jaikaara

If you are okay with him living a Sikh way of life and standing by his principles which may be very different to what you have living with and also if he is comfortable going to another country where the culture is very different it would be easy for him to accept that way of life then it would be okay. 

Has he stayed away from you as in you would meet say like once or twice a year? There are a number of factors to be considered.

14 hours ago, paapiman said:

Can anyone please explain the three types of Taap (ਤਾਪ)? Any abstract ideas associated with them?

• ਅਧਿਆਤਮਕ
• ਅਧੀਭੂਤਕ
• ਅਧੀਦੈਵਕ

Thanks a lot

 

Bhul chuk maaf

Thanks to your query, reminds me of my dad explaining me this almost 3 decades back and here is an explanation i found very much like what i heard from my dad . 


http://www.mygreatbaba.com/
All the problems faced in life can be basically categorised mainly in three types:

• Adi bhautik (Physical)- Related mainly to body; e.g. hunger/thirst, snake bite, wars or fights with other living beings
• Adi Devik (Divine)- Generated by Prakriti, e.g. Extreme weather, earthquake, excessive rain or lack of it
• Adhyatmik (Spiritual)- Related to the Mental plane, e.g.anger, greed, infatuation, recurring doubts, infidelity etc.

These problems are also inter-related, eg. Persistent.Adhyatmik cause can turn to bhautik and vice versa. Or they could alsobe combined in a particular case leading to increased intensity. Human Beings are unaware of the starting point of this environment which actually initialises while they werein their mother’s womb. To explain MAHA RORAV NARAK the worst of the hells (pain) is to remain upside down in complete darkness and along with mal-mutra viz the natural wastes in lower abdomen for over 3 months

Unfortunately it doesnt make sense to me, where is he drawing the reference from? There is more Chandi Bani in Dasam Granth Sahib and that i dont believe would be written for the sake that someone wanted to hear the Ustat and Maharaaj composed .

8 hours ago, paapiman said:

There is a reason behind that. Once you hear the Uthanka of this Chhand, it will become more clear. A Pandit jee had come to meet Sri Satguru jee (Tenth Master). He had a thought in his mind. To satisfy his desire, Maharaaj uttered this Chhand. Please listen to Gyani Harbhajan Singh jee Dhudikey for more details. He starts narrating the sakhi of Bhai Mai das jee Bairagi (from the life of Third Master) in between, but keep listening to the audio past it.

Please start listening at 15:20 min:

http://www.gurmatveechar.com/audios/Katha/02_Present_Day_Katha/Giani_Harbhajan_Singh_Dhudikey_(Vidyarthi_Sampardai_Bhindra)/Sri_Dasam_Guru_Granth_Sahib_Ji_Katha/03_Akal_Ustat_Katha/Giani.Harbhajan.Singh.(Dhudhikey)--064.-.Sri.Akal.Ustat.Katha.31.mp3

 

Bhul chuk maaf

Thanks a ton for sharing veera 

13 hours ago, chatanga1 said:

 

But it wasn't the Hindus actions that started the Singh Sabha lehar. You very conveniently overlook this. It was the threat of Christianity. What don't you understand about this?

Bro it was the Shuddhi movement which made Singh Sabha and Arya Samaaj come together and then clash over differences, the threat was christianity and islam both . 

 

That is another falsehood being thrown at the Sikhs, just like that liar asatkiran tried to claim that so many Sikh girl had left Sihi because they couldnt be part of the the Panj Pyare. Think about what you write bro.

 I too dont think that is the reason bro for women to leave  i agree with you ...i am talking about a different issue which is still ongoing ..numbers dwindle due to commitment ..and this is natural ..its human psyche

The greatest number of people leaving Sikhi was after the fall of the Lahore Darbar. It was estimated in that time that over 500,000 Sikhs had left the panth within the matter of a decade.

No idea about this bro 

 

Of course there were. The consensus showed that the number of Sikhs grew and grew during the Singh Sabha Lehar.

