GurpreetKaur

It won't happen cuz people are at different avastha on this forum lol . If that does not happen, we three can call mysimraninfo conference call, at least I won't be the only one in the room. Lol. It's so awk when you hear "introduce yourself" and I am like to whom? I am the only one here lol 

Then he proposed to me and said my soul would be saved by staying at home and having his babies

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Hahaha.. Can we put that in husband wife joke section ? Lol

Women are lesser beings, and a downgrade to males and justification for women giving men more respect for their "higher position" 

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You should not take it to heart, people project themselves. So, just smile and move on. ;). OR you can say, how can my lesser being self serve you? The moment you will stop feeding their Ego, they will back down. 

2 minutes ago, HisServant said:

I am soooo down to do this. I live in a non sikh city and I'm not old enough to drive to Brampton/Toronto so this will be perfect. 

 

I mainly do the same saas giras simran mysimran.info emphasizes. 

 

Maybe a feature could be added to this site? It could be available 24/7 and whenever someone is online they could jump in. 

Mysimran.info does have the conference call system. They do it 6 am/pm to 6:45am/pm. But nobody ever join them, I tried three times I was the only one in room lol. But feature here is a good suggestion, unless people start using it for debate lol .

On August 10, 2009 at 2:22 PM, Xylitol said:

You will gain more phall from the chalisa if done with the bachan of a mahapurkh. That being said, you don't need it.

Does Mahapurkh's words last forever? The reason I am asking, because some of the books I have read are written or told by Mahapurkhs. I know that if someone tell me to do chalisa and that person have really high avastha, then my mind will believe him or her more than reading a book. Just wondering, if Bachan of Mahapurkhs last forever.

5 minutes ago, Ragmaala said:

anyways, I feel exhausted I need to stay away from Sikhawareness for a short while. lol

 

Haha.. I seriously have to salute satkirin ji for that, it's always other people who either get exhausted or give up but she is always the one with Last words. Go satkirin ji lol

1 hour ago, Ragmaala said:

@GurpreetKaur  are you tuning in with the live streams? or being lazy ? lol

Lol .. Being lazy. But will tune in today. They should have a recorded one, I love the way they do simran. Only found old versions on YouTube .

20 minutes ago, Ragmaala said:

our moms love to collect these empty glass jars and store masal, achar, daals, rice and what not.  lol 

Haha...

Parables- They might seem for kids but worth watching just in case we need a reality check. Good for kids too, I will make my nephew start watching it once he learn how to walk lol.

1. Messiah- My fav one and something which tells us to get out of our comfort Zone to receive freedom in term of Truth( hardest thing to be honest lol)

2.Sandcastle - This one is about how we hold on to things, whether it's materialistic objects or our belief systems. 

3. Parable of good or bad- Duality is just playing with our mind.

4. 2 Monks - This one is about how we hold on to things forever. 

5. Stonecutter- Heard this growing up and never understood it until realized what Ego is lol. This one is about how we always run after things to obtain happiness.

If you have kids, make them watch it. Better than Tom and Jerry or whatever new cartoon kids be crazy about these days lol 

10 hours ago, Ragmaala said:

penji, you seem to love tostitos.

Haha.. Naww, it's not me, merey veer jee ( bro and cousin bro). They eat it and mom wash them for her masala, haldi lol

1 hour ago, Ragmaala said:

  You call me pendu, if anything says anything against  Dasam Granth I will slap them if they are in front of me.

1:07. Slap ain't always bad lol

6 hours ago, Satkirin_Kaur said:

I was going to suggest the jar difference... maybe the others are allowing some air in while the different jar seals better or something?

Yea.. I might have made some error with environment control too. I will see how it goes. 

Love jar

Hate jar

Neutral jar ( just to see how long it takes for rice to go bad)

Gurbani jar( breaks my heart to see these rice going bad, when love jar seems better, but could be the jar difference )

1 minute ago, GurpreetKaur said:

Update: it's been a week. Not seeing what I wanted to but oh well :( lol

The only jar seems somewhat better is the one with Love word on it. Those rice in that jar are not spoiled or anything lol.

Update: it's been a week. Not seeing what I wanted to see but oh well :( lol

Lol.. I am sorry. I heard them first so my monkey mind jumped to a conclusion. I like their version better than nirvair jatha. :)

This might work, seems same but is from 2015.

