FuriousJatt

dats tru...but not all sardar mundey r spiritual. i have friends who r sardar cuz the like wearing pagh but they drink, smoke and do everything a mona teenager would do. googly: u answered half of it. k i understand a gori would date a sardar cuz hes something shes never been out with and she wants to try something new i guess. but "how come our gurls dont"? even though they had sardar ancestors and someone in their family or one of their relaives is sardar.

well im not perfect or even close. i have done many wrong things and i know i shouldn't have done be doing any of those things. cuz after all guru gobind ji said "bagani aurat bal nahi dekhna." i forgot the words guruji used, but dats the definition. my parents also tell me "sabh diya ma te bhan ekko jahi hundi aa". even though i have been engaged in wrong things. i agree dat to act on lust is wrong. love and lust r two different things. love=it has more to do with spirits and one loves someone for not how they appear on the outside but the inside. if ur really in love..like some of my friends are...u dont want a sexucal activity from them...u just wanna be them. its certainly not a one nite thing...its a lifetime commitment. lust=just a physical thing. it has nothin to do with wut u think of the person but wut, and how u think of someone outside appearance. its usually a one night thing.

wut i have seen from experience is dat most of the gurls nowdays..especially sikh gurls dont like sardar mundey anymore just like most of the mundey dont like religious and nice gurls anymore..so its vice-versa. but anyhow from personal experience i know that most of the gurls in central cali dont wanna date a sardar munda. because my bro and i used to have long hair in hs. my bro used to get so many kuriya...but paki, fijian, goria, and etc. not dat many punjabi. he asked couple of them out and most of them said no and when he cut his hair...the same gurls that had turned him down called him up. btw he did not cut hair for kuriya...it was something else. the personality does matter...he has a same attitude he always had, he has a nice personalit, girls like talking to him and hangin out with him. but i dont understand why would goria date a sardar yet our own gurls wont?

ssa Niranjana ji. i was reading wut u had to say so i asked my dad wut it means. he said "kuri de ghar da khanna jaher de barobar aa". it means "wutever u free load, eat from ur daughters house is just like poison". i have heard from elders and my parents and grandparents have always told me like many of urs have told u "apni bhan de passay nahi rakhney, kuriye toa passay nahi lai de" the reason they say dat is cuz, in indian culture, not just punjabi...all the property, housing, values and etc. r passed down from father to son...not father to daughter. so therefore in old times..our elders believed dat since, the father haven't given her any property, he does not have the rite to eat or drink at her house. i remember when i was young my mom telling me about her grandpa. she said dat whenever he went to see his sister(s) or bhua(s) he ate at home or someplace else. because he never drank or ate at their house or even pind. im sorry if someone had explained this already but i just wanted to share my views and wut i have been taught. many of u mite think dat im old fashioned or a fob but i believe in dat...i dont think i would go as far as not eating at my sisters house, but i would never take or steal anything from her. anyhow i know i probly have said some things dat i should have not and most likely made many mistakes. so please forgive me. wjkk...wjkf

this is some wicked stuff...