shouldn't be worn under the Chola/shirts/kurta, whatever one is wearing.
Trimandeep Singh 

Many gursikhs do avoid contact with the opposite gender because before reaching a certain avastha, one can fall into kaam's sharan easily. 
So, gursikhs say that one shouldn't chat or talk unnecessarily to the opposite gender, especially jigyasus. Just greet with a Fateh if you encounter someone.
Regarding the situation when a beautiful (in terms of appearance) girl approaches you, then the first thing one should do is think that she's the daughter of Guru Nanak Dev Ji. If you can successfully fit this in your mind, it would reduce your chances of falling into kaamic thoughts by large. 
(Seekers should definitely try this...not only stops kaamic thoughts but also improves your behavior and thoughts about others)
And obviously you are right in saying that just by avoiding travel and communication with the opposite gender, one can't get rid of kaam. We should always try to do jaap of Gurbani or mool mantar in our minds when we think that we are in a vulnerable situation.
Trimandeep Singh 

Haven't read anything related to this in any of the Rehatnamey. But senior gursikhs do believe that kirpaan shouldn't be worn under the Chola/shirts/kurta, whatever one is wearing.
Trimandeep Singh 

Sangat here can visit AKJ.Org and GurmatBibek.com. The websites have plenty of recipes of cookies, ice creams, cupcakes, pizza etc for those people who want to follow dietary bibek and make everything at home from scratch. I know a family here in Delhi and their home made namkeen and chips are much better than Haldirams and Bikano foods.
Here are the links
https://www.akj.org/blog.php?q=Ng==
https://www.gurmatbibek.com/category.php?id=68
Trimandeep Singh

Haven't read anything related to this in any of the Rehatnamey. But senior gursikhs do believe that kirpaan shouldn't be worn under the Chola/shirts/kurta, whatever one is wearing.
Trimandeep Singh 

Many gursikhs do avoid contact with the opposite gender because before reaching a certain avastha, one can fall into kaam's sharan easily. 
So, gursikhs say that one shouldn't chat or talk unnecessarily to the opposite gender, especially jigyasus. Just greet with a Fateh if you encounter someone.
Regarding the situation when a beautiful (in terms of appearance) girl approaches you, then the first thing one should do is think that she's the daughter of Guru Nanak Dev Ji. If you can successfully fit this in your mind, it would reduce your chances of falling into kaamic thoughts by large. 
(Seekers should definitely try this...not only stops kaamic thoughts but also improves your behavior and thoughts about others)
And obviously you are right in saying that just by avoiding travel and communication with the opposite gender, one can't get rid of kaam. We should always try to do jaap of Gurbani or mool mantar in our minds when we think that we are in a vulnerable situation.
Trimandeep Singh 

Many gursikhs do avoid contact with the opposite gender because before reaching a certain avastha, one can fall into kaam's sharan easily. 
So, gursikhs say that one shouldn't chat or talk unnecessarily to the opposite gender, especially jigyasus. Just greet with a Fateh if you encounter someone.
Regarding the situation when a beautiful (in terms of appearance) girl approaches you, then the first thing one should do is think that she's the daughter of Guru Nanak Dev Ji. If you can successfully fit this in your mind, it would reduce your chances of falling into kaamic thoughts by large. 
(Seekers should definitely try this...not only stops kaamic thoughts but also improves your behavior and thoughts about others)
And obviously you are right in saying that just by avoiding travel and communication with the opposite gender, one can't get rid of kaam. We should always try to do jaap of Gurbani or mool mantar in our minds when we think that we are in a vulnerable situation.
Trimandeep Singh 

Great video 👍🏽, must watch
very deep points such as Sat Sri Akal Gurbar Akal…Guru is Akaal.. Guru is Sargun form of Akaal the formless
You can say that Waheguru ji is Krishan but you cannot say that Krishan is Waheguru Ji… 

Try to follow the tips of members here as much as you can. But don't let these things stop you from doing a jaap. Everyone in my family except me and my parents eat khulla maas but that doesn't stop us from doing our Nitnem or read Sukhmani sahib. It instead motivates us to do more Paath and do ardaas to guru sahib to bless our family some bibek budhi.
But do try to do your jaap at Amrit Vela in a room where they don't bring non veg.
Don't stop, just start your jaap.
Trimandeep Singh 

I know that there are relatively less people today who do shanka on Sri Dasam Granth sahib Ji because of increased parchaar, especially by the Nihangs and Baba Banta Singh Ji (Munda Pind). 
I just found this video really interesting and informative so sharing it with the sangat.
https://youtu.be/Th1BNq3EGIQ
Vichar by Gurcharanjit Singh Ji on Sri Dasam Granth Sahib.
Trimandeep Singh 

I know that there are relatively less people today who do shanka on Sri Dasam Granth sahib Ji because of increased parchaar, especially by the Nihangs and Baba Banta Singh Ji (Munda Pind). 
I just found this video really interesting and informative so sharing it with the sangat.
https://youtu.be/Th1BNq3EGIQ
Vichar by Gurcharanjit Singh Ji on Sri Dasam Granth Sahib.
Trimandeep Singh 

I know that there are relatively less people today who do shanka on Sri Dasam Granth sahib Ji because of increased parchaar, especially by the Nihangs and Baba Banta Singh Ji (Munda Pind). 
I just found this video really interesting and informative so sharing it with the sangat.
https://youtu.be/Th1BNq3EGIQ
Vichar by Gurcharanjit Singh Ji on Sri Dasam Granth Sahib.
Trimandeep Singh 