11 hours ago, chatanga1 said:

 

Did you even read his post? He clearly doesn't love or respect Sikhs.

 

 

Crystal, you liked that sharmas post?  Are you kidding with that or what?

 

The singh sabha never had any hatred for the Hindus, they simply loved Sikhi. Thats the difference. Even thought they didn't get somethings right they did get some things right. Stop falling for this hindu bullshit!

 

 

Singh Sabha was made to understand by the Macaulay that the Hindu was a boa constrictor ! if the Hindu was a boa constrictor why would there be contribution to people joining Khalsa ...before any formal divide there have been families with generations having chilldren either follow Sanatan or Sikhi..and Sikhi never faced dwindling numbers as in today ..if there were subtractions then there were additions too..i know of families here who say their great grand father or the forefathers was Sikh or Hindu or who's half family is following either of the two religions.  Arya Samaaj themselves dont get well with rest of Hindus and they made an attempt to curb a separate identity formation motivated by the British which i feel perhaps shouldn't have happened ...

5 hours ago, Sanjay Sharma said:

I just want to give an outsider perspective.

While you will have no doubt to accept the fact that all the Hindus and their families are always ask to revere Gurus and Sikh as warriors of Hindu faith with highest respect. The sikhism until the time of Shri Ranjit Singh and Harisingh Nawla had identity of a unique sect of Hinduism.

However, the Singh Sabha on behest of British and their appointed scholars not only split the Sikhs from Hindus... but also made the inclusive Sikhism as an exclusivity Sikhism. Even if you get hold of  any Rahetnamas or any declaration by SPGC or most of the Sikh Groups it is based upon Anti-Brahmin or anti-Hindu ideology, just to ensure that they maintain their separate identity. Lot of potraits for Gurus with Tilak were removed, most of the language is that "do not follow this because Hindus follow this". Sikhs started questioning the literatures and at the time of Guru Gobind Singh as corruption by Hindus(when it is a fact that most of the scribes of Gurus were also Hindus, there was no such issue until the time of Raja Ranjit singh). Rather than reforming or giving space to Udasis or namdharis was it right to start executing them in Mughal ways?

Detaching Hindus and generating hatred towards hindus, instilled insecurity and mistrust among both communities post singh sabaha and lead to so many events of evil and division.

It burns my heart to understand why couldn't the mainstream sikhs identify the big flaw in the singh sabah and ISI inspired Khalistani events of exclusion and hatred, and let their influence into anti-Hindu rahetnamas.

I mean do they expect Muslims and Christians who are based upon ideology of hatred and exclusivity to convert to Sikhism?? as opposed to Hindus, who gave away one of their sons to Guru when the Sikhs were reduced to low numbers. Though I am not from Punjab, but I have personally seen most of the Punjabis are More Guru Bhakts then being Hindus. can Sikhs find such following among Muslims and Christians??

There has also been an attempt by Arya Samaaj to curb the distinct identity of the Khalsa..you need to draw the line bro...Khalsa is a Panth born in Bharat and will have the same base as other religions born in India ..the concept of Chitargupt and Yamraj and 84 lakh joon..Hindu is a geographical identity only. So even though you love and respect Sikhism you should respect the fact that they are a distinct Panth 

1 hour ago, Singh123456777 said:

My thoughts have changed since 2015, after reading granths like Nanak Parkash, where Sri Guru Nanak Dev Ji’s janam patri(astrological paper) was read to Sri Guru Angad Dev ji and other countless things in other granths. I now believe it is a science which can help benifit a person’s sikhi if that person uses the knowledge wisely. For example if by going to an astrologer and finding something bad is gonna happen, we could do naam simran to lessen the damage or eradicate if fully. The astrology is just a simple guide to our life of events that will unfold, but the true guru is the real changer. The true guru can change your future in an instant.

i am currently working on this line, some times are as such when nothing seems to work ..learning the planetary positions i would want to do bani more

21 hours ago, Guest Deep said:

Dear sangat...could u plz let me know if girls can do brahm kavch jaap too...plz let me know maryada too

Tnx in advance

Absolutely, there is no Bani which is gender conscious  

Devteya  naalo Guru mahan, Yog naalo Gatka mahan, Rakhdi naal vi vair..Taksali logic ..sum of all the crap is I am mahan rest all are beimaan. 

