Samarbir Singh Posted February 10, 2021 Report Share Posted February 10, 2021 WJKK WJKF Guru Piaro i have stopped masterbaiting and try to stay away from Kaam as much as possible such as pornography. And with Guru Ji's kirpa my attention doesn't go there even people talk about those things and say this is your age to do this, this isn't bad at all but i've been down that road and that route is horrible. So two months ago i stopped but two weeks ago i just went to look and without touching my private i ejacualted. And i was very dispointed that i've been on the right path and gave it up in a instance for 1 second of pleasure. So i did benti that Guru Ji please help me fight the 5 thieves and with Guru ji's kirpa i've been fine. But last night i was excited that i was going leave my body and go to malack's ghar. And i was in deep sleep. And i felt when i came back into my body around 2:50 a.m as soon as i came to the desh of the paanj or kal the net of kaam fell over my right away and i had a dream of two people having sex and i started to masterbait in my dream. as soon as i understood that if i didnt stop i would ejacualate (in my dream). Then i woke up at around 2:53 and in fear i grabed my privates and i realised that i had wet dream. This made me sad that as i came back into maya, kaam spent no extra time on laying its net over me. Are having wet dreams the same as masterbaiting I know Guru Gobind Singh Ji said dont go into a bed with another women even in your dream but this was unconscious so, is this my fault? PLEASE NO JOKES THIS IS NOT AN EASY THING TO TALK ABOUT DON'T MAKE FUN OF PEOPLE WHO NEED HELP. Does this mean my Maan is still kachaa (unripe)? I did benti to Guru Ji to do kirpa and save me from the paanj. I am 15. Bhul Chak Maaf as i am and will always be a child. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soulfinder Posted February 10, 2021 Report Share Posted February 10, 2021 6 minutes ago, Samarbir Singh said: WJKK WJKF Guru Piaro i have stopped masterbaiting and try to stay away from Kaam as much as possible such as pornography. And with Guru Ji's kirpa my attention doesn't go there even people talk about those things and say this is your age to do this, this isn't bad at all but i've been down that road and that route is horrible. So two months ago i stopped but two weeks ago i just went to look and without touching my private i ejacualted. And i was very dispointed that i've been on the right path and gave it up in a instance for 1 second of pleasure. So i did benti that Guru Ji please help me fight the 5 thieves and with Guru ji's kirpa i've been fine. But last night i was excited that i was going leave my body and go to malack's ghar. And i was in deep sleep. And i felt when i came back into my body around 2:50 a.m as soon as i came to the desh of the paanj or kal the net of kaam fell over my right away and i had a dream of two people having sex and i started to masterbait in my dream. as soon as i understood that if i didnt stop i would ejacualate (in my dream). Then i woke up at around 2:53 and in fear i grabed my privates and i realised that i had wet dream. This made me sad that as i came back into maya, kaam spent no extra time on laying its net over me. Are having wet dreams the same as masterbaiting I know Guru Gobind Singh Ji said dont go into a bed with another women even in your dream but this was unconscious so, is this my fault? PLEASE NO JOKES THIS IS NOT AN EASY THING TO TALK ABOUT DON'T MAKE FUN OF PEOPLE WHO NEED HELP. Does this mean my Maan is still kachaa (unripe)? I did benti to Guru Ji to do kirpa and save me from the paanj. I am 15. Bhul Chak Maaf as i am and will always be a child. Veer ji i would suggest you to vist your doctor straight away as they can give medication to help deal with this problem. Also you may need a psychiatrist referal by the doctor for this ongoing problem. Feel free to sendd me a private message. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Samarbir Singh Posted February 10, 2021 Author Report Share Posted February 10, 2021 31 minutes ago, Soulfinder said: Veer ji i would suggest you to vist your doctor straight away as they can give medication to help deal with this problem. Also you may need a psychiatrist referal by the doctor for this ongoing problem. Feel free to sendd me a private message. No veer ji this was a thing when I used to masterbait this is second this has happened but I know I am still beginner slowly as my maan becomes paca this will so handing this problem to the guru. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soulfinder Posted February 10, 2021 Report Share Posted February 10, 2021 14 minutes ago, Samarbir Singh said: No veer ji this was a thing when I used to masterbait this is second this has happened but I know I am still beginner slowly as my maan becomes paca this will so handing this problem to the guru. Thats true veer ji hopefully this problen will be sorted out soon as you are on the right pathway after reading your posts on here. You could try doing Kirtan Sohila 5 times before sleeping as i heard about it in katha. