Males and females are made different and act different, we all know this.
Bhagati, or devotion towards God, is very feminine. The Bani of Guru Granth sahib ji is feminine ( vast majority). Kirtan is feminine.
Strength is masculine. Power and control in masculine. Leadership is masculine. Dhadi vaars are masculine.
Sexy singh, my only cautionary words will be to not manipulate history, ideals, values, scripture to come to your conclusion (whatever it is). I’m not accusing you of doing this, but just cautioning you. Take the example of the Guru’s not being female, lets not take our assumptions to mean anything more than what they are, assumptions.
Given that the male is dominant, which I agree with, what privilege does that give?
I know someone already asked you this, but I’ll ask again, doesn’t your wife also have the right to screw other guys because she doesn’t get the wild love she may want? I think it’s a case of give and get. I can understand if you want to be in control, but does it mean you have the exclusive right to have sex outside of marriage?
I think these questions will hep you make up your mind, hopefully.
p.s why don’t you think your wife will enjoy passionate round the clock sex?