Sardu

I am ready.. i support u.. the only problem is i don't eat non-veg.. so whats for me?

LOl@ Vats on I am asking your IDs and you people...

Kadi Ajj Tak Kissey Nu Ethe Siddi Tara Juwaab Mileya LOL

lol..

i dunno if astrology is bakwas or if it's true or nething... all i know is that i dun pay attention to it cuz it's surrounded by so much controversy and it doesn't really seem necessary to me to form a concrete view on it cuz it dun really apply to my life.

i tend to enjoy living in the present and dealing with everything happening now as opposed to trying to understand what the future holds and trying to avoid something that may never happen (or adversely cause it to happen because i'm trying to avoid it)...

very true .. I agree with this.. keep it upp

Orchids, don't believe this bull. This is Brahmanism. The Guru's said NEVER to believe in this stuff. Just do nitnem and everything will be just fine.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

mate, A question for U ONLY. Did guruji's , anytime, oppose this?

Hi

friends just told me about this forum and it looks great!!!!!

My name is Jessie Kaur from California

I'm a nayani here, only 17 so please be considerate when i make any mistakes and i do make a lot lol

Welcome Welcome. Nice name..I remember this Indian TV serial by your name.. it says.. Jassie Jaise koi nahi..

VJKK VJKF

I been reading this forum for a long time now but never joined because I just wanted to be inspired by the sangat here.

I am 23 and live in Melbourne in Victoria State in Australia. Work for a computer applications company which means I travel around the country as well as South East Asia.

Been into Sikhism now for 10 years and want to learn more

Naunidhi Kaur

Welcome mate. Hope you will have a nice time here

Welcome back Sardu paaji... . Where have you been? Longtime since you went on self-exile... gr8 to see you back... Hope you remember me too..

Thanks veere. and how can i forget u? i very much remember you..

Happy B'day Veer!

why the oh dear, u had an accident??

lol!!

we remember you sardhu bhaaji... glad to came back...

Bring dreams along too

Thanks veere.... nice to learn that u remember me.. feeling good. i dunno abt dreams, i thought, she should be regular here.

One questoin I have on God, is if God is all loving and kind, why do we have to go through these birth and deaths, over and over.

Why you are worried abt birth and life.. u are here because you born.. otherwise u won't be here.. one has to grow old and ultimately,dead so that the process can continue. you come here, enjoy the life and go. come again when your number will come next time. its cyclic.. it has to be this way... otherwise.. earth will be over crowded..

Sometimes it doesnt' make sense. Like okay, if our karma decides our fates, does it mean taht all rich people are better than low income people.

its not about being rich .... somebody said above here, more money doesn't mean better life..

If were born into a family that has no money, no house, lives day by day and then we have people who have all the comforts in the world, how is this equal.

If we are not born equal, then how can we all be judged equal?

...

Waheguru

we are not be judged equal, my friend. don't worry.. judgement will be relative.. according to the comforts you were given.. okay?. convince now?.. then. live the life.. in a good way.. be good and.. enjoy!!

greetings

quite a while back a pundit read my hand, he stated that i was to have 2 marriages when he read my hand, recently i went on a bus, the bus driver had a long conversation with me.. at the end of the stop when everybody got off the bus he read my hand and said exactly the same thing.. that i was to have two marriages

what do u make of all this?

our destiny is written on our hands?

First thing first, beleiving in astrology is a individual's look out. its surely not a "bekwaas". Its a science. but, yes, there are many immature and false astrologers, so one needs to be cautious.

Now, on to your question, you need not worry at all. Its not about marrying twice, it may be about having two relationship/afair. like one might not work out..and other may end up in marriage. Which is quite normal. So Don't worry friend, be happy.. life is cool and good.. Enjoy it.

I was playing last night and unknowingly 2 hairs came out of my beard. Because it was unknowingly do I need to go back and get peshed? Please advise.

Don't wory mate.. live the life... jo gaya so gaya.. Enjoy!

