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  1. their argument is that no one has done such thing [taking amrit] in our house..specially girl..and their argument is that we have seen other people who took amrit..they eat jhoot and they eat everything..and they don't let their hair grow on their face..their argument is that amrit isn't for girls cuz girls doesn't look good with big fat eyebrows or hair on their faces..why are u wearing gatra[kirpan].

    Hmm... Got the point. One thing is clear that motive of your parents is not that "bad" as it sounded previously. Its very natural for parents.. because they care for you, atleast your wordly interest.

    No doubt, the situation is pretty complex. because none is wrong. If their arguments are valid, you have all the right to choose the way you want to live the life.

    Since your parents won't be reading this post, so i will write here what i would like to tell you. But, for sure, these are my individual thougts, it is correct according tome but may not be the same for others.. its just depands what approach do you have towards life. I am no one to tell/teach you whats right or wrong for you.. i am just putting my feelings into words..

    First thing, Why did you choose this way? why do you think that this is the only way you can get close to the god/gurus? I agree, this is one way.. but my question is is that the only way?

    As such, generally, Parents are not less than the god. They have given birth to u, they have suffered so much pain in bring up and making u what are u today. You owe them more than you owe to anybody. you should think many times and should use both mind and heart before breaking their hearts. Best bet is when you can convience them that whatever u r doing is for the good for you ( note that u need not to convience them for their welfare, u need to convience them that its for the good for urself, they are ur parents)

    .and i have told them it's reyat..punj pyare told us to do so..their question..who are they to say they are not guru ..they are common person..

    They are religiously highly respected persons.. Its difficult/impossible to comapre a person with Guru jis.

    tying turban..who gonna mary u..

    caring about you.. you may reject this but they are ur parents. They understand, at least, the world, better than you. Its their worry about you.. its their love.

    this and that u know..don't sit with us..don't touch food when someone is drinking this that..so they are started to ingore me and tokna in everything..cuz they say that they got tired..of me..not changing into their world..and they say that people who told u to tie turban they are doing bad thing like cult..it's not important to wear turban..they say to do paat two times a day..that's it..according to them..doing paat two times isn't leaving guru ji..but for me it's not enough..u know..

    There are many ways for living the life.. and each path have its pros and cons. There are others on this board who are capable in explaining the more religious way and its pros. for me, i would say, if i go to gurudware for one hour in a week, i get enough inspiration/peace/energy/happiness. and for the rest of the week, i will live the wordly life... because, i feel, i have been sent here, by god, to live the life.. if i help poorer, unables, if i don't make others life miserable,difficult,painful .. its equivalent to any seva... its equivalent to any many hours of prayers.. if i can serve my parents, make them happy, if i can add smiles to someones life.. if i can comfert others, if i can help them enjoy this journey of life ..its , for me, almost equal to "amrit-chekna"...

    Call is yours, You are not wrong .. neither ur parents. None can decide and tell you what's wrong and whats right. If you are really serious and dedicated , you should go ahead but try to convience ur parents as much as possible. But, think many times, its life, time never comes back.. ur decision not only affects ur life but also of others who are related to you.. God is with everybody, we all are god's child.. he/her( god) treats everybody equally..

    Its ypur life, Whatever u decide, I wish you all the best. and with one last sentence, Parents are not less than the God, we owe them our lives.

    Bhool-chuk maaf! Hope i didn't say more than my limits.. if i did, i m sorry.. i didn't mean to perturb anybody.

    Thanks...

    Best Wishes,

    Sardu!

  2. I dunno its right forum or not.. but i think i should try asking my friends first...

    So My problem is:

    OS: SUN Solaris 8...

    I ran jass tool for os hardening and it set a password expiry policy for the users for x days. it warns users at login time if passwd is expiring within next 7 days. Suppose, one user didn't change its password and crosses the expiry limit. If user logs in via telnet, it would force him/her for the password change. but, I can not run telnet so i have openssh. but, here is the problem.. if password has expired, it won't allow user to login nor it prompts for password change ( as telnet do)... I want it that way (telnet way).. what to do.. :( help kero dostooo :cry:

  3. greetings

    life on other planets is this possible? there are 8.4 million species on this planet? what about the other planets?

    man has been around for only a little bit of time, before that there was dinosaurs.. did god want man to arrive later? just like man came 2 be.. will man eventually be wiped out?