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ragmaala Posted February 13, 2021 Report Share Posted February 13, 2021 On 2/10/2021 at 6:02 PM, Soulfinder said: Veer ji i would suggest you to vist your doctor straight away as they can give medication to help deal with this problem Sorry to say but there is no medication for this and in medicine its not considered a problem. @Samarbir Singh Wet dreams are of two kinds ,one in which you remember the sexual encounter and another in which you dont have a memory of it. In one you lose the ojas , in another one not much difference. Dont worry much about it. Once you stop masturbating it can take from 6 months to 1 year for wet dreams to stop. but it will happen slowly. make yourself busy with other things...dont stress too much about it. stop watching youtube, movies, songs, even news unless necessary, occupy your time with something else. workout like squats, deadlifts also help with brahmacharya. if you undertand hindi, go through this playlist, this mahapurush explains very well how to keep brahmacharya, it helped me a lot in past. he is a really chardikala sant. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Paapiman Posted February 21, 2021 Report Share Posted February 21, 2021 On 2/10/2021 at 5:55 PM, Samarbir Singh said: WJKK WJKF Guru Piaro i have stopped masterbaiting and try to stay away from Kaam as much as possible such as pornography. And with Guru Ji's kirpa my attention doesn't go there even people talk about those things and say this is your age to do this, this isn't bad at all but i've been down that road and that route is horrible. So two months ago i stopped but two weeks ago i just went to look and without touching my private i ejacualted. And i was very dispointed that i've been on the right path and gave it up in a instance for 1 second of pleasure. So i did benti that Guru Ji please help me fight the 5 thieves and with Guru ji's kirpa i've been fine. But last night i was excited that i was going leave my body and go to malack's ghar. And i was in deep sleep. And i felt when i came back into my body around 2:50 a.m as soon as i came to the desh of the paanj or kal the net of kaam fell over my right away and i had a dream of two people having sex and i started to masterbait in my dream. as soon as i understood that if i didnt stop i would ejacualate (in my dream). Then i woke up at around 2:53 and in fear i grabed my privates and i realised that i had wet dream. This made me sad that as i came back into maya, kaam spent no extra time on laying its net over me. Are having wet dreams the same as masterbaiting I know Guru Gobind Singh Ji said dont go into a bed with another women even in your dream but this was unconscious so, is this my fault? PLEASE NO JOKES THIS IS NOT AN EASY THING TO TALK ABOUT DON'T MAKE FUN OF PEOPLE WHO NEED HELP. Does this mean my Maan is still kachaa (unripe)? I did benti to Guru Ji to do kirpa and save me from the paanj. I am 15. Bhul Chak Maaf as i am and will always be a child. Please email me at paapiman5@gmail.com. Gurparsaad, Daas will try to help you. Bhul chuk maaf 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Singh Posted February 21, 2021 Report Share Posted February 21, 2021 39 minutes ago, Guest Paapiman said: Please email me at paapiman5@gmail.com. Gurparsaad, Daas will try to help you. Bhul chuk maaf Why you asking a young Singh to private email you? I’m sure your intentions are sincere but promoting online safety needs to come first ji Reminder: people might not be genuine. Let’s keep discussion on this forum ji 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guest Paapiman Posted February 21, 2021 Report Share Posted February 21, 2021 1 hour ago, Guest Singh said: Why you asking a young Singh to private email you? I’m sure your intentions are sincere but promoting online safety needs to come first ji "> Reminder: people might not be genuine. Let’s keep discussion on this forum ji He is 15...not a small kid. He can get married in US at that age. Plus...Gurparsaad...Daas has been a member of the forum since 2015. Rest is his choice. Bhul chuk maaf 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Samarbir Singh Posted February 22, 2021 Author Report Share Posted February 22, 2021 1 hour ago, sevak said: Lock yourself inside a room for 30 days. Sit cross legged infront of a blank wall and do nirantar simran. Eat less. You need to do an ascetic attitude. Parents won’t let me brother plus I have school and workout in order to keep this body good for use 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sevak Posted February 22, 2021 Report Share Posted February 22, 2021 15 hours ago, Samarbir Singh said: Parents won’t let me brother plus I have school and workout in order to keep this body good for use Please ignore what I said. H.Singh below has made the best suggestion for you. But pls avoid bad company / sangat. GBU 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post hsingh6 Posted February 22, 2021 Popular Post Report Share Posted February 22, 2021 Interestingly the answer to the young man is in Sukhmani Sahib, first Ashtpadi...Prabh Keah Simran Jatti...Satti.....This viakhiaya has been done earlier today (22.02.2021) by Giani Jangbir Singh at Takht Sri Hazoor Sahib, Abchal Nagar...I am posting the link below (the Jaati part is at 55.33 mins)..Suggest you hear the entire series (this is the fourth instalment). Further In Salok Seshkriti this issue has been addressed..."Hea Kaamang..Narak Bisramang Bahu Jonee Bharamvarh...