Humblesikh Posted October 7, 2003 Report Share Posted October 7, 2003 Is there a way to resolve conflicts in a marriage in a situation where the other party is not even willing to sit down and discuss what went wrong and steps taken to correct them? Talking to elders in the community is not working as the family is adamant on getting a divorce. Problems: 1. Husband and Wife ( Husband not living with wife, Job in a different State). 2. Husband and Wifes family have a communication problem, which no one was willing to address, situation deteriorated. 3. Wife under pressure from Husbands family 4. Outsiders encouraging wife to seek divorce so she is for ever in debt to them thanks ... 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 7, 2003 Report Share Posted October 7, 2003 in many situations 3rd partys can put allot of stress onto a relationship if that was me - i would tell my family and her family to step out of this and talk 1-2-1 with the missus give her a ring and tell her that we need to see where each of us stand and to talk about the current problem if she agrees then thats one step done... if not - no harm in persuing - but if this is to of no evail then you may want to ask a neutral family member to talk to her if you do meet up then settle ur differences, dont say shes wrong - and ur right.. accept ur faults and accept hers - no one is perfect relationships should be of comprimise and not one sided, you may not like some things but u will have to accept them if you really wish your marraige to stay together best thing is to be sympathetic and understanding... if she points out ur faults then you must make note of them, and visa versa kick out all 3rd partys for the mean time... and come to a resolution - its ur relationship you should be able to sort it out.. good luck 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Humblesikh Posted October 8, 2003 Author Report Share Posted October 8, 2003 Steel Veer ji, Thanks for the words of advice. have tried to ring her up, after 5 years of being together, she said any further contact, she would call the cops. this was a love marriage to begin with she in the total control of her family - a neutral member of her family was basically asked to be involved. asked my family not to be involved i do not believe in the blame game, but would just like to sit down and sort things out. her father and mother are willing, but her brother and his wife are adamant about breaking up the marriage. she and her familiy are treating me as an enemy. She is a professional 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 8, 2003 Report Share Posted October 8, 2003 ohh acha i gotcha.. well sorry to say but things do seem bleek if u have any contact with her parents ask em to talk to her.. if still no then i guess ull have to file for divorce... theres no need being in a dead end relationship and u need to get on with ur life... whether its remarry or stay single... u need to put ur past behind u give it a try thru her folks. otherwise i dont see any need clutching onto straws... good luck 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Humblesikh Posted October 9, 2003 Author Report Share Posted October 9, 2003 Thanks for the words Veer. IDEAL Singh, had posted a similar question in August 31 ... can he shed some light on whatever happenned in his situation? regards, 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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