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true - but im gna take it as if wot ppl say is wot they think... no point questioning "but do they really do it??" If they say u shud do suming and odnt do it themselves - well they know themselves - their loss!!!!!!

I think ppl r aiight on ere!!!! Less social and more sticking to Sikhi is best!

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to answer everyone's question,

and I am being honest here.....

many singhs have chips on their shoulders, and if they don't have chips on their shoulders....parents of girls are always downplaying "gyani's/turbanned guys/gurdwara politics" and everything else that is discussed around alcohol, namkeen, and chicken dian latta.

our society is flawed that way. We as singhs don't smile and feel the odds are against us. I look at it this way, lets say I am seen as the ugliest guy in a pack amongst most girls....the one who likes me will fall for me hard. I see enough good looking girls with "ugly" guys (ugly meaning what society thinks...not necessarily sardars).

Also if you look at it, if you don't smile.....you don't socialise...you don't seem content...why would anyone want to approach you. I must be honest with everyone and admit its been a year and a half since I kept my kesh, I tie a messy dastar <naamdhari-like>(I'm working on it)....but I still see myself as who I was before...and truthfully, I don't see the turban as being much of an issue.

live life, enjoy, chill out, don't expect much....too many of us have way too many flaws to be expecting the "best" out of maya ;).

sat sri akaal

(for those of you with shanka..I am amrit-dhari as well, so its not a "trim-singh" thing I am pulling).

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Good post drawrof veeer ji.

I think the reason why punjabi sikh girls want non-turban guys is because of the western society we live in. For them, having turban is like you living in cave age or you are pendufied.

Once turban sikh guys go for modelling here and once they get exposed to the western media ...watch then...punjabi sikh girls will be all over the singhs because now it will be fashion, accepted by western soceity is accepted by them...just really shows how we claim ourselves that we are not slave...but we actually are slaves of this western soceity that is making us to forget our roots.

In india already sikhs with turbans got exposed in main stream indian modeling sub-culture...now days are not far where in india- Punjabi girls wont hestiate not even once to marry with a singh with turban because these models have use this western way into something positive that is representating sikhi saroop and inspire lot of punjabi youths to grow their kesh (which is major step) yet alone be amritdhari (by Vahiguroo's kirpa according to one karma will get reach that goal too) but you know what i mean?

Everything takes certain steps and pateince.

Singhs dont be discouraged by some. Days are good because we are sons of Satguroo gobind singh maharaj. In his darbar nobody goes empty hand.....we shall always be in vahiguroo dii razza....he created us and he can destroy us into mitti anytime...why worry?? just give your duor(knot) to him...he will do whats best for you...how can father give poison to his son.....just stay in anand...outcome shall be good :)

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I disagree w u Neo about the fact that girls want non turbaned guys because of western society....

My perspective on this runs along drawof veer ji's where, if a person has confidence and has a wonderful personality then ppl will be attracted to them no matter how they look, they just have to believe in themselves. I kno that at my uni here all of the turbaned guys have girlfriends that their' serious about, compared to the non turbaned ones... It's all about how u feel about urself.... if ur not confident, ppl can pick that up and will stay away, however if ur sure of urself and what u r, then ppl by themselves start coming to u....

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I disagree w u Neo about the fact that girls want non turbaned guys because of western society....

My perspective on this runs along drawof veer ji's where, if a person has confidence and has a wonderful personality then ppl will be attracted to them no matter how they look, they just have to believe in themselves. I kno that at my uni here all of the turbaned guys have girlfriends that their' serious about, compared to the non turbaned ones... It's all about how u feel about urself.... if ur not confident, ppl can pick that up and will stay away, however if ur sure of urself and what u r, then ppl by themselves start coming to u....

very well said...its all about confidence...and not just confidence, but Singha wala confidence ;)
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95% of "sikh" girls want non-turbanned "sikhs" because, 95% of people who are born-sikh do not even know what sikhi really is, and do not value it.

I'd say 5-10% actually value what they know, rather than just take it in as random knowledge.

So, these 95% of born-sikh-girls are like everyone else in the world....just born.

Why make them suffer and life a lifestyle they don't enjoy?

Why make them marry someone who they think is ugly? as Obviously they value looks more than sikhi/insides.

Why is that 99.9% of mexican girls do not want turbanned sikhs?....I see the question of the original topic along the same lines as this. Simply ridiculous.

And as for everyone else who says most girls who do not remove hair on their body, will like singhs is ridiculous as well. I've met numerous amounts of "singhnis" that want non-turbanned sikhs. I call these "keshdhari hindus" as they merely practice the culture of Hindustan.

Keeping hair isnt the difference. Having knowledge of sikhi isnt the difference.

What makes the key difference is having the knowledge of sikhi and valuing it. (Keeping your hair and knowing WHY you do)

Both go hand in hand. If your marrying a Singhni or only look for singhni, be careful and find out the answers if shes knowledgeable of sikhi.

The hair isnt the only thing that makes a sikh.

knowledge or "having sikhi inside your heart" isnt the only thing either.

Why search for a girl that values make-up more than the path of truth?

