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  1. The mind is always analytical and logical. Science promotes this kind of mentality and makes it even more mental, analytical and logical. 

    Look at Bhagat Dhanna, he was complete illiterate.. it was this faith that he met God so quickly. Similary, all other Bhagats such as Namdev, Kabeer, Sain, Pipa etc etc. 

    Based on history... it seems God only meets more or less illiterate and poor people, while the rich spend their entire lifes doing simran in nice cozy comfortable houses. 

  2. 2 hours ago, LiquidSky said:

    I think thats a good thing, because your acting as a provider. So logically you'll try to put your child in the right direction. Tell them your not going to be here all of their life, they'll have to then stepup.

    I think you're "attachted" because you havent finished your work or feel you have more to offer?

    Yes, you are correct it is partly "acting" as a provider and at the sometime feeling that their is unfinished work. I think this is the "moh"... I need to get over it. 

  3. 23 minutes ago, LiquidSky said:

    You want to severe ties? Ask them to break your heart, see how quickly they'll change for you. You need compassion for people, treat others like you would like to be treated. Im sure if you were a son to a father who has left you, you would hate your father for the rest of your life.

    Hows this for severe ties, you'll die, like everyone but you can still care for people on the way. Dont confuse compassion to attachment.

    By severe ties .. i meant like "mental" ties .... like for example, when you are dying you shouldn't be thinking "oh wats gonna happen to my wife and kids." like that sort of ties. I agree with you on the other things. 

  4. Do you feel that Dhruv, Prahlad, Ramayan / Mahabharat these are actually part of Sikhi History or in other words Sikhi is actually Real Pure Hinduism. Whenever I learn about these things I always feel that indeed Sikhi is the Pure Hinduism, but I am afraid to say this as some Sikhs get offended. 

    In Sikhi all the devi / devtas are mentioned and their roles too. Also Sikhs are following the tradition of rishis, munis by keep unshorn hair and tie in knot in jura which is Satjug parampara. 

  5. I have been trying to learn more about Nanaksar Samprada. It seems that everything is not simple and clear. For example in Canada there are several Nanaksar Gurudwara and they all trace back to Baba Gurdev Singh. There is one Gurudwara in Edmonton that trace back to Baba Miah Singh. Then Gurudwara in India, Nanaksar Jagraon, that has various Sants in the lineage. 

    1) Do all Gurudwaras follow same maryada, which can be traced back to BABA Nand Singh Sahib.

    2) How come there is no Nitnem bani read in the early morning deewan of the program.

    3) During amritsanchaars do Panj pyari wear real kirpan. I heard from various forums that they wear dori wali kirpan?

    Thanks all for answering the question. I am really affected by Kathas of Baba Nand Singh Sahib and Baba Ishar Singh and I want to get connected with this house of Nanaksar. 

  6. 2 minutes ago, Soulfinder said:

    Dass Avoids this guy at all costs as he is a missionary big time.

    Thank You Ji. The video just came up and I tended to listen as he was having strong and bold voice, but the things he was saying did not suit me. 

    @5:07 he was saying which company manufactures oil in hell for kumbhi nark. This got me laughing, but as per many Mahapurkhs this is all real. 

  7. 13 hours ago, LiquidSky said:

    With age your sex drive would naturally go down itself. Then you may want to pursue other goals in life. 

    If you still have kaam, it's natural. At least your married with your partner that you hopefully love. Showing your partner physical affection makes your relationship stronger. Ain't you two bodies with one light when you get married?

    Waheguru has already shown me no one my parents, wife, relatives no one can help me in the most important time of need. I m trying to mentally severe ties with all my relations (this is called moh-attachment). 

  8. 1 hour ago, LiquidSky said:

    You all have it wrong, dont get married if you dont want sex. Simple. If you want to get married, youre going to have sex regardless. In some traditions sex is selfless act where you're giving pleasure to your partner and not just meeting your own desires.

    If you want advice about being celibate, ask someone who isnt married and doesnt tell you to get married.

    "Oh I want kids", then youre going to have sex then isnt it? "But my Baba said Kaam is bad and you should avoid it all costs", dont get married. "My baba said you should get married but avoid Kaam". Ask yourself why should you get married and stop listening to that Baba.

    What if you have completed your householder duty of having kids, do you still need to have sex? I am talking about married person who is done having kids, but still gets Kaam vibes here and then. What are your thoughts?

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