gurminder

hmmm I can see where u comin from about it being disrespectful as the guy is drinking, smoking etc. if it was someone who wasn't drinking/smokin etc it could have been seen that it was sweet to try and merge the three, but in this case it's not. mloco? what do u mean prefer him to be atheistic? just coz he is wearin a top with three religious symbols on it doesn't make him a religious or a non-religious guy.

Hello, I would like to say something in response to all this and on behalf of sikh girls who like their singhs... I agree there are a lot of sikh girls out there that do not wish to marry/go out with a singh. BUT something that eveyone seems to forget is that it is hard for a sikh girl to find a singh that will like a sikh girl that is in to sikhi. I mean I feel it is easy for a religious girl/guy to find a guy/girl, and it is easy for a non-religious girl/guy to find a non-religious guy/girl, BUT for those who are in between it is hard for a girl to find a singh who is in-between and a singh to find a girl who is in-between. It is just as hard to find a singh as it is for a singh to find a sikh girl! YES it is hard too! nowadays a lot (not all) of singhs want a girl to have a fit body, nice hair, make-up, to not be 'hairy', etc etc. I always hear people sayin "it's so hard for singhs to find a sikh kuri", but you know what it's hard for the sikh girls too, most singhs want what these girls are doing right now (e.g. cut hair, drink) so what can you do? I, on the other hand, think singhs are the most handsome men ever! I would never consider any kind of guy but a singh, Guruji has made singhs very handsome, and do not let a handfull of silly girls get you down. Just remember it is hard for girls just as it is for guys....