(Salok Sehaskrati M 5 , Ank1358)... All Sadhu Sants have done the jaap of the Salok Seshkriti for hours..that to me is the only way to bring this under control, as per Gurbani...whether you do religious education or any education it is ONLY with the bakshish of Vahiguru that this can be brought under control...applying force to control this - while advocated by certain sects - is not the Gurmat way...Our way is ardas, and recitation of shabads ....over a period of time its intensity will reduce if you are genuinely desirous of that goal... You can hear the entire Salok Sehaskriti katha by going to www.gurmatveechar.com>audio>katha>puratan katha>Sant Kartar Singh>click on second folder which relates to Salok Sehaskarti.. (Go to Volume 14 and at 24 mins this katha on Kaam starts) May the Gurus Bakshish be with you..and what you are experiencing is absolutely normal...will settle with bani and ardas 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sevak Posted February 22, 2021 Report Share Posted February 22, 2021 11 hours ago, hsingh6 said: ..Our way is ardas, and recitation of shabads .... You have said everything in one short sentence. Thank You and this applies to all things not just kaam. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paapiman Posted February 24, 2021 Report Share Posted February 24, 2021 On 2/10/2021 at 5:55 PM, Samarbir Singh said: I know Guru Gobind Singh Ji said dont go into a bed with another women even in your dream but this was unconscious so, is this my fault? That instruction (for the most part) applies to people of high spiritual states. Please do not put unnecessary pressure on yourself. Many Gurbani verses apply (for the most part) to spiritually advanced people. Don't read them and get dejected, in case you feel that you are so far away from those stages (as mentioned in those Gurbani verses). For ordinary Baptized Sikhs, the rule is to NOT have any sexual relations with a lady before marriage. Keep it simple and strive to progress spiritually. Bhul chuk maaf 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Samarbir Singh Posted February 25, 2021 Author Report Share Posted February 25, 2021 On 2/24/2021 at 10:11 AM, paapiman said: That instruction (for the most part) applies to people of high spiritual states. Please do not put unnecessary pressure on yourself. Many Gurbani verses apply (for the most part) to spiritually advanced people. Don't read them and get dejected, in case you feel that you are so far away from those stages (as mentioned in those Gurbani verses). For ordinary Baptized Sikhs, the rule is to NOT have any sexual relations with a lady before marriage. Keep it simple and strive to progress spiritually. Bhul chuk maaf Veer ji im reverting back to my old ways and keep watch pornography and masterbaiting i want to stop but the urge becomes so strong. How do i come back into sikhi ive stopped doing allot of my path. I dont want to lose sikhi but its happening... 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soulfinder Posted February 26, 2021 Report Share Posted February 26, 2021 54 minutes ago, Samarbir Singh said: Veer ji im reverting back to my old ways and keep watch pornography and masterbaiting i want to stop but the urge becomes so strong. How do i come back into sikhi ive stopped doing allot of my path. I dont want to lose sikhi but its happening... Veer ji here is a post that dass made a few years ago on here. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soulfinder Posted February 26, 2021 Report Share Posted February 26, 2021 @Samarbir Singh Veer Ji listen to this katha at 50:00 https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1595912053802642&id=165458433514685 And do jaap of this shabad https://www.searchgurbani.com/guru-granth-sahib/ang/14/print-view 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paapiman Posted February 26, 2021 Report Share Posted February 26, 2021 2 hours ago, Samarbir Singh said: Veer ji im reverting back to my old ways and keep watch pornography and masterbaiting i want to stop but the urge becomes so strong. How do i come back into sikhi ive stopped doing allot of my path. I dont want to lose sikhi but its happening... Gurparsaad, Daas will pm you. Bhul chuk maaf 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sevak Posted March 22, 2021 Report Share Posted March 22, 2021 On 2/25/2021 at 5:30 PM, Samarbir Singh said: Veer ji im reverting back to my old ways and keep watch pornography and masterbaiting i want to stop but the urge becomes so strong. How do i come back into sikhi ive stopped doing allot of my path. I dont want to lose sikhi but its happening... Im shocked that at 15 you have access to all this. Your best interest lies that someone speaks to your parents about it. You may feel scared, but after 5-10 years you will realize that this was the best thing to do. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paapiman Posted March 23, 2021 Report Share Posted March 23, 2021 On 3/22/2021 at 5:30 AM, sevak said: Im shocked that at 15 you have access to all this. Your best interest lies that someone speaks to your parents about it. You may feel scared, but after 5-10 years you will realize that this was the best thing to do. Shocked? Do you live in the West? Bhul chuk maaf 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sevak Posted March 23, 2021 Report Share Posted March 23, 2021 (edited) 46 minutes ago, paapiman said: Shocked? Do you live in the West? Bhul chuk Edited March 23, 2021 by sevak 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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