On 9/26/2017 at 6:40 PM, paapiman said:

Vishnu jee will always be worthy of respect as a creation, not as a creator.

Furthermore, one of the four Shahibjades, is an avtar of Vishnu jee.

 

Bhul chuk maaf

Rather than getting into this agnostic hatred a person of like you should focus on higher subjects

15 hours ago, paapiman said:

Kalki Avtaar will appear towards the end of Kaljug (which has a life of 400,000+ years). There is massive time left for him to appear. He will not be born of a mother, but will appear from the skies in the town/village of Sambal (somewhere in North India).

Further, Kalki Avtaar is the last incarnation (24th) of Lord Vishnu, while on the other hand, Satguru Sri Guru Gobind Singh jee Maharaaj is the incarnation of the Almighty Waheguru jee (who created Lord Vishnu).

 

Bhul chuk maaf

 

So what do you want to say ? You want to do some comparison on who created what and prove someone not worthy of respect like neo taksalis and anti dasam gang do ? 

On 9/22/2017 at 4:34 PM, Prem Parkash said:

I think I have answer to the quest of many persons. First of all, I am Prem Parkash Sharma from Amritsar. I want to put a question in front of all you, I you have to do a very important work which can save millions of people and that work is for sake of humanity and on the other side you are wishing to go Golden Temple or any other religious place, where your beliefs are, what will you do? Perhaps, I will say I will definitely save millions of people. Just leave the millions of peoples, even it is the matter of single person, I will prefer to save that person. The same Guru Ji did. They were not born to visit Gurudwaras or other places. He was a YODHA. A Sant Sipahi. A real Soldier. Was the Mighty had time to visit any religious place. HE has given away his four sons, his father, his homely facilities, each and everything for humanity,  and his time and life also.

About Kalki avtar: "TUMRI GAT MIT TUMHI JANE" Who will be the Kalki Avtar, it is the sole discretion of Almighty. We are no one to discuss such things. But the description of 10th Avtar of Vishnu Ji as Kalki Avtar given in BHAVISHYA PURAN, resembles with the appearance of Guru Gobind Singh Ji. Might possible, Guru Ji will come again as Kalki Avtar. Please dont take this line as final words, there is only possibility. This is the only discretion of the supreme power.

 

If any one disagree with my thinking, please forgive me.

very happy to have you on the forum brother, like you i too am from a hindu family background. The explanation about Kaliki Avatar, i too have most times felt the same. 

As a child I remember seeing a painting depicted of Kalki Avtar seated on a horse in Blue attire  and i too used to connect to Guru Dasmesh Pita however in this case in His composition of Kalki Avtar Guru Sahib mentions the birth of Kalki Maharaj in the village of Sambal located in Himachal Pradesh if i am not wrong. 

On 9/20/2017 at 10:06 PM, paapiman said:

Does anyone know if word files (.docx or .doc) for Dasam Gurbanis are available online?

Looking for word files for Sri Charitropakhain Sahib jee, Sri Chandi dee vaar Sahib jee, etc.

Thanks a lot

 

Bhul chuk maaf

just copy the text and paste in word file mere veer. 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aHpcc4cLpM8

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AbzsI0IYWmA

On 8/19/2017 at 5:55 PM, amandeepsingh said:

Dusht daman is fack story created by Hindu mitheasik because they are mix up the Sikh religion in Hindu religion

Ohh is it ! thanks for letting the Panth know, So you want to say Sant Jarnail Singh ji Khalsa Bhindranwale who did Katha of Bachitar Natak bani was also a Hindu Mitihasak ? 