    I don't think so. And even it its a possibility, who cares? and why. My life is limited/short. and there are ample lives like u all are here to share the fun.

    Moreover, if by any chance, some other planet has life, i humbly reuqest not to find/explore that. If we can't be good with our next doors neighbours, if we hate human belings from of other caste,religion,country. why.. for what we are searchinhg more lives. huh! Let them live peacefully. Please.

  4. question: what's the basis of palmistry?

    probably, after deep/long observation they discovered that lines on palm gives hint about the future.. or they are able to relate these lines and changes in them with the life.

    what do they believe the lines represent?

    Not Fututre exactly. Its like that u can have a rough scatch of one's (past/current/future) life. I dunno much..

    and what's their theory on how these lines are formed?

    No comments.

  5. oh don't get me wrong. i'm not talking about the entire world. i KNOW that'd be impossible. but wouldn't it be great if everyone who's on this site tried to adopt this mentality of equality and fairness? and if not everyone, then most people... and if not most people, then some people... i mean even ONE person trying to do this much would make the world a better place.

    hmm.... I agree. So what about you.. are u ready for this?

  6. sukhi_v if you are serious about this.

    We can cross-reference that. At my work, there is punjabi-hindu freind of mine. He makes janam kundali's for free. I m gettin my done sooooon!!!! Not that i care about my life... its just like to know few things :D :D

    cool.. well.. i can cross check ur friend's work.. or may help you on that.. if u need.. !

  7. First thing first:bow down .

    while reading the above text, i realised the need/area of improvement on myself. i see i was/am wrong at some/many occassions/places. Thanks for this.. I will try to improve. This text, infact, have further consolidated my belief/approach of living the life. I request everybody to give a serious thinking to the above text.

    Live it.. :)

    Regards!

  8. sure it is... but it's frightening too... i think i've had my share of it with the 5 marriages/partners/whatevers...

    common.. 5 affairs.. isn't it interesting?? dont' fear.. its life.. take as it comes.. enjoy everything.;)

    and don't take this seriously..no perfect astrologer has told you that. even, i think nobody has seen/read your hand..bte which hand you were observing.. right or left?

  9. just because it's difficult it doesn't mean that it's impossible for us to try to treat each other as equals. it's the fact that it's difficult that makes it something to strive for even more. consider it a challenge that'll end up makin u so much better if u even so much as try it...

    First thing first.. Impressive.

    now my argument...

    i can try.. you can try.. but not the whole world. its human nature.. human nature doesn't change. and also, i think, god also doesnt want us that way..;). islike thoda muskil hai.. sabka ek saath change hona..

  10. waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki fatehh

    that's true..but parents are forcing me to leave sikhi and stop wearing dustar..with guru ji's kirpa trying hard to not tos ay n e thing..and stop arguing with them..only it occurs when they force to leave sikhi or get out of the house [they don't mean it] but words does hurt u know..so how long can one stay and be victim of this..trying to teach me what world thinks .. work with world..and i m not interested in that..lol so i don't think daas life is different that bhagat pralad ji..loll hehehe

    First tjhing first. Why they are doing so? whats the reason/thinking? are they asking you to stop wearing dustar only or they are against being or recognized as sikh? Whats their argument?

  11. i meant that astrology's controversial for Sikhs because we have no official stand on it. some ppl call it superstition, some call it authentic. no one seems to be able to agree and a whole lot of us don't really know what to think of it. (and then u've got ppl like me who try n stay away or ignore it altogether.)

    acchaaaa.. got it! but its interseting, what do u say?

  12. waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki fatehhh

    saadh sangat ji..daas need all ur advice...last year in august daas got the member of fitness club..for one year..but now i don't go there n e more..but still paying monthly fees..so i m giving fees for no reason to them..and one of my friend asked me if it is okay that if i can give her my membership card for that fitness club..and she would go under my name..so i need ur advice that if my friend go to club under my name without fitness club people know would that be cheating..on my part..please let me know..

    bhul chuk maafi ji

    daas

    obviously its Cheating .. but its upto you how do u take it.. you have already paid for that. But again, its your mistake, you should have been regular. its just one way to look at it otherway is same as suggested by many :)

  13. first thing first.. astrology is not controversial. :)

    i feel that article was more to highlight the involvment of governments(powers) in the studies.. like they decide what should be taught and what not. This type of practice should not be welcomed. As for the astrology, u r right.. no harm in study... its good to to understand this science..:)

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