Kalpu

32 minutes ago, jaikaara said:

maybe more Simran could help 

Definately...

Baba will bless me with more Sumat!

On 4/22/2019 at 10:44 PM, Sukh_preet said:

Hanji, she's right

 

 

♥

On 4/22/2019 at 9:03 AM, jaikaara said:

you said it ! It is Waheguruji who has given that boon of progeny to the woman. Why would Waheguru want women to stop remembering Naam. 

Of what i heard that sounds logical, those days there were no sanitary pads. The level of hygiene was obviously not as good as now. Periods are accompanied with cramps and severe bleeding in many women thus giving a feeling of weakness and fatigue. The system of 'resting' during those days gave women a small vacation and other family members would take over. However, to make things understandable specially to men who at times would force women for their urges, the word 'sin/paap'  has got attached. This word did act like a red signal, allowing women to rest. As time progressed this rule did act as a hindrance too.

This is what...

But stil i cant get over it

On 4/21/2019 at 9:33 PM, Mooorakh said:

Yes darling that's wat I mean. .. 

And I really don't understand why sinful??  I mean is it something bad or wrong we are doing intentionally??  It's something natural..  If it's wrong then he's at fault he's committing sin not me. 

I have mentioned it before..  This is something that a woman should be proud of...  As it makes her productive...  BTW Simran is food for soul.  Do we stop eating during periods?? Rather since we r physically not that active during these days,  we can put in more time for Waheguru ji  Haina?? 

Waheguru..

I got it now...

But why the mentality of hindus claims that women isnt pure in these days?

They dont go to Mandirs, they ignore doing any thing religious i mean i found it so difficult...

10 hours ago, Mooorakh said:

Hey Hi

Congrats..  Being from a hindu family if you have decided to follow the path of ☝One God instead of 33 crore Devi/Devtas.  U deserve a pat on the back..  Be thankful and consider urself blessed.  It's a true kirpa. He has blessed u with his name... 

Being a girl I can understand ur position.  Things become difficult for us more than men,  specially in Indian society..  But u know it may be a blessing in disguise.  Its just how we see it.  If u r NOT complaining u r on the right track dear...  Cos we as girls can accept things more subtly..  Accept astral concepts easily without arguing..  We can suppress ego easily..  Can Self surrender and ACCEPT HIM AS OUR 'PIR' - Lord/husband just naturally...

Just find the purpose and keep on diving in his love.. More U will be drenched More u will grow ((rise in love)) 

And yes don't take any monthly breaks Yaa..  

 

Waheguru!

Thanks sista!

You mean to say tht In Sikhism..

You can continue your Simran Path in month days too?

Is it not sinful?

2 hours ago, IJJSingh said:

Bibi ji,

In addition to the praises of the Lord, Gurbani is also a set of instructions, and as such we must listen carefully, reflect upon, and then follow.   One thing, that Gurbani urges us to do again and again is to join the true sangat and repeat God's name.   Joining the sangat is as important as doing simran.  Singing gurbani and doing simran in a sangat is lot more effective than doing so alone.  I am not discouraging you to stop simran/gurbani while alone, on the contrary please do so as much as you can, but also find a regular time when you can join sangat.  With the Guru's grace, I have been following the Guru's path for decades, and enjoy every moment I get to spend with the Guru.  However, I especially yearn for the time I get to spend in sangat, and feel the deficiency if for whatever reason I miss sangat.

Waheguru ji ka Khalsa, Waheguru ji ki Fateh

Waheguru bro...

Actually i'm kinda in that area where is No Gurduwara And Guru Sangat...

There are alot of Hindusuim rituals Sangat and much more

But sorry to say there are ppl doing rituals like hypocrisy and Show off..

I am 25 years old u found so later that you want only Conection with God to have a peaceful life..

No material things no more relations and a high figh life..

Only accept and thank for what u have and what are you going through..

Life has a lot of lessons and circulers some are happy some are hard sad but all leads us to God..

So i found very clearance in Simran and nitnem things that there is no hypocrisy no show off... You only do for you peace and betterment with Lord..

I simply avoid this heavy kinda rituals and Samaaj " Publicity..

I just make peace by doing at home and keeping my self at all time home no more outing and all..