On 8/19/2017 at 7:56 PM, Gursharan Kaur said:

Waheguru ji ka Khalsa waheguru ji ki Fateh ji..
I am so glad to write here for I have so many things to tell you. 
I am getting good sleep at night from a couple of weeks and I am very happy for it,though I get dreams at same rate but when I wake up in morning I don't think over it and let all my memory wash off. I also do my nitnem though not in amritvela but I try to do it in ease and not stressing that I have to do it (may waheguruji bless me amritvela soon). For my body aches n body rashes I try do exercise bit, eat healthy and make body relax. I have learnt how to change my potential which I used in stressing, to do Simran or recite any baani. 
At my free time sitting somewhere idle, travelling, cleaning dishes, doing household chores or in all times when I find myself lost in thoughts I try to do Simran so that I dont think anything else n stress. 
Things have not changed but yes my point of view has changed alot. 
I have known what is Hukam and I leave my worries upon Gurusaab saying " Tu mera Pita Tu hai mera Mata Tu mera Bandap Sakha Skhaye". 
And this all has happened because I always had in my mind that I have to write up here n tell you, you might be waiting for it, I always thought. You were all right! Things were getting psychological.. 
I just do my part n leave my desire for results.

I am so thankful to everyone here who replied for my problem and helped me. 

Thank you
Bhull chukk maaf. 

Waheguru ji ka Khalsa waheguru ji ki Fateh beta ji,

Waah ji waah beta ji , very happy to hear from you ..yes i was indeed waiting for news from you. 

Thats like a good bacha...i am very happy for you ..Jiske Sirr Upar Tu Swami so Dukh kaise Paave..keep motivating yourself beta ..Guru Ang Sang Sahaai..

I will be eagerly waiting for more news beta..very proud of you 

Siri Akaal ji Sahaai ..Jai Sadaa Jai Bhagouti

On 8/15/2017 at 4:43 AM, paapiman said:

What is the SGPC doing about it?

 

Bhul chuk maaf

busy with internal issues and Sanatan phobia.

23 hours ago, Guest SHARAN said:

thank you.

I am going to get free of all worries and will let you know my situation in time.

Best  of Luck beta, May Waheguru Bless you.

23 hours ago, Guest SHARAN said:

thank you.

I am going to get free of all worries and will let you know my situation in time.

Welcome Beta, May Akaal Purakh Bless you with strength.

1 hour ago, Guest Sharan said:

Thank you very much. It really means alot to me. We actually get disturbed when we realise that we have been fooled whole years by someone whom you trusted like second parents and get over concerned for everything. An year before i was unaware of everythJing and suddenly  got so much to know which is hard to believe because i am just a normal being. 

I dont pay attention to this much but it is naturally i am fetched by my past. 

I Remember when i was a kid i used to cry n shout pointing to something which scared me but what i dont know,my mother used to take me in her arms n recite choupai sahib n i went silent suddenly.. this is just one thing but i can relate to everything that went wrong all my life and i didnt even know why it was..Then with mehar of Dhan Dhan Guru Gobind Singh ji Maharaj we met Baba Sajan Singh ji. He resolved tangles strings of our lives. He did Sampat paath for my family and for those three four days i went through alot sickness (i even felt someone holding my neck while i was laying on my bed ill) and after they finished paath i went alright, now i dont get my heartbeat racing at 125 for normal days,no swelling of soles or palms,no rashes on my body nor i have anything now.. I used to beg for this from Gurusaab to get me out of hell. I actually tell my mom now that i never knew how beautifull it is to live like this. 

When now i sometimes suddenly start experiencing very different pain in my body  i phone call Babaji and He do paath on phone with Water nearby which i have to drink when he finishes..and i get so fine then. 

I am just scared, because i really dont want to get away from Gurusaahb.. my health has deteriorated alot because still  i am fine for a week and next few weeks i get drained. Again i start but come at 0 level. 

