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  1. Mr singh,

    Please review your attitude towards other sampradha's. I thought being a moderator of this site you do have little bit of tolerance.

    I do have tolerance, untill someone comes and begins to mislead people :)

    We are no way and i mean no way to doubt puratan maryada. Thus, praticed by buddha dal and hazoor sahib.

    THats your opinion about it,

    I migth agree, I tihnk thats something we all have to respect - Different opinions :)

    Yes, there are more one maryada out there. Its fine you dont agree with it. I dont agree with few things either such us (caste discrimination, mahaprashad etc). But I do accept them as my brothers. I dont go around proving them wrong.

    This is a discussion board where we learn, then What Wrong did I do by meantioning that the secific scholer, has been condemned by other RELIABLE scholors, Anything wrong with that :) ?

    just have pyaar, tolerance and acceptance veer... sikhi has many flavours followed by different sampradha's and jathas.

    As this is a discussion board, is usually happens, that while discussing, we critique some jatha or sampardanis

    I.e. lallesh doesnt agree with AKJ and SGPC, hence critiques it, is there no space to critque other jathebandis than above meantioned?

    If Im not mistaken Mods are suppose to be neutral :)

    Bhul Chuk Maaf

    Akaaaaaaaaaaaaaaal hiiiiiiiiiiii akaaaaaaaaaaal

    anand hiiiiiiiiiiiiii anand

    Bhull chukk maaf

    GurFateh

  2. Dear Mr.Singh and the rest of you, the point infernal Monk what trying to convey was that this is a discussion forum. How are discussions and learning to take place when we have moderators who are emotional and act childish by simply locking threads when the discussions takes place on topics which are 'sensitive' to him/her?

    Jamuka, Please read the rules. In a thread on the subject may be discussed, if theres something someone wonders upon then Open a new thread instead of Changing the original subject.

    As for locking a specific thread, It might be due to someone changing subject :)

    take care

    Bhull chukk maaf

    GurFAteh

  3. Done a lil research about Giani Gian Singh :twisted:

    Giani Gian Singh wrote a lot of Bakwas in his book. His book has been roundly condemned by Bhai Vir Singh and other Sikh scholars. It contains a lot of things which are against Gurbani and a mostly made up by Giani Gian Singh :roll:

    Reliable Source I think I usually ask for :roll:

  4. Are you aware that Christians regard only Jesus Christ is son of God and not the rest of humanity?

    I know, But I still don't udnerstand why you went against what Admin jee said :

    Jesus was son of God same as whole mankind. Creator created human and other things on this earth so we all belong to that almighty. This is Sikh belief, and I will stick to this belief.

    Can you show me which shabad/bhani/hukam in the SGGS that states Jesus was the son of God? I await your reply.

    I just did above - Quoted that WHole humanity is Sons/Daughters of GOd, hence Includes Jesus. Admin jee never said ONLY Jesus was - according to SIkhism :wink:

  5. I was reading the Youth Q & A section on SIkhnet. Looks what I poped through -

    waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ke fateh...

    I am a 19 year old sikh woman and i do consider myself to be religious. I follow things which i understand and believe is right such as doing my paat going to the gurdwara and doing sewa etc, although i do cut my hair. I have been with my boyfriend for 1 and a half years and he is muslim. Our relationship has been an on-off relationship because of the hassles we get for having different beliefs and choosing different ways of praying. He has never not once asked me to convert to his religion and tells me he appreciates the way i believe some things so strongly about my religion.

    The problem is we just got engaged a month ago and i don't know if i should go through with the marriage or if my religion will allow me to? So many people are against us being together just because we hold different beliefs...especially my family. I hate lieing to my family but i feel as though im forced to do so when it comes to him.

    I love him so much i feel like im torn between him and the rest of the world. What i don't understand is that out guru's made it so clear that we are all equal in God's eyes.So why can't sikhs and muslims still not be seen as equal in everyone's eyes?

    We don't want to marry until another three years and i am upsetting him and myself by worrying sick about whether my guru would allow this to happen or not. Could you please advise me in whether or not it is actually allowed-marrying a muslim-or not. Would anyone be willing to marry us in a gurdwara because that is the only place i would ever want to get married. Is there anyone i could directly speak to in London or Southampton about gettin married to a muslim in a gurdwara?

    Thankyou so much for your time...

    ----

    Take the emotions out of your decision. Sit down with your self and think about what is really important to you in relation to your religion and marriage. For example, does it matter to you that you and your husband will not pray together? Does it matter to you that you will celebrate different holidays? How will you raise the children? Love is more than attraction and "chemistry" between two people. After you have thoroughly thought this out, discuss it all with your fiance. How does he feel about these things? I'm not saying that you can't work these things out, but its better to discuss it now before you marry. Don't be in an illusion. The decision you make will be with you for your life. Conflict erases love faster than anything. If you can work it out, go to one of the Gurdwaras in London and ask if you can be married there. Don't base your decision on what others think, but you must be realistic and practicle. Blessings, GTKK

    http://www.sikhnet.com/sikhnet/youth.nsf/b...5400531fc0?Open

    BAsically I think its a good response :)

    bhull chukk maaf

    GurFAteh

  6. Why not? Of course he can never be as good looking as the true Guru but hey, hey ain't that bad.

    You're againts it because you were brainwashed to treat the sikh Gurus like God when they themselves have stressed countless times they are mere Gurus.

    mere? ha seems liek you regard them as one of u

    Lets see what Guru Maharaj says :

    Bani GURU GURU HAI BANI, Vich bani Amrit Sare

    WAHOO WAHOO BANI NIRANKAR HAI :)

    quotes above from Maharaj, amke a search on sikhitothemax.com for exact pg nr, but take my word - they are there :) :roll:

    The suggestion is about a movie. I see no wrong in that.