Namste/SSA/Hello/Adaab,

I Hope some of you remember me.. anyway.. Hows everybody doing? Thanks to dreams (from yd) , for suggesting me to come back here.

praavah i dont care about NRI indians...im def. nt a proud indian but i wont go into that(and i find it hard to believe any sikh is after the way they treat us)...wat i was shocked to read was this...

I have got somthing to say here.. but alas!!! Time is not permitting me. and I don't want to write anything in hurry or without proper thinking.. So leaving it here for now..

Certainly No. There is no point!!!

- dnt agree with u there - this matter of "you" finding - thats not gud. I tell ya straight up yeah - my mum or popz or brother or any1 elder then me who i know genuinley cares 4 me..... is like GuruJi sorting out my marriage.

I have a line to write here. If a guy comes staright to you, or if ur hearts singnals for a guy , can't it be a way Guru Ji may use to sending a message. The whole point was, lets Keep every option open..

I wud neva approach a guy - possible hint to my brava.... tell him the possiblity - but just to make it aware - i wundt wana know anything or talk to him or nuttin like dat.... theres a very VERY thin line - trust me - i dont wana cross it, not even near it with a bargpole!!!!

Wow!! Very well said and I truly appriciate your thinking/views here.

Sardu Ji - i bleev in love yeah - but its not sumthing i want to really know about. Im 16, right now, i just want to be me, have the presence of a young lady that not married but blossoming - (hopefully 4 the better).

of course for better..... Let me tell u , whatever your age is, your thoughts surely have maturity, i admire you for this. You have got a nice brain, heart and "Sanskaar(vlaues)".. Some of ur posts have reflected how genius you are.. Being older than you, Here my blessing are for you.

Ive seen the false love out there - the ungenuine feelings and at one point - could have of gone the total wrong direction!!!!!

love is never false.. its feelling.. feelings are geniun.. but its not easy to keep the feeling .. lack of comitment, sincerity, maturity makes it a bad experience.

When it comes to marriage - ill stand my ground. I dnt agree with love marrages!! Unless my mum n dad said i have to - i wudnt even atend the actual marriage ceremony if it was a love one of other peoples..

I dont mind really when i get married, i stick to what my elders have taught me and kirpa naal, ill stay in this thought of mind.

Ive never really forced my opinion on anyone and im not now... but love marriages are wrong. Just wrong pure and simple. I will never agree with them...

No love marriages is the moto i have been taught...... if theres 1 thing that gna be the most important thing - its got to be this!!!!!

Sounding like coming from heart ... without any argument, i respect your feelings and wish you all the best in life.

Hi I am a mystery !! :twisted:

*ahem ahem* i have been told that mystery is always interesting.. 8)

Nice try. Lala Lajpat Rai was an anti-Sikh Arya Samaji. Since you seem to have been brought up to believe the 'official' history then obviously you will believe all the bukwas about him being such a heroic martyr. Read Kapur Singh's Sachi Sakhi if you want the facts and not fairy stories.

No veere.. I m not interested in reading anything which introduces "Hate". I have not learned or being told about lala ji's being anti-sikh or whatever.... and i m not concerned about that part here. The fact is that he gave his life for the nation i am living now.. and its enough for me to feel good about him. Its good i have been taught in that way.. atleast I don't have "Built-in" Hate for any religion in my heart. Thanks!

So it's o.k. to kill a police officer just because he was British ?. How about the Sikh constable who had nothing to do with the lathi charge ?. Was it o.k. to kill him ?. He wasn't a farangee ?

yeah.. it was more than okay to kill a poilce officer if he is part of system which were "ruling" on my nation. it goes for any person inspite of caste, creed, and religion. This nation has been hurt more by "Gadaars" then "Outsiders".

More bukwas. The guy would have been a quisling for the Japanese. The Indian National Army was built up by Mohan Singh. He realised that the Japs were using him and they would try and rule India like the british so he stopped helping the Japs and was arrested. A 'true leader' like Bose either didn't realise that he was a pawn for the japs or he didn't care and probably would have been happy for some sort of governorship under the Japs.