Edit: it's different, now they do Kirtan more like nirvair jatha. So not same lol

I said women demand too. no woman give up her will completely to a man when she's is not receiving love. Those are extreme situations where men are abuser and women are just playing along. If a man loves me, I will do anything for him and if he loves me he won't abuse me lol. plus when people are in love they ready to do anything for the one they love, nobody care about rights or no rights lol. I don't know, I gotta get married first and then I will be able to have a discussion. It's like I don't know what orange tastes like and I am defining it lol.

I retire too I think  just like ragmaala ji and getting back to bhagti lol.

This men and women topic actually keep this forum alive.. But it's distracting my Bhagti lol

f you think you can without degrading your wife, then all the power to you. But I HOPE and PRAY that you NEVER EVER abuse the power she gives you if she puts herself in subordinate position. 

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Lol..you just made up your mind that he will abuse his wife and she will have no choice lol.

All those are extreme situations and any man who is being that abusive is wrong. However, since not all men are vicious, not all women are Saint either lol. You never ever take any man's side, somebody posted a video where men in India were being victim since women are given more rights when it comes to domestic problems. You said no words about it lol

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if a man demand sandwich, woman demand dresses or jewelry. If a woman keep a man happy with food, a man keep woman happy with gifts. Different way of showing love . Both make money but a woman will always get excited to get a gift from her husband and any guy who gives kitchen stuff as gift is stupid lol. However, most of the men willing to keep their women happy and put effort for marriage to work. and women does the same since in Indian communities, a marriage is not about husband and wife, it's about families. 

You are kinda putting all the men in a place where they are like jerk type of abusers and women are victims lol. I said before and will say again any woman can easily control a man and being obedient might be a one way and always fighting might be another way.

My neighbor got a nagging wife and all she does is always fighting and even on the streets and he just stay quiet because he does not wanna create further drama. Is he in subordinate position? No, he just does not wanna waste his energy lol 

Mine is in February so I will do bhagti in February lol . My lazy self will pass out but will try. Thanks veerji.

Men are being controlled by women too, it's just we choose not to see it. A woman can shed two tears and can blame her husband for abusing her, no one will ask for proof. A woman can easily take the custody of a child no matter how vicious she is. A woman is entitled to her husband's property after divorce, which she did not even earn in the first place. A woman does not have to register for selective service, does not work with heavy machinery( construction jobs). A man has to provide for the kids after divorce. Fighting for things like equal pay make sense but men and women will never be equal period. Men will never be able to wear sari while women can wear jeans. Lol . No matter how ugly a woman is, with make up she can trick any man. Poor man can never do that lol.

In marriage, a man suffer too, his desires and wishes are killed too. A man is stuck between listening to mom or wife lol. Financial responsibilities are usually on men, if a man is failing in this area he feel miserable. Now I know we can say society made this rule. But if you have to live on this planet you gotta Follow rules and regulation. Or you can say you are a free inhabitant just like this lady lol 

Women have so much power or maybe I live in different planet as I was questioned about my planet lol. Both gender have advantages and disadvantages and that balance everything out. 

25 minutes ago, paapiman said:

Bro, the only way you will be able to discipline your mind is by binding it with something. Therefore, Daas would humbly request you to add something to your above schedule. It does not have to very lengthy. Maybe,10 Chaupai Sahib Paaths daily or 2 Malas of Mool Mantar daily or Jaap of "Tu heen Tu heen", etc.    

You can also try this. This is from Pooranmashi to Pooranmashi and you can do this in partnerships too.

 

 

Bhul chuk maaf

My bday is on pooranmashi, does that make me special in some way lol. Jk. So we should do bhagti whole night on full moon? I don't really know the meaning, but I know full moon does play role in our emotions. Read long time ago somewhere lol 

Good luck. You did good last time and will be able to do this one too.

I started the the other jaap you posted couple days ago,  it's working for me so far, rest is up to vaheguroo . So thank you for posting it :)

 Moment to moment you start to recognize what God is doing. 

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Long time ago, was telling a friend that there is god within her/ everybody and she replied," then why the hell you don't worship me ". lol 

Labeling god for good stuff is easy but when it comes to things we think we messed up then it's hard. For instance, If I make someone happy, then I can go vaheguroo it's your Kirpa. But when I hurt someone , saying tuhi tuhi is like putting blame on vaheguroo . It's like not taking responsibilities for our action and saying vaheguroo you did that. Sure, vaheguroo is within everybody and hukam is going on but this "I" is something which never let most of us see or feel. It makes us separate. Then there is a " vaheguroo" Vs "I" play. No matter, how many books or katha I read/ hear, unless I or other person experience it, will always be a mystery and confusion lol

A person who can accept everything with a thought of Tera kiya mitha lagey is a real winner here. I am losing it really bad lol