I did jaap saahib 5 times followed by japji sahib,then three other banis,33 times brahm kabach baani,5 bhagouti astotar paaths,5 choupai sahib paaths as told by you for 3-4 days but then got drained.. bhul chuk maaf krna ji. 

Thank you /\ 

 

I can imagine your situation beta, if bani is curing you and making you feel better then that's really good. 

I am sorry i didn't explain in detail, whichever bani you feel to do , do the bani at ease just don't stress your self.

Anything where you feel stress just give yourself time to be peaceful . First we need to build confidence in ourselves and then trust in Waheguru.

Siri Akaal Sahaai ??

7 hours ago, Guest SHARAN said:

okay. thank you, i will try not to think over anything and let things flow the way they are supposed to.

thank you very much.

waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh.

this indeed  would  be really nice and feel free to share your problems beta, you are like a daughter to me . I feel you can certainly fight away your depression. 

11 hours ago, Guest SHARAN said:

i'l try over the dream vala part to understand it. I do lots of bentis before sleeping to Maharaj and Singh Shaheeds to let me wake up early in morning but i am never able to continue my waking up for even a week because i am always dreaming and cant even sometimes hear the alarm, after 3 am i dream someone is doing nitnem in  my room or sometimes like i dream hearing paathi doing Nitnem in Gurughar  and it gives me a push that i have to get up but i just cant get out of my bed and stand may be because i have been cursed by some one person from my joint family since my birth (have been told by Naam abhiyasi Mahapursh who has helped us a lot from an year) things have improved  a lot like i used to stay awake at nights and being a girl had many health problems (though I had it all checked in hospitals but there was never anything curious or to be worried about but was always in body aches). Today i have turned 21 (its my bday lol) and may be i dream because of stress as that person is doing that jadoo n stuff again and again which i really dont want to think over. Babaji who is helping us in our situations say that i should recite baani to the fullest in a day so that there could be a pehras of singh shaheeeds  but there is something always pulling me back.

Someone suggest me please what should i do.

How can i be a member here?

Thank you so much.

Beta ji you are quiet young Happy Birthday ! Sometimes things get psychological too. Once we start  thinking on the  lines that someone has cast a spell we convince ourselves and for  everything happening  around is we start presuming this is jadu tona...of what i could make out is this 

you  are stressed about waking up for paath and your sub conscious mind is always awake thinking you might drowse  off and you lack sound sleep. 

Before stressing yourself on any force of waking up at Amrit vela please focus on a good night's sleep. Sleep will help you control your mind and think clearly.

Do not fear God, our belief is not like any Abrahamic faith where Allah or Jehovah will punish you at every step. Sikhi or any other Sanatan Dharam has base in Bhagti and Pyaar . First we should focus on Sehajta, be calm and at peace. You have built up a whole series of phases in mind, you will  do paath Saheedi Singhs  will come and will help you. We have to first lay stress on Naam Simran and Waheguru as a Universal power. Please dont focus on other entities at this point of time . Lay your trust in Waheguru Parmatma, let Him solve your issues. We dont need to creat a fleet of Divine entities all lined up to solve our problems. 

Jinn Prem kiyo tinn hi Prabh Paayo. ..i am not a giani or of  any awastha that i could advice you anything however i would like to request  you to first continue to do more and more jap of Mool Mantar as a base to your journey.

Siri Akaal ji Sahaai 

On 6/27/2017 at 9:13 PM, Guest SHARAN said:

waheguru ji.

my dream problem has not been solved yet..can i share here something which is really off topic,i mean is here anyone who can let understand about jadoo n all and role of sampat paath in improving the affected people.. i want to have a talk to someone who has the knowlegde of it. please reply so that i can share of my problem.

thank you.

Please share veer, we can always seek expert advice from awastha waale Singhs and Mahapurakhs who are in our contact . Many Singhs here  are aware

On 6/23/2017 at 9:57 AM, Guest sharan said:

thank you so much..it is really helpfull.

Thanks to the Kathaakaar Sri Thakur Singh ji  and the Creators of the Bani The Guru Sahibaan.