I realized today that Too much knowledge/information is also not good. I won't comment on this.. since it urs or any bodies assumtion without any proof... I can only smile on this.. . Though, It was a simple war politics that japs favoured India. but anyway... simple things are for fools like me.. I am happy.

So you think that it was due to bad luck and the Atom Bomb that the INA wasn't able to free India. You're more gullible than I thought.

I just can wish that you could have understood what i meant. No more explantions to you. you are actually "Too " wise than i thought.

None of my family, grandfathers and grandmothers include owe anything to these people. If anything these Bhagat Singh's are to blame because they naively believed that India could be a country that would treat minorities as equals. Their actions promoted the belief amongst the Sikhs, so the Sikhs allowed themselves to be fooled by the Gandhis and Nehrus and hence we had 1984

I didn't request to inquire about owe part.. just ask them what it meant to be a slave of another nation.. what they feel about pre-independent era.

Only someone with a slavish mentality would consider that he owes these people anything. There's no need to worry, I won't ever forget the TRUE Martyrs of 1984, I respect their memory enough not allow their names of be mentioned in the same breath as coronary patients like Lajpat Rai.

Once again.. too much Wisdom. owe means a feeling of gratitute, respect and love. Now do u owe to ur parents, grandparents, friends, teachers? no please don't. otherwise u may feel like slave of them. huh!!! If u have disgraced a martyr, u can't truly respect others... its just like that 84 is fresh in ur mind.. and atmosphere around u is keeping it fresh.. If possible mate, Please come to 2003. I am here to welcome you.

With Regards

Sardu!

theres one part of this british indian history i dont understand, cany any1 please help clear this up. on the one hand we are told during british times the sikhs aligned themselves with the british and fought and gave sacrifices to the british raj in the world wars, on the other sikhs were fighting against the british rule. look at the dates of the second world war and the date of indian independance not far apart. or were there two sets of sikhs one loyal to british one against.

i have even heard some sikhs say they were better off under british rule than indian rule, while others say the british treated all asians like animals.

if that was the case i have another question how many indians were there? how many british soldiers were there? how cud the british maintain control over indians for 190 years as subject second class citizens unless a large chunk of indians agreed to this and worked actively with it to help theminute number of british soldiers?

Due to lack of time .. I will write one line in response.. it was majorly due to "Phoot Dalo Raaj Kero" technique of british which has always worked in this subcontinent..

Sardu bhaji dont let the Eye fool you

Suchy Gul dasa ? I am not as great, As I look 8)

Joke

Thanx a lot bhaji

lol!! Waah veere... u look nice... I swear.. but once again Tell u veer.. ur quote was simply superb and exact.. i appriciate ur feelings.

oh yeah - i dnt bleev in love marriages!!!!

.. its okay but i hope you do and will bleev in love..

Jus want to take out a moment

and thank TRUTHSINGH JI

for making such a wonderful page, and working so hard on it

This is a GREAT SEVA, and i wish best of luck in future with the website!

This website has brought many people of the path of Sikhi

once again THANX A LOT

Exactly!!! You are great.. u know that. No more words.. I don't have any even to say thanks to u.. !

Those who forget the lessons of history are condemned to repeat them.

Lala Lajpat Rai - died of a heart attack due to getting a beating from police lathis. Now known as 'Sher-e-Punjab' by the Hindus

He was hit on the head.... and was not taken to the hospital dispite of bleeding. His age was more than 55 that time. He was not prepared .. he was without any weapon.. You can't imagine his struggle.. and will power. Try this. Ask ur friend to hit a (police) laathi with full power on ur head.. proabably u will realize the pain and the emotions.

Bhagat Singh - shot the wrong police officer in revenge for the 'martyrdom' of Lala Lajpat Rai

he shot a firangi nevertheless. and Killing was not his Theme or way. His vision and feeling of pariotism are still the motivation of many youths. I feel proud to be born in the counrty where Bhagat Singh belongs to.

