gurugharda_kookar

their argument is that no one has done such thing [taking amrit] in our house..specially girl..and their argument is that we have seen other people who took amrit..they eat jhoot and they eat everything..and they don't let their hair grow on their face..their argument is that amrit isn't for girls cuz girls doesn't look good with big fat eyebrows or hair on their faces..why are u wearing gatra[kirpan]..and i have told them it's reyat..punj pyare told us to do so..their question..who are they to say they are not guru ..they are common person..tying turban..who gonna mary u..this and that u know..don't sit with us..don't touch food when someone is drinking this that..so they are started to ingore me and tokna in everything..cuz they say that they got tired..of me..not changing into their world..and they say that people who told u to tie turban they are doing bad thing like cult..it's not important to wear turban..they say to do paat two times a day..that's it..according to them..doing paat two times isn't leaving guru ji..but for me it's not enough..u know..

waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki fatehh that's true..but parents are forcing me to leave sikhi and stop wearing dustar..with guru ji's kirpa trying hard to not tos ay n e thing..and stop arguing with them..only it occurs when they force to leave sikhi or get out of the house [they don't mean it] but words does hurt u know..so how long can one stay and be victim of this..trying to teach me what world thinks .. work with world..and i m not interested in that..lol so i don't think daas life is different that bhagat pralad ji..loll hehehe

waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki fatehh sangat ji .. if someones's family doesn't support him/her with sikhi and all the time on his/her case to drop out sikhi..and gives u hard time..and then after all this if that person decided to move out..would that be betrayed to the parents for leaving them..or it's under gurmat?..

waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki fatehhh saadh sangat ji..daas need all ur advice...last year in august daas got the member of fitness club..for one year..but now i don't go there n e more..but still paying monthly fees..so i m giving fees for no reason to them..and one of my friend asked me if it is okay that if i can give her my membership card for that fitness club..and she would go under my name..so i need ur advice that if my friend go to club under my name without fitness club people know would that be cheating..on my part..please let me know.. bhul chuk maafi ji daas

waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki fatehh sangat ji i agree with u all that lieing is bad..in n e case..but what if someone parent's don't let their child to go to gurughar and so child has to lie to go to gurughar..so is that lie acceptable??

sangat ji i m serious..is it okay to lie..by sikhi wise ???

waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki fatehh sangat ji..being sikh is it okay to lie on the resume...suppose one doesn't have experience..and he/she isn't getting job..so is it okay to lie saying that we have experience..just make some stuff..what u all say ji ? bhul chuk di maafi ji muskeen waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki fatehh

waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki fatehhh sangat ji i have question for you all..ok here it goes knowing that there were name already for god..why did guru ji gave another name 'waheguru'..why didn't he use the same name..n e names like raam allah.. i have asked this same question to many people..but still want sangat's opinion..i hope to whom i have asked already won't mind.. bhul chuk di maafi ji waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki fatehhh

Khalsa was further forbidden from: 1. Worshiping other gods and goddesses. 2. Treating the 10 Gurus differently. 3. Hurting feelings of people of other religions. 4. Deforming human body- like piercing ears, noses etc. 5. Taking all types of intoxicants like wines, drugs, cocaine, cigarettes, beetles etc. 6. Dyeing of hairs. 7. Making relations with: I: Who kill their new-born and young daughters. II: Who smoke and use tobacco. III: Who cut their hairs and do not follow teachings of the Guru. IV: Who because of their ego, selfishness, ignorance, jealousy, hate had enmity with the kind and blissful Gurus. (Off-shoots of Gurus families like Ram Rai and Dhir Mal who went astray). III: **Who cut their hairs and do not follow teachings of the Guru.** this line in the rehatnama..what u have to say about this ?

the sakhi i wrote..m not asking what guru granth sahib ji saying..what i m asking is..do sangat think that guru ji would be this strict by not eating food with non sikh hands..

sangat ji..with the rehatnama of bhai dya singh ji..so that means that sikhs are not allowed to eat food from non sikh or mona..well i think that langar should be made by amritdhari sikhs..cuz when people make langar..they talk nonsense..i have heard by my own ears..and langar suppose to made with listening to bani or reading bani..isn't it ?

