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  1. Hi everybody

    to all those bhagats , gursikhs , my brothers and sisters , i have a question for you guys .

    while sitting straight , i feel pain in my back , and my bottom dawar ( i dun wana say tht) and after a while my legs get numb .

    this starts happening after 30 minutes of sitting straight while meditating

    any of u guys have any experience about it . does the body become more tough after a while and get used to this pain ? does this pain go away ?

    thnx

  2. " Anek hain fir ek hain "

    HE is beyond counting , HE cannot be fathomed ,

    HE is the ONE and only ONE in HIMSELF no one greater than HIM... Our poor brains cannot invent words to describe HIM

    Nanak Kathna Karda Saar ...............

    bas tuhi tuhi tuhi tuhi .....................ik tuhi nirankaarrrrrr.............

  3. well i don't meditate that much . but there were times when i used too a little bit . so i used have this back problem too . but i guess as i grew older my back became more strong. and the thing is that last summer i worked at FEDEX grounds where i had to do heavy lifting and bending . tht made my back strong and i realised i could sit in straight postures for longer periods.

    in the beginning back does hurt but as you get used to it will go away slowly but it takes time. no hurries

    the exercises as mentioned above will benefit for sure

    I cant sit straight if i sit after taking a huge meal lol i think that is obvious'

    what my problem is that I cannot sit still more than 30 minutes . after 30 minutes my back is fine but my legs start hurting . i feel as they have become numb . i dunt know abt tht. any advice about tht please ?

    Wjkk WJKF

  4. Bhai Randip Singh ,

    Whether the sexual urges are normal or obsessive a person will attain mukti only when all kinds of urges and desires are eliminated and when there is only one desire for the love of God .

    Celibacy alone will not work wonders . Its of no use if a person has a lot of haumai just because he is celibate .

    Celibacy is not forbidden by Guru Ji . Otherwise why would great sikhs and saints in the past be celibate ?

    Its like an option . Those who chose to be celibate can do so but those who want to have families are also welcome .

    Celibates in sikhi are usually very very high chardikala hardcore sants such as baba nand singh , sant attar singh . sant ishar singh etc . its their powerhouse . because they are japping nam not only for them but for the udhar of millions of jeevs and srishtis . they are the nit avatars . they are the karaks . they come to this world only for the elimination of paaap and pakhand .

    Guru ji also know that not everyone can become a sant . so there is also an easy maarag . the gristh jeevan .

    But a couple can be a celibate in gristh jeevan also . by having no thoughts about other women or men , not looking at women , no desires for others except their own and moderating their acts in a way so that it doesn't affect their spirituality and strength . now how they do it is their own business .

    and if they are walking on bhagti maarag ultimately they will realise the importance of celibacy .

    celibacy is like a foundation on which buildings of naam and seva are built . prem for guru ji is a strong cement that keeps this building intact . this building is the persons jeevan .

    bhul chuk maaf

  5. Prasanta : When teacher sees that his student is doing his homework regularly and getting good marks in test and exams , and doing whatever he says , he is happy with his student . Similarly , in school of sikhi when we follow the teachings of our guru that means that our Guru is happy and doing kirpa on us .

    Tadna : it doesn't mean that Guru ji hates you or something but its in a different tone .

    For eg . Although a father may love his son very dearly but to stop him from going in wrong path he sometimes scold him .

    Similarly , our Guru is our father .

    I would interpret these hukams on two viewpoints .

    First , they would help me in recognising my performance in this school of sikhi . Spiritual Performance . Salvation

    Secondly , on the worldly basis , I would ask Guru ji whether to do certain tasks or make some decisions etc .

    There is no doubt that Spiritual performace is of utmost importance . But i wouldn't hesitate to take help from my father ( GURU JI) if I need to in these worldly tasks . It might sound selfish but for now thts how it goes for me . :)

    wjkk wjkf

  6. Now the question arises how do you know whether or not the Hukum is prasantaa or Tadnaa? In a sense everything in prasantaa, just being with the Guru is Prasnataa. How are we to know which is which?There are some Hukums which are neither.

    u should look for prasanta or tadna in first two lines of the shabad .

    for eg the sahabad " todi mahalla panjava , har bisrat sada khuari , ta ko dhokha kahan beape ja ko aut tuhari ..."

    translation : 1st line : By forgetting God one gets " khuaar " . dunno wt khuaar means in english . but it means something like that that person is not respected in sachkhand or anywhere .

    2nd line : those who have your support will not be fooled by others .

    in the first line there is tadna , in 2nd line there is prasanta .

    But still its a tadna wala hukam . so u should usually look in first two lines . if in first two lines there is prasanta , the whole shabad is prasanta even though there might be tadna later on in the shabad . but still its prsanta .

    so always look in first two lines .

    i can't explain any better . sometimes there s a inside feeling which tells u abt it . if u know that u made a mistake and u know guru ji might be angry with u , do nimrata sahit ardas to guru ji .

    sometimes guru ji can forgive us and give us prasanta . and we should be thankful to guru ji for tht , and stop doing such mistakes in future .

    i do mistakes all the time . and then i feel shameful even standing before Him .

    I sometimes think that i make so many mistakes and guru ji still gives me more chances to improve . but i keep on making them . when am i going to stop . ( dhil in rehat , not waking up , not doing nitnem in time , kaami thoughts , krodh , attachment . etc etc etc list is endless , keeps on going ...... ) oh i m going off the track

    hope i made some sense

    wjkk wjkf

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