I know that there are relatively less people today who do shanka on Sri Dasam Granth sahib Ji because of increased parchaar, especially by the Nihangs and Baba Banta Singh Ji (Munda Pind). 
I just found this video really interesting and informative so sharing it with the sangat.
https://youtu.be/Th1BNq3EGIQ
Vichar by Gurcharanjit Singh Ji on Sri Dasam Granth Sahib.
Trimandeep Singh 

I know that there are relatively less people today who do shanka on Sri Dasam Granth sahib Ji because of increased parchaar, especially by the Nihangs and Baba Banta Singh Ji (Munda Pind). 
I just found this video really interesting and informative so sharing it with the sangat.
https://youtu.be/Th1BNq3EGIQ
Vichar by Gurcharanjit Singh Ji on Sri Dasam Granth Sahib.
Trimandeep Singh 

Watch this whole video! Bhai sahib had kept it simple and humorous.
 

Bhai sahib, I would recommend you a video of Bhai Jagraj Singh Ji BOS- 'How to deal with anger'
That clip is a cut from a 1 hr workshop of his, where he gave a great solution to the Sangat and this tip has always worked for me.
He asked the sangat to recite the following panktis when you feel any of the vices are coming over you...
Anger: (i)Agyani Man Ross Karey (Sri Sukhmani Sahib)
(ii)Farida bure da bhala kar, gussa man na handaaye 
Lust: (i)Par Triya Roop na Pekhai Netra (Sri Sukhmani Sahib)
(ii)Par Beti ko beti jaane, Par istri ko maat bakhaane
Aapan istri so rat hoyi, rehitvant singh hai soyi.
(iii) Nij Naari ke saath Neh tum nit badheiyoo, par naari ki sej bhool supne hun na jaaiyo. (Charitropakhyan)
Greed: (i) Deh Naam Santokhia Utrai Man ki bhukh 
Moh: (i) Hum Avgun Bharey Ek gun naahi.......'sut daara syon preet lagayi'........gur ramdaas rakhaho sharnayee 
Ahankar: (i) Jatan Bahut main kar raheyo mitiyo na man ko maan (Salok Mahalla 9)
 
And obviously, there are endless panktis you can find in Gurbani. These were just the popular and 'easy to get Kanth' ones.
Hope it helps 
Trimandeep Singh 
 

Try to follow the tips of members here as much as you can. But don't let these things stop you from doing a jaap. Everyone in my family except me and my parents eat khulla maas but that doesn't stop us from doing our Nitnem or read Sukhmani sahib. It instead motivates us to do more Paath and do ardaas to guru sahib to bless our family some bibek budhi.
But do try to do your jaap at Amrit Vela in a room where they don't bring non veg.
Don't stop, just start your jaap.
Trimandeep Singh 

Does it say anything against Sampat Paths?

This Kirtan is a must listen. This is a short clip from the Har Har Naam Samagam at Malaysia.
Whenever I feel sleepy, I just listen to it and all sleep goes away in a minute.
My favorite part is when the gursikh wearing baana (Bhai Gurpreet Singh) recites the Karninaama.
Dhan Dasam Patshah Di Baani.
Trimandeep Singh 

Bhai sahib, I would recommend you a video of Bhai Jagraj Singh Ji BOS- 'How to deal with anger'
That clip is a cut from a 1 hr workshop of his, where he gave a great solution to the Sangat and this tip has always worked for me.
He asked the sangat to recite the following panktis when you feel any of the vices are coming over you...
Anger: (i)Agyani Man Ross Karey (Sri Sukhmani Sahib)
(ii)Farida bure da bhala kar, gussa man na handaaye 
Lust: (i)Par Triya Roop na Pekhai Netra (Sri Sukhmani Sahib)
(ii)Par Beti ko beti jaane, Par istri ko maat bakhaane
Aapan istri so rat hoyi, rehitvant singh hai soyi.
(iii) Nij Naari ke saath Neh tum nit badheiyoo, par naari ki sej bhool supne hun na jaaiyo. (Charitropakhyan)
Greed: (i) Deh Naam Santokhia Utrai Man ki bhukh 
Moh: (i) Hum Avgun Bharey Ek gun naahi.......'sut daara syon preet lagayi'........gur ramdaas rakhaho sharnayee 
Ahankar: (i) Jatan Bahut main kar raheyo mitiyo na man ko maan (Salok Mahalla 9)
 
And obviously, there are endless panktis you can find in Gurbani. These were just the popular and 'easy to get Kanth' ones.
Hope it helps 
Trimandeep Singh 
 

Almost everything you pointed out is mentioned in the Panthic Rehat Maryada except second and fourth point. And there's no mention in it whether bhog can be done to other eatables except Karah Prashad. (This should be cleared)
Trimandeep Singh 

Does it say anything against Sampat Paths?

Almost everything you pointed out is mentioned in the Panthic Rehat Maryada except second and fourth point. And there's no mention in it whether bhog can be done to other eatables except Karah Prashad. (This should be cleared)
Trimandeep Singh 

If the hairs get damaged/removed while tying beard then surely it's a bajjar qurehit just like dyeing/colouring hairs.
Guru sahib bibek budhi bakshan 
Trimandeep Singh