Why be interested in a girl that keeps her hair merely because her parents force her, yet she wishes to cut it everyday?

If fashion is your goal, then cut your hair, its as simple as that.

If fashion is your truth, get a subscription to Cosmo.

Otherwise, get used to it, and your values will always come out on top, and you will find a girl who has similar values.

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gurfateh, excellent post by legendary sikh and drawof.

the truth is, why would a guriskh want a woman who judges a person on their looks??

most singhs who complain about not getting women who find them attractive maybe need to work on themselves before they blame the women..if a woman doesnt like u..u cant hate her for it!! thats life!!

get on with it!! theres loadsa monkeys in the jungle (i made that one up maself wahoooo)

seriously tho, i dnt see why this is such an issue..

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I cann't speak for Sikh or Non- Sikh Girls. But my belief is that they should look for the right person Turbanned or Non-Turbanned.

Neither can make a person better or worse. Every bodies Karma makes them what they are?

So my feeling girls with fastidious viws for a Turbanned or Non-Turbanned are fool and will suffer in the end.

Look for the best guy in the town not the best Turban or best hair style.

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Veero,

I have lived and worked at various places around the world, with sikhs and non-sikhs, and never found any problem. Actually, there used to be invitations for different ocassions, just as a way of being together.

Considering me not very smart person, but looks like they liked the pugg and values I lived for and carried with me. Somehow, I feel, we need to wear a smile alongwith pugg with no pride, but just caring for others, and thats what makes a lot of difference.

Bhull Chuk Maaf ji

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I havn't read the previous posts so I might be repeating what some other guy said so don't whine at me.

Anyway from my experience most apostate Sikh girls (who happen to make the majority of Sikh girls) pretty much dislike facial hair, but most tolerate turbans etc. Only the ones who have a decent amount of knowledge of Sikhism and maintain their dignity (ie no booze and mini skirts) don't mind beards but they're few in number, well at least in my generation and where I'm from.

However it just shows how superficial people are, I don't really care what people think and neither should any other Singhs getting bugged by this absurd trend.

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There we go.....

Why do we keep going back to this thread if most of us have already determined that it doesn't matter, that in the end, you'll end up being with the person that you're meant to be with... Why????

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Why do we keep going back to this thread if most of us have already determined that it doesn't matter, that in the end, you'll end up being with the person that you're meant to be with... Why????

I think it does matter as 'Romance and Pugg' doesn't go hand in hand.

Top on it the beared will Kill the passion too.

So be practical, As The saying goes and a song 'Girls just wana have fun'.

So how can they have fun with a Pugg and Beard. It does kill it.

My personal experience that if a girl is looking for fun then she will rule out a Pugg and Beard but may be if she is looking for a LTR she may consider one.

But then it means that most people with Pugg and Beard will get a Second Hand Girl than a First Hand One.

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Also Missed another point:

How many time do you fall for a Burka Girl???

So it is same with a Boy with Turban???

The notion here is that a Boy with Turban and Beard convey 'Arthodox'.

Until or Unless you are obssessed you won't have these.

That will stop anyone. I won't go after a girl supporting Burka or even Salwar Kammeez so Why will a girl go for a Boy with turban and Beard.

Admin's Note: You gettin your first warning by making an stupid post which hurt emotions of other members on this site. There are 3 warnings in total. 1st warning is given to you and 2 more to go after that you are banned from this site.

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What's wrong with a salwaar kumeez? :roll:

The burka is intended to keep perverts away for your information and most Sikhs tend to stick with Sikhs anyway...

Actually the decent girls will go for turbanned guys (not necessarily all the time).

The ones who don't are normally the kala/gora wannabes who drink/smoke and wear tacky pvc clothes at nightclubs.

I can easily turn around and say to you why would I want a Western bimbo with no self respect, a thirst for booze and listens to ©rap music.

Everyone's got their own taste and what most Singhs (assuming that they're actually religious) would want to go for a girl who respects his religion (as in doesn't get upto immoral rubbish) and doesn't want to bed him till they're (well if anyway) married and likewise a real Sikh girl would want the same and wouldn't care for superficial nonsense as most (not all there are good Sikhs without Kes) shaved guys just want a little drunken debauchery.

I'd think most Sikhs here would preffer the salwaar kumez don't you.

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So how can they have fun with a Pugg and Beard. It does kill it.

Dear veer ji,

No, It doesnt kill anything. You may like to assure yourself by asking females married to sikhs (with pugg and beard) in own family or surroundings. I dont know what LTR means though. And your personal experiences seem to be long way to go. But good thing, is you have got questions, and are looking for answers.

Your comments about burka and pugg are not open minded ones. Please come out of this. I suggest u reading article by Ryan on rationalthinking.

Best Regards.

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newAgeSikh... lol... ur crackin me up...

let me just clarify for u here... it's not the pugg or beard. it's the attitude and personality. Sardars and Singhs are some of the most attractive men out there.

and as for ur thing on girls just wanna have fun... lol... forget it, i'm not even gonna answer that...

giani_g, i totally agree with everything u've said... nice job.

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