I wish to have Gurduara near me so i can Feel the blessing of Guru Sangat..

But my family is also of that all thinkings of all rituals and all..

So they dont support me more to go any where .. I am girl so i have a stricted family too.. But in short they just respect what i am doing from last year they dont say anything wrong atleast...

Sometimes they expect that i dont do my nitnem in home busniess events or any other so i do not accept that.. I simply do my nem no matter what situation is!

Because i found that the day i dont to Simran i am not having any inner peace..

I am frustrated at my self and all others... I feel like crying..

I just miss my Nem on monthly day in that i too beg for inner peace to get over it..

There are much more things like this

But not complaining atleast Baba Nanak blessed me with all this !

13 hours ago, Soulfinder said:

Bhen ji its really good what you have mentioned.

 

Its normal to feel the way you are feeling as its a hard long task of controling the mind thoughts but as you keep trying it will be ok alongside with ardas.

 

You can add slowly jaap sahib and the rest of the panj bani nitnem step by step into your daily lifestyle.

 

I feel unhappy as well when i miss my nitnem banis due to headaces migraines and its not a nice feeling so its best to do as much as you can.

 

Here is a printed gutka i found in urdu avilable on ebay with aarti arta paath

http://vi.raptor.ebaydesc.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItemDescV4&item=272727377932&category=366&pm=1&ds=0&t=1531777775000&ver=0&cspheader=1

 

Here are a few videos that should 

 

Here is aarti bani in roman english and its the language i have been using for other banis as i have not read this bani yet.

 

Thanks alot ♥ Waheguru bless you

6 hours ago, Soulfinder said:

Bhen ji its really good the progress you have made i am really proud to read this.

 

Slowly you can build up onto doing panj banis nitnem step by step at your own pace.

 

In the evening you can do Rehras Sahib before 11pm and you can add Aarti Aarta with Sri Rehras Sahib as well.

 

Hopefully you can start waking up one hour earlier step by step and going a hour to bed a hour earlier then you can wake up at amritvela with Wahegurus kirpa.

Waheguru...

Thanks i m trying my best..

What is Aarti Aarta? 

I mean i dont know Gurmukhi..

So some how Waheguru blessed me with Urdu Sunder Gutka so here i do my Paath's..

Where from i can find Aarti aarta? 

Im sunder Gutka? 

And more question ...

I dont get attached every day idk why i feel like my lust is asking me to wakeup from Aashan haar and stop Simran...

I get horrible thoughts, noises of my home gets in my mind and i get distracted..

I try to put some Baanis on mp3 so i can reconcerntrate,  but i cant, some time i get attached like i dont want to wakeup from there no matter much time passed... But somethimes i m distracted in 5 10 mins... 

Plz tell me a way so i can focus more.. 

When i get attached i get inner peace and relief 

And when dont i am frustrated to everything i do..

I do 7.30 pm evening prayer to 8.30 or 8.45.. 

It was long path when i started doing first now its normal to recite daily ... What next path i can add to my Nem? And ways to focus more? 

Please make me a better soul conected with Waheguru  

7 minutes ago, Soulfinder said:

Well its natural for first time to make mistakes when reading gurbani so you will get better with more practice. 

 

As i used to make mistakes when reading paath but if you use Damdami Taksal recordings and repeat after the paathi it should be ok with more effort. 

 

Also learn and try to do Satta Balvaad De Vaar Ramkali Ki Vaar as that bani forgives any wrong things said during the day.

1 hour ago, Soulfinder said:

I hope so as well that Guru Nanak Dev Ji blesses you as well but keep trying don't give up.

Is it okay if we do wrong Oochaar of any word of nitnem by mistake? 

I mean there are many contexts have fear that if you do wrong ouchar u will b punished...

U know i am new,  so it happens alot of time,  kindly plz guide me

8 hours ago, Soulfinder said:

I myself was just like you when i first started i did the same using audio video recordings of nitnem banis and me speaking after the lines sounds made by the paathi audio to copy the same pronouncation of the words in paath.

 

It does take time like in my case a few months but don't give up keep trying step by step like a raindrop will became a river one day.

Yeah this is what... 

Just hoping Guru Nanak bless me with his Nam & Simran... 