Subhash Chander Bose - a lackey of the Japanese and Germans. Willing to trade British rule of Japanese rule. Emulated the Fascist 'Our leader' by being referred to as 'Netaji'

One man Army. He single handedly Manage to build an army who was all set to vanish the englishmen from the country. Just a lack of bit of luck.. had there were no Nuclear bombing.. He might have proved that he was a True Leader.

Sukhdev and Rajguru - co-conspirators of Bhagat Singh. Some dispute over who actually fired the shot that killed the British police officer and a Sikh constable.

lol!!! none of your faults. But tell u its no way less heroic .. to kiss and accept the "Fassi ka Fanda" in the age of less then 30.

you may think you owe them something

more to the 1984 Shaheeds and Sant Bhindranwale than I owe to those misfits listed above.

GurFateh

Bikramjit

lol!!! Can anybody believe on this. One who can not respect the sacrificesof the martyrs of the nation, who didn't care about the religion, creed, caste etc before giving his life. One who didn't value the sacrifice of the persons who made the life for his (grand)parents better. What is the guarantee that tomorrow he won't forget the saheeds of 1984??? Mate, its always easy to disgrace the sacrifices. Today u disgraces the freedom fighter of India.. tomorrow somebody will come with the arguments to disgrace the fighters of khalistan. Its an easy job.. not a big deal. But this can't be justified? When u disgrace a martyr, u have disgraced all martyrs.. because u have insulted the feeling of sacrifice.

Let me repeat, u can't change the past... If u are related to India, (or pakistan) U owe to the above mentioned martyrs and more.. u accept it or not!!

Thanks n..

Regards

Sardu!

im curious to know why people are marrying so young!!! ??!!??? maybe its because im getting older, so i am getting to know more and more people who are getting married that i used to talk to.

lol!!! yeah .. same problem here... My all friends are getting married one by one.. and thus affecting mom's concern and indirectly putting presssure on meeee...

But i still don't understand it. You have your whole life to look up to. For me personally i think late 20s is the ideal age. YOu need to go to uni/college/school and get a good job, then go on.

Absolutely... I am not going to sacrfice before the age of 28.

But i don't understand these people who want to take off and get married, i know someone who got married straight out of school! maybe its the culture.

Not exactly. It has got some reasons also.

I don't know or mabye its my parents because they got married VERY late in indian timing, i dunno, but all i have to say is LIVE YOUR LIFE, its not just about marriage,

its about being true to yourself and work up to it, maybe im too young to understand, but for some reason i don't understand why!!!??? i think that if u marry early its like throwing away your life too soon, wait a while. Anyways this has been buggin me b/c i get really shocked when i hear a young person getting married, i thought that this was over and done with... i know in "3rd world" countries girls get married at 17, or even younger. AHHHHHHHHHHHh anywayz what ya guyz think??

Now what may be the reason

and don't say love because thats just too typical of an answer!!!

--keep on smiling

thanks for the last line.. u too keep on smiling.. it gives lots of confidence..

When we mention girls married in the age of 17.. its mostly due to the belief that girls are like burden.. the sooner u get rid off the better for u. This is certainly BAD.. and Things are changing very fast. Still there are some "backward areas" which still need lots of awareness.

If we talk about well-to-do-of famlilies... we notice that girls are generally married as soon as the enter or complete their final year of graduation. And boys are generally married in the age of 21-22.. Why? This is mostly happens in bussiness-oriented family.. the reason is plane simple. Parents think (and decide) that sooner or later the boy has to involve in and take care of the all set bussiness there is no point in going college.. etc. So as soon as they complete graduation.. they are put into (family)bussiness and in couple of years when they used to of that.. they are settled and capable so time for marriage. if the boy is of 22 years.. girls has to be of 19-20 years... Children also feel comfertable since they become used of this life style and have no other options...

One may notice significant difference in service-oriented family.... Where education and career has far more importnace ( like in my case , fortunetly)..

Regards