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jatta

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  1. totally agree with palm veer Here in surry, b.c, i see daily newbies coming to the country with turbans and week later clean shaven. The truth is people dont know how the west sees us, the views of sikhs. The hardcore reality is that many dont care to know what other races think. It does boil down to the question of acceptance, and assimiliation. No one wants to be discriminated against, kids dont want to be bullied in schools, etc. Its a matter of standing up for ur faith and beliefs, and honestly man many sikhs are not strong enough as individuals, or as a unit (referring to small communities), or simply dont have enough faith in waheguru to stay strong and within peace. fateh
  2. sat sri akaaaaaaaaaal to all the brother and sisters on this site! Would like to thank all as this site and everyone on it played a role in my decision to become amritdhaari. Have done alot of learning from this site about sikhi, gurbani, etc and my love for it grows each day. However, i feel like my personal/love life has suffered. My relationship of three years ended some time ago becuase of my "new" look. - growing my hair, and wearing a turban. Apparantly i wasnt good looking enough as i was before and she couldnt/didnt want to be seen with me. And since then i find that the opposite sex is less interested in me becuase of my looks, whereas before i had, literally, girls throwing themselves at me (that was when i was clean shaven). Its a bit depressing, but i know there will be a time when a girl will accept me for me. Just wanted to hear some stories of amritdhaaris who have found that true love. Give myself hope in the mean time, its just a bit sad, thats all that people base love on looks. looking forward to all the responses, thanks in advance!
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