1 minute ago, Soulfinder said:

First of all its great that you have taken this step by knowing full nitnem banis. What i would suggest from personal experience is that rather then doing panj banis in one go you do them step by step like different times of the day if you are finding it hard to do all of them in one go. 

 

As when i was learning them it took me the same amount of time you mentioned back 3 years ago but then i built up speed with Guru Ji's Kirpa and do them quicker than before.

Exactly what... 

I am new so i need time to say corect words,  i still use audio file & context written together to do right Oochaar...  Of every single lafz... 

I do listen Gubani videos daily too... 

It takes alot of time... 

To do everything together... 

So just trying... 

I dont want to leave anything....

Just want to make my habit of daily life... 

Nitnem!  

Conection to Guru Naanak

Dhan Guru Nanak

I have a question... 

Is it is necesary to do jap All the context of Japji Sahib,  Jap Sahib,  & Anand Sahin daily? 

Tav Parsad & choupai are of 7 8 mins. But these three are of 25 to 35 mins... 

It takes 1 hour & 45 mins to complete this 5...

Can we jap them short?? 

Or is it okay to jap them one by one on diffrent time... 

I am not able to wake up at Amrit waila... This happens rare...

But i want to do nitnem daily but it takes long time...

So what can i do?

Even i want to make Rehras Sahib & kirtan sohaila also part of evning & night... 

But All together needs long time,  

And also mol mantar jap!

Please guide better ways so i can be a better Gurmukh 

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalisa

Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh!  

33 minutes ago, paapiman said:

Did you understand all the words in the clip?

 

Bhul chuk maaf

Maybe somenot...  But sentances...  Every sentance... 

Very clearly!!  

11 minutes ago, paapiman said:

Why are you scared? Please listen to the clip below. Let me know how much can you understand.

 

 

Bhul chuk maaf

I guess he is saying that raise ur character + raise your aatmic level...  Raise ur conection with God,  but also raise ur habits....  God has gifted us 10 duwar,  9 are duniyavik,  and the last one is aatmik,  if we never visited inner one,  never find ourself and God inside,  then 9 are meaningless...  

He is simply telling that,  maryada is neccesary + dharam is actually observed,  when we have changed ourself by inside outside too...  Not just by hypocrisy a lil

17 minutes ago, Koi said:

Bump please

English one? 

Just now, paapiman said:

Has it ever been published in Gurumukhi script? It is possible that it was never published in it.

 

Bhul chuk maaf

Never published

Only english sindhi urdu version... 

As bieng a Hindu... 

I know,  

Do u want to try english one? 

9 hours ago, paapiman said:

@Kalpu - Can you understand Punjabi? You can also start listening to Katha, if you like it.

 

Bhul chuk maaf

I will start,  i do understand punjabi a lilttle...  Actually i am a bit scared

9 hours ago, paapiman said:

@Kalpu - Can you understand Punjabi? You can also start listening to Katha, if you like it.

 

Bhul chuk maaf

I will try too start listening,  tysm bro

8 hours ago, Soulfinder said:

https://www.3ho.org/3ho-lifestyle/daily-routine/covering-head

https://www.quora.com/Why-are-Sikhs-required-to-cover-their-heads-when-going-to-Gurdwara-Is-this-an-Islamic-aspect-in-Sikhism

I understand

34 minutes ago, sikhni777 said:

Remember to cover your head while reading Gurbani. 

What happens if someone not cover head while reading gurbani?

2 minutes ago, Soulfinder said:

Its ok as long as you feel connected to Waheguru its all good.

Thankyou so much

6 minutes ago, Soulfinder said:

Of course you can still gurbani nitnem there is nothing to stop you. The SGGS saroop if bringing home requires sochum however if reading from a tablet,phone,pc etc its ok as long you make a connection to Waheguru no matter what anyone at home does shouldn't matter.

You just made my life easy ❤ which prayer i can give uh? 

Guru Nanak bless you with bestest best thankyou so much for true guidance... 

Now i am more comfortable with my aim

6 minutes ago, Soulfinder said:

The Waheguru holding hand is a belief that i like to believe. But i am glad that you liked my post and its excellent you have faith in Gurbani and are on the right track.

Yeah...  Just what... 

Trying my best to do... 

Guru Nanak mehr kren