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^ agreeed. works both ways. i know so many singhz who complain about gurls not going for them, but yet they are real narrow minded when it comes to singhnia (who choose to keep their kesh intact,etc.)

to the singhz who want to have a woman who loves them for who they are, they should have the same approach.

Im pretty sure the gurus would be against incest. Whats interesting, and im sure bahader veera can back me up on this one, is that misal cheifs (maybe sardars in general) would marry widows (even if the widow was a sister in law.) I guess thats sorta incest. So maybe culturally it isnt shuned upon as much

I need to go to india and see these things close up..even from the painting, theres so much detail..its amazing!

^lol

rats?? i dun want rats in my suitcase..already had enough of them floating about in my kitchen last year!

Googly kaur is spot on..most foreign/white chicks dig singhz because its something new. Not all of them, but some of them. Some of them have beard fetishes which helps wahoooo lol joke

My point is this, go travel europe for a few days..you should come back with a suitcase full of women. The tradition of mulitple wives lives on! Wahoooooooo (he says whilst staring in his empty bed)

what contradictions sukhi?

hmmmm chicken

sodhi sort it out bruv!!

Heres my two cents

Everyone needs a teacher to excel at anything. Everyone. This applies to anything in life..be it music or indeed spirituality.

Theres an array of teachers out there i.e. from jesus all the way to sai baba.

Take your pick. But if you choose to follow the gurus path i.e. the "ten" gurus..then, as with all schools of thought/relegions, there is an initiation ceremony.

For sikhism/the gurus path, this comes in the form of amrit (although there are three variations from my knowledge, one of which may apply to you.)

So do not fret; you dont have to wear the five k's..but to be deemed a sikh, or to be deemed a muslim/christian,etc you HAVE to partake in an initiation ceremony.

I dont know why..maybe its to raise the psyche of the person taking it..or maybe there is a spiritual power to it (infact im sure of it.)

In conclusion, amrit is a necessity. But like yourself (wannabesikh) iam a wannabe sikh too. I havent enrolled at the college of sikhism either

Maybe one day..when it feels right. But i know, deep down, the gurus rehit will strengthen and make my spiritual path that much sweeter..and i guess, that much easier. Its impossible for me to go into the booms of amrit when i havent tasted the sweet nectar..however, i know, one day..i shall. Its imperative if iam to belong to the gurus..and i want to. I want the guru to take my arm and guide me in life..i cant do it on my own..no way.

Maybe you should try and see it this way too..again, this is my opinion..and it cant possibly be a guide for your own spiritual journey..but the fact your conscience is focused on spirituality is beautiful in itself..im sure things will fall into place. Just keep the 'faith'

i totally agree with you sukhi

nudge nudge wink wink rupz joke!

Its all about the bhangra! Brrrrrrrrrruaaaaaaaaaaah

i agree with sukhi..for me, personally, i think its all about having joys with the wifey..no one else..doesnt mean im a better sikh..just means id rather put all my frustration into one woman

Now now mr singh!

I never said sex..im just talking about masturbation here lol.

You get what i mean tho right? Too many people repress their lust, anger, etc..and although the intentions are there, because its being forced, it tends to channel out in some negative way.

The best way to control the vices is through naam simran..through grace..through love..cos it usually stays.

'smile once in a while' thats my moto!

Its nihang niddar singh (not flaming you harpreet!)

Im really sick of this them and 'us' mentality..but truthfully the lack of respect alot of "mainstream" sikhs have towards "sanatan" sikhs, particularly (evidently) organisations like BOSS, makes me want to stoop to that level of 'them' and 'us'..

Why cant people live and let live..i think we should give out leaflets to the sikh community and tell them to go to my thread on masturbation. And im being serious moderators..i think some people have way too much emotion built up inside them, from the lack of sexual activity. This in turn leads to rage..anger..the need to have power..sorta like a rapist.

God damn you wahabis!!! :evil:

SP are criminals..i personally know people "affiliated" with SP. The question isnt whether they are corrupt or not (everyone knows they are, and many members have had dealings with the police) the question is, are BOSS really affiliated or using SP to intimidate other sikhs.

^lol maybe..me thinks i might have to do that when im married..keep my wife away from the likes of neo joke

excellent post dynamic bruv, keep em coming!

i wanna know more about hell! :twisted:

Quality stuff.

I bow before thee kamalroop singh.

A true gursikh!

..i beleive they did actually..cos back in the day they did naam simran all day and could turn their fingers into carrots..hence no need for meat..

happy gurpurb to everyone out there!

lol sorri, im going thru my urban/slang "cant be arshed to speak english" phase..

it means ugly/not attractive

wicked reply sukhi

totally agree with u..rakhri is about love not politics or clashes of beleif

i guess its the same as buying presents for people on their birthday..its a custom rather than a relegious beleif

next time a gurl judges you cos of ur pagh, tell her shes butterz anyways

im sure it'll help humble her

ok beast..but the loser has the honour of putting up a link for desi baba lol