    In fact imgine a movie was made about Guru Gobind Singh Ji. Can you imagine it? Wow.....

    No I can't..as NO1 can play him

    Sunny Deol :roll:

    U make me PUKE :LOL:

  7. By being respectful and accepting of their beliefs

    Like what would you do if tomorrow your son or daughter decides to follow a different religion..not because they are romantically involved with someone of that religion..but just because it appeals to them? I know you will say 'How can that be possible if I teach my kid everything about Sikhi? Why would anyone want to convert?"

    But be realistic and you know it can happen. Your son could find Buddhism more appealing.. or maybe Islam because in certain ways its more man dominated.. wutever the religion may be.. wut to do then?

    I wouldn't force hgim to follow Sikhism

    I'd give him a chiose -

    Stay in SIkhism or ur being 'CHATKA' :LOL:

    Sorry - on a mroe serious note, erm yea I mean I'd respect it, yea I'd obviously try my best to explain both faiths with the knowledge I have, and Would ask him the reason for his decition etc..:)

    Each person should worry more about themselves following a path to God correctly rather than in which way another is doing it.. even if that person may be related to you

    yepp you're rght, but as parents its OUR DUTY to get out Kids on Gods path .

    Lets see what GUru jee tells us -

    THis is the HUkamnama of 10 March (10/03 2004) -

    JAITSREE, FOURTH MEHL:

    The Lord’s Name does not abide within their hearts — their mothers should have been sterile. These bodies wander around, forlorn and abandoned, without the Name; their lives waste away, and they die, crying out in pain. || 1 || O my mind, chant the Name of the Lord, the Lord within you. The Merciful Lord God, Har, Har, has showered me with His Mercy; the Guru has imparted spiritual wisdom to me, and my mind has been instructed. || Pause || In this Dark Age of Kali Yuga, the Kirtan of the Lord’s Praise brings the most noble and exalted status; the Lord is found through the True Guru. I am a sacrifice to my True Guru, who has revealed the Lord’s hidden Name to me. || 2 || By great good fortune, I obtained the Blessed Vision of the Darshan of the Holy; it removes all stains of sin. I have found the True Guru, the great, all-knowing King; He has shared with me the many Glorious Virtues of the Lord. || 3 || Those, unto whom the Lord, the Life of the world, has shown Mercy, enshrine Him within their hearts, and cherish Him in their minds. The Righteous Judge of Dharma, in the Court of the Lord, has torn up my papers; servant Nanak’s account has been settled. || 4 || 5 ||

    Wednesday 28th Phalgun (Samvat 535 Nanakshahi) (Page : 697)

    What is the use of living, without naam?

    its all waste of time.

    I mean doesnt it say in Sikhi that we shouldnt be too attached to material things and people in our lives because in the end none of it will go on with us.. we will go alone

    theres difference between attraction and preaching :? ..

    I don't think i get you here :?

    So yes teach your children about Sikhi.. and hopefully they will follow it.. but theres nothing you can do if they dont..cept maybe pray that they change their ways

    yep, but IF you DO bring up your kids in the Path of Sikhi, they not gonna even THINK ABout leaving it :)

    If you tell a Kid about, just ONE OR TWO Sakhis about the Sikh Shaheeds, the Shaheedia we're had..

    the Shaheedia for THEM, they get into SOO much BIRRAS, I can't describe it in words :)

    I was listening to a Katha, where they said

    'Tusi aapne Baache nu Jap ji Sikhado, oou hor kise Dharm vaaal MO vi nahi karega'

    :)

    And thats why I believe it shouldnt matter if the person you marry is of a different religion.. you cant have a kid grow up in a religion.. the kid needs to believe it with his/her heart.. only then thru learning it on their own because they want to.. will they be following Sikhism

    I know sum people from different parts of the world who were born as Sikhs but are now either atheist, converts, or claim to be Sikhs yet dont really follow it.

    useless isn't it, read above shabad :)

    (Sorry for making that so long.. n if it went a lil off topic :? .. I love Sikhi..and am trying to follow it s best as I can... but I dont like hate amongst religions and division amongst ppl in any way just because of religion)

    a Bhenji of mine, form this board said the following once -

    A Path is like a stream, some are blocked, some flow faster, some flow slower.

    why are they blocked?

    because with time, they've gootten blind rituals etc

    sorry for mkaing this post long :)

    bhull chukk maaf

    GurFateh

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