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i've done all the shaadi.coms, jeevansaathi.com, sikhmatrimonials, gurmat.com's...i think plenty of fish.com is left tho lol

like i said b4, i been through family, relatives, friends and granthis. one granthi of a major gurdwara in toronto contacted us to say that they have a singh available if we are interested for my sister. she said not until u find a girl for my bro...that was 6 months ago and no call back from him lol. i told her to go for it and see if the guy is nice and if u guys get along or else u'll be like me, in my early 30's(was my bday on sat)and no one's interested :|

i hoped maybe sum bibia from this form could enlighten us on what is more important to them in finding a mate. ie.. is sikhi more important or wealth/education/appearence/dhari length

i think it was G.kaur the only girl that wrote sumthing on this topic tho..

any who...

excuse me kdsingh80, don't come out with such accusations like women=property or investments on me.

i just came to maybe tell my sitiuation and get some advise. Its seems tho you people are more into bantering with each other and hijacking threads.. if there was good advice to give , thank you. rest of the lectures you could keep.

i'm sure i'll find someone, just the matter of weeding them out.

property???? I had told you singhs and singhnia told me they know of girls looking for a husband and that they would ask them... where does property come here??? shame on you!!!!

friends to the rescue??? grow up kdsingh80

all i gotta say is wow, really an eye opener here and not in a good sense

good luck to all of you..

i understand what ur saying. sadly i dont have time to go to india. i can barely get 2 weeks off. next time i go i'll try it tho. i haven't spoke of these girls maybe 3. others were contacted by friends who wanted to help.

okayyyy thnx for helping...

wow seems like people live on this form

Gotta understand that we are kaljug lifeforms bound by the 5 emotions. until we are true sikhs and get our priorities in line we will not over come them.

thats what leads most men to think Girls with facial hair are gross, like the "bearded woman" in a carnival. in turn girls that think guys with longggg beards is hot. all this is superficial. whos to say in 20 years FASHION is that men and women be hairless!!!! then what.

back to theissue at hand...

technically i haven't been asking girls myself. maybe here and there. majority is that friends ask my situation and say they wana help and that will look. Some followed thru some were just hollow words. basicly all have been through 3rd party singhs, singhia and family friends...girls in india sure m open to it. wats to say that desi kuria r much better? no offence to any.. i have talked to a couple of girls from india and to some degree they can be even worse..

@G.Kaur... Most of them don't give a reason. some say age, some say they are not ready (huh!!!) even they are looking, some on caste. I was even open to the idea of moving for her and even divorced girls. curiously its disturbing how much superficialty and materialistic they seem..

I understand that guys do it too but am talking about myself. I lived my whole life with sikhi in heart never even went after girls, actually never had much interest until was 25.....

I was wondering if anyone else out there been having difficulty finding a partner?

This has been a problem for about a year and half. I been passed over by at least 20 amritdhari kuria in this time. have they become picky or more demanding lol ?