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Badla Jatti da....Badla Orchid da....

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The Four Wives

There was a rich merchant who had 4 wives. He loved the 4th wife the most. He adorned her with rich robes and treated her to delicacies. He took great care of her and gave her nothing but the best. He also loved the 3rd wife very much. He's very proud of her and always wanted to show her off to his friends. However, the merchant is always in great fear that she might run away with some other men. He too, loved his 2nd wife. She is a very considerate person, always patient and in fact is the merchant's confidante. Whenever the merchant faced some problems, he always turned to his 2nd wife and she would always help him out and tide him through difficult times.

Now, the merchant's 1st wife is a very loyal partner and has made great contributions in maintaining his wealth and business as well as taking care of the household. However, the merchant did not love the first wife and although she loved him deeply, he hardly took notice of her.

One day, the merchant fell ill. Before long, he knew that he was going to die soon. He thought of his luxurious life and told himself, "Now I have 4 wives with me. But when I die, I'll be alone. How lonely I'll be!" Thus, he asked the 4th wife, "I loved you most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?" "No way!" replied the 4th wife and she walked away without another word. The answer cut like a sharp knife right into the merchant's heart.

The sad merchant then asked the 3rd wife, "I have loved you so much for all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?" "No!" replied the 3rd wife. "Life is so good here! I'm going to remarry when you die!" The merchant's heart sank and turned cold.

He then asked the 2nd wife, "I always turned to you for help and you've always helped me out. Now I need your help again. When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?" "I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!" replied the 2nd wife. "At the very most, I can only send you to your grave." The answer came like a bolt of thunder and the merchant was devastated.

Then a voice called out: "I'll leave with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go." The merchant looked up and there was his first wife. She was so skinny, almost like she suffered from malnutrition. Greatly grieved, the merchant said, "I should have taken much better care of you while I could have !"

Actually we all have 4 wives in our lives,..

The 4th wife is our body. No matter how much time and effort we lavish in making it look good, it'll leave us when we die.

Our 3rd wife, is our possessions, status and wealth. When we die, they all go to others.

The 2nd wife is our family and friends. No matter how close they had been there for us when we're alive, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave.

The 1st wife is in fact our soul. Often neglected in our pursuit of material wealth and sensual pleasure.

It is actually the only thing that follows us wherever we go.........

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Kabeer, the door of liberation is very narrow, less than the width of a mustard seed.

Your mind is larger than an elephant; how will it pass through? ||58||

Yes , it does.....it happened to my Grandfather....

Thanks for posting...

Why...do ur own loved ones hurt u....when u nurtured them like ur own kids.....WHY??? :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:

A bond of sisters is pious and pure....and then they just break the trust ..the faith....the bond... :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: WHY THE HECK..... :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: I guess I shd do paath :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:

Does someone know how make the icing of the cake???I tried with Malai and it was sooo sick....ruined the cake as well...

Raitas

1.

Ghiya ....medium size half (Grate it)

Curd

peel off the outer skin....Boil grated ghiya....drain the water through a sieve....(or can be used guno atta to preserve the nutrients) ....Blend the curd till smooth....add the boiled ghiya....add salt,pepper to taste....

Aaloo raita...

Boil Aaloos

Chop them to small pieces....add to smoothed curd....add salt,pepper to taste....

Pyaaz tamatar da raita

Onions chopped tiny winy

tamtars smooth chopped tiny winy

add to smoothed curd ....add salt,pepper to taste....u can also add...coriander .....

Boondi da raita is slow ullu jeha....no need to add that.....

dadaji...sure u can have baltis n baltis of cha...just help me

Nice article thanks...

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In a small village in the valley, there lived a man

who was always happy, kind, and well disposed to

everyone he met. He always smiled and had a kind and

encouraging word to say whenever necessary. Everyone

who met him left feeling, better, happier and elated.

People knew they could count on him, and regarded him

as a great friend.

One of the village dwellers was curious to know what

his secret was, how could he be always so kind and

helpful? How is it that he held no grudge towards

anyone and was always happy?

Once, upon meeting him in the street he asked him:

"Most people are selfish and unsatisfied. They do not

smile as often as you do; neither are they as helpful

or kind as you are. How do you explain it?"

"When you make peace with yourself, then you can be in

peace with the rest of the world. If you can recognize

the spirit in yourself, you can recognize the spirit

in everyone, and then you find it natural to be kind

and well disposed to all. If your thoughts are under

your control you become strong and firm. The outer

mask of the personality is like a robot programmed to

do certain tasks. Your habits and thoughts are the

programs. Be free from these programming and then the

inner good that resides in you will be revealed."

"But a lot of work is necessary. Good habits have to

be developed. The ability to concentrate and to

control the thoughts has to be strengthened. The work

is difficult and endless. There are many walls that

need to be to climbed. It is not an easy task."

Lamented the villager.

"Do not think about the difficulties, otherwise that

what you will see and experience. Just quieten your

feelings and thoughts and try to stay in this peace.

All the abilities and powers awaken spontaneously. You

do not work on them directly. They are by-products of

your peace of mind. Just try to be calm and do not let

yourself be carried away by your thoughts."

"Is that all?" Asked the villager.

"Try to watch your thoughts and see how they come and

go. Stay in the quietness that arises. The moments of

peace will be brief at first, but in time they will

get longer. This peace is also strength, power,

kindness, and love. When you realize that you are one

with the Universal Power, you begin to act from a

different dimension, not from the selfish, small,

limited ego."

"I will try to remember your words," said the villager

and continued, "there is another thing that I am

curious about. You do not seem to be influenced by the

environment. You have a kind word to everyone and are

helpful. Yet people do not exploit your goodness, and

they treat you well."

"Goodness and being kind do not necessarily point to

weakness. When you are good you can also be strong.

People sense your strength and do not impose on you.

When you are strong and calm inside, you help people

because you can and you want to. You then act from

strength and not from weakness. Goodness can also go

with power and strength, it is not a sign of weakness

as some people erroneously think."

"Thank you very much for your advice", said the

villager and went away happy and satisfied.

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Well just that I have done 2 levels of Reiki...and from the reiki master I did she tells me ,u can use it to fulfill the material desires by the use of certain crystals as u said...and some symbols....But ...like in Hinduism they give certain stones to change luck n stuff...so when it comes to changing the luck using crystals and stones....thats not right according to Sikhi right....so, shd I continue with practising Reiki or stop....if I wish to chak Amrit in near future?????

who is "Bektashi"??

Shimla Mirch n Cheese

1. Capsicum 4

2. Onions 3 medium size

3. Cheese(Paneer) Chopped into 1*1 cubes

4.hari mirch(finely chopped)

5.Adrak,Lasan[Ginger,Garlic] (chopped finely)

6.tomatoes 1 (optional)blended

7.Salt (to taste)

8.haldi (half to one tbsp)

9.

Method

In a karahi...open mouthed vessel....add some gheo/oil shallow fry the capsicum...then shallow fry the onion....(both separately)

now in another vessel add some gheo/oil and add lasan ,adrak,fry till brown....add the blended half tomato...stir till a dry paste is formed....add salt,pepper,haldi and hari mirch....mix well.....add the fried onions and capsicum.....blend well....cover for a few minutes and let it cook...

In the end add paneer cubes....sprinkle some dried methi over for good flavour

Hahaha...I dont the hv material But that was a good shot....u langoor

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haanji japnese healing art...but it has more than just healing someone...