Brahmachari lifestyle

[singh1981]

Once you are married and have kids and are done. Is it important to be brahmacharya.

[singh1981]

No response, please someone reply now. 

Is it important to be brahmcharya after your marriage duties are complete in order to obtain brahm avastha?

[Soulfinder]

12 minutes ago, singh1981 said:

No response, please someone reply now. 

Is it important to be brahmcharya after your marriage duties are complete in order to obtain brahm avastha?

Veer ji i just did a quick search for you on the gurmatveechar website and found katha tracks by sant jagjit singh ji harkhowale on the subject. Its something that i have not listened to before but just a quick find.

 

http://www.gurmatveechar.com/audio.php?q=f&f=%2FKatha%2F02_Present_Day_Katha%2FBaba_Jagjit_Singh_(Harkhowal_wale)%2FBrahmchari_Katha

 

http://www.gurmatveechar.com/audio.php?q=f&f=%2FKatha%2F02_Present_Day_Katha%2FBaba_Jagjit_Singh_(Harkhowal_wale)%2FBrahmchari_%26_Pati_Patni_Dharam

[Ragmaala]

3 hours ago, singh1981 said:

No response, please someone reply now. 

Is it important to be brahmcharya after your marriage duties are complete in order to obtain brahm avastha?

It depends on your goals in life and the mutual understanding from your partner. If your partner is not ready then there will be friction/conflict. 

There are various levels of grihasth jeevan. Nothing is wrong or right, just depends on your internal state or goals. There are some who will bhog to only procreate, some who have moderate bhog beyond procreation and some who are extreme. 

Are you living with your partner? Answer depends on your situation.

[singh1981]

41 minutes ago, Ragmaala said:

It depends on your goals in life and the mutual understanding from your partner. If your partner is not ready then there will be friction/conflict. 

There are various levels of grihasth jeevan. Nothing is wrong or right, just depends on your internal state or goals. There are some who will bhog to only procreate, some who have moderate bhog beyond procreation and some who are extreme. 

Are you living with your partner? Answer depends on your situation.

Living with partner. Partner has no issue on this as partner is also spiritual. I'd like to know if Brahmcharya is necessary to make heaps in spiritual progress. 

[SunnySingh]

7 hours ago, singh1981 said:

Is it important to be brahmcharya after your marriage duties are complete in order to obtain brahm avastha?

 

Bramacharaya is a very high state of mind, and for that one has to do a lot of kamaee. It is not just saying I will do so and get it, it is to fight with the mind on the internal level with the weapon of Naam alone.

That is the right weapon to knock out the mind, for with other methods and weapons, the mind can not be subdued, for as seen in the history, it has defeated big rishis, munis and sanyasis.

So to deal properly with this enemy of kaam, one needs the correct weapon, which is His sacred Name as per Bani, all other efforts are futile and a waste of time.

And also do not remain in delusion that being a brahmacaharya is enough to meet Him. What about the other remaining 4 thieves? 

So once you use correctly the weapon of Naam to defeat the mind, then not 1, nor 2, or 3 thieves will be defeated, but all the 5 of them , that also at the same time.

As sikhs we are at all not aware of the spiritual wealth given to us through the Bani if applied correctly, we are handcuffed by the blind  and we are guided by them.

We have to free ourselves from all the chains put on us since we are born, and hold tightly to the pure teachings of the paviter Bani, only then can we truly profit ourselves as souls.

Your intentions to get the daat of Naam from a mahapurukh, is the start of the path leading to Him