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We know the Truth when the heart is True,And we cleanse our body of Falsehood and make it Pure. We know the Truth, when we love the Truth.And, if hearing the Lord's Name our Mind is Pleased, we Attain to the Door of Deliverance.We know the Truth, when our Soul knows the Way;And cultivating our bodies, we sow the seed of God. We know the Truth, if we receive the true Instruction (of the Guru). We know the Truth if we dwell on the Pilgrim-station of the Self. And (if) as is the Guru's Will, so abide we.Truth is the Cure-all, it washes one clean of Sin.But Nanak's prayerful call is to those whose (only) possession is the Lord's Truth. The matter is closed.

Everyone is engrossed in his own gain, None sacrifices himself for the sake of others, Nanak, do not contract company with such men, Who think only of their own gains. Guru V, Gauri Rag

It very sad see only one veer ji offering advice on this topic,i would have thought Gurus Sanget would be queing up to give advice.

Thankyou for the great advice. I am looking to write a letter to the Gurdwara comminttee regarding this issues,but need to be diplomatic. I need help. Where would i start from? I need the comminttee understand,what they are is wrong without sounding patronising. I also what add a time scale to the letter,how would i do that? Pls help.

I am looking for some advice, at my local Gurdwara they announce local commununity functions such as- Mens partys (badgi,all mens party at a hall). Ladies sunget (all ladies party at a hall). Is this right? Are we going to the Gurdwara to be close to GURU or is it place where we can find out what is happening localy?. What do think? What if anything, i should do? Pls a hubble Benti only sensible help and advise pls as i need a starting point i can go foward with.