That perception needs to change ..meaning
"must avoid places, where plenty of beautiful (and amazing) ladies are around." is your perception. This is your problem with kaam.
How about if the same kinda "beautiful and amazing lady' comes around seeking help and advice for sikhi to you. How do you react? you avoid?
to think that "avoiding places is the answer for controlling kaam, then you've got the wrong understanding and no control over your own kaam. Someone who had control should freely be able to go to beach, pool, bowling, etc....because in these same places beautiful women will be present. how about the bus? transit? what you gonna do?
Read some of the other gurmukhs earlier posts carefully and you'll see that it's all about controlling you inner-self and fighting your inner kaam demons when out anywhere in the maya world