waheguru ji ka khalsa,waheguru ji ki fatehhh sangat ji..has n e one hear this sakhi about guru gobind singh ji..that ones he was invited on lunch by a guy..but guru ji refused his invitation..cuz he wasn't amrithdari..so he went to punj pyare and pleased for amrit..and when he became amritdhari..guru ji eat from his hands??? seems weird cuz one of my friends didn't hear this sakhi..and others have.. :? :? :? :? :? :? waheguru ji ka khalsa,waheguru ji ki fatehhh

waheguru...hanji i understand..but what i m talking about is..here I means not in ego..people force u to come in false world [me as girl..doing make up..and other stuff..which leads u towards maya] so here when people says that forget or leave this life..and come to us and live as normal people as other people on this earth are..and my response is that "I" want to be guru's sikh.."I" want to walk on guru's teachings.."I" want to be happy..and not cry in pain after i leave him..so that's what i m talking about..so that's i want to know wheather i m being selfish..of not thinking of my parents dreams and walking on guru's teachings..

waheguru ji ka khalsa,waheguru ji ki fatehh sadh sangat ji..we all know how our parents push us into some things which we don't want to do sometimes..but when it comes to the matter of guru ji and follow his sikhi..and ur parents r not sikhi..and the beg u to come in their world..n u keep on saying..no i want to be happy..i want to be in peace..i want to live my life as guru ji's hukam..i want to follow hukam..i want to guru's sikh...u know all "i" "i"..so does that mean that we r having ego..or thinking about urself..and u r being selffish??? :? :? :? :? waheguru ji ka khalsa,waheguru ji ki fatehh

waheguru ji ka khalsa,waheguru ji ki fatehhh saadh sangat ji..can n e one u please give me the scientific prooves in quran..like how it is scientifc..

waheguru ji ka khalsa,waheguru ji ki fatehh sorry sangat ji..person who told us..was close to my relation..and cuz they believe..that sikh are the bad ones.. :cry:

waheguru ji ka khalsa,waheguru ji ki fatehh sadh sangat ji..just heard that..in shri harimandir sahib..two nihungs [one guy and one lady] got caught..cuz they were putting poison in langar.. is this true????

waheguru ji ka khalsa,waheguru ji ki fatehhh sadh sangat ji..daas is confused..see daas family isn't sikh at all..meaning by religon they are but not by practice..and with guru's kirpa daas took amrit almost year back...daas was a very angry person..and a person whom everyone will put down..but since daas took sharan of guru ji..with guru ji's kirpa daas is fighting with anger and not to say n e thing bad to people who put them down..now daas family doesn't like sikhi lifestyle..cuz whever daas ask to go to gurughar..there is fighting and arguments at home..my parents allow sister to go to partie..and let her come home at 1am..but they don't let me go to gurughar..five days a week..i m taking part time course...yes it is onlyone course..and with guru's kirpa daas got 80% in the midterm..cuz dad think that i don't study..and today is my b'day..he brought flowers.daas when asked dad to go to gurughar saying it's my b'day i want to do seva..he says such things..that i do that and that..u want to go to gurughar everyday..he was like it's not import there should be kirtan 24/7..i mean why not it's gurupurab..he was so what..i m like then y u brought flowers for me then..he was like it's ur b'day..it comes a in a life..i was so is guru's b'day..i was like if no gurughar then i don't need these flowers..of urs..i will throw them out..[didn't do that thought].daas is 24 years old..yet not working..professionally..and he think that i have no such qualities to be 24..i have no idea what's right or wrong..cuz i love to go to dixie gurughar..and parents think dixie gurughar is not gurughar..cuz in that guru ghar some wrong stuffs going on..and so whenever they put me down..by saying all these things daas get mad or annoyed..say some rush things..cuz it's been going for 1 year.. i can't take it n e more..when ever i say something..yes i know my fault..when i get annoyed..telling me amritdhari this and that..i yell at them..then they say "ur guru tells u to speak to ur parents like this..does this is sikhi..u r learning"..and believe me..they think that they are surving me..they think it is my jiddh..following guru..they think it is not for this age..sangat ji..dunno what to do..m i putting guru ji down..please help me..they don't let me by myself..when ever i m sitting to kirtan in room mom comes crying..yelling..really puts me off..