K4ur

i do understand what you are saying - ive been give strict rules to live by - and this was mentioned..... sorry - i know i cant give a good anough reason.

u have to burn it all guys.

i see how u can see it as seva but ive been told its wrong, how u came to

earth is how u shud leave....

Strict rule - shudnt do that.... i used to think same - bu then i wa told not tooo..... sorry i cant give u a gud reason but i know u shudnt.

wronggggggg

u need a mind, body and soul to get to God.

WRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!

thnx

I love you

- well Pagee - ur very funny.

If you find the right person and everything is good in terms of you and your parents are happy then there is no real reason to hang about.

- dnt agree with u there - this matter of "you" finding - thats not gud. I tell ya straight up yeah - my mum or popz or brother or any1 elder then me who i know genuinley cares 4 me..... is like GuruJi sorting out my marriage.

I wud neva approach a guy - possible hint to my brava.... tell him the possiblity - but just to make it aware - i wundt wana know anything or talk to him or nuttin like dat.... theres a very VERY thin line - trust me - i dont wana cross it, not even near it with a bargpole!!!!

Sardu Ji - i bleev in love yeah - but its not sumthing i want to really know about. Im 16, right now, i just want to be me, have the presence of a young lady that not married but blossoming - (hopefully 4 the better).

Ive seen the false love out there - the ungenuine feelings and at one point - could have of gone the total wrong direction!!!!!

When it comes to marriage - ill stand my ground. I dnt agree with love marrages!! Unless my mum n dad said i have to - i wudnt even atend the actual marriage ceremony if it was a love one of other peoples..

I dont mind really when i get married, i stick to what my elders have taught me and kirpa naal, ill stay in this thought of mind.

Ive never really forced my opinion on anyone and im not now... but love marriages are wrong. Just wrong pure and simple. I will never agree with them...

I see wot u mean that ur parents, (sher a punjab) that they r having trouble finging a chungee girl - i could go on and on about our girls.

No love marriages is the moto i have been taught...... if theres 1 thing that gna be the most important thing - its got to be this!!!!!

oh yeah - i dnt bleev in love marriages!!!!

Im directing this straight to Gurpreet Penji... Vaheguru JI Ka khalsa, Vaheguru Ji Ke Fateh.

To start a successful marriage - you have to have a partner - for to do real bhagti. Your birth is one aspect, your amrit shakna is another, your marriage is another and then ur funeral....

Each a target. Your husband will be the centre part of your life - ppl say u settle wen u marry - but really its then that ur life truley begins.

Have a successful marriage and family....

I would emphasize on marriage a lot!!!!!!!

culturallly - i agree with most of u - all different reasons.

But in SIkhi - quicker ya get married - quicker u can start bhjagti...

stuff like dat.

wait & see!

UNDESCRIBABLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!

maybe cus they dont know any better...

Media mashing things up in pplz head.... shud b this way... and that way....

Parent also dont know any better to teach the kids... and learn themselvrs

Get caught up in societys right and wrong.... u can be easily influenced by da environent

The just dont realise their legacy... i rekon evry1 needs a bit of a push to realise wot theyve got rite at their hands... they just dnt realise it!

if moslems make up a sikh one why cant i make up a moslem one?

Shudnt sink as low as them.....

Trust me yeah ive shocked myself too cus a year a ago i wuda bin rite their ripping them down with ya..... but i dont know now!!!

By the way this isnt a personel thing so dow get angry a meeee pleez.. lolz, just that i think that this site yeah.... has a lot of knowlegeable ppl and has attracted a lot of knowlegeable ppl.... i just think 4 such a gud site yeah... it shudnt have to turn out like a typical one.....

okay i'll shaaaaaaraaaaappp

well i neva even heard of that or anything liek that....

k ley me put a question across yeah and no disrespect intended.... but do u think its rite to basicaly start a thread on this topic. You know wot kinda comments are gonaa be made (like u urself have done) and luk at the pictures at the top of ur page rite now...!

Maybe thats the opinion of most or the opinion of a few.... but my question is to you.... is it right???

sorry frogive me cus i know nuthing....

i havnt really read much of this thread just binskiming and i rekon u lot shud b very careful "discussing" scolrs or Saints or woteva or ppl.... cus if sum1, even unintentionally, ses suthing bad against them or anytthing like that.... then this whole site and hueva reads it ppicks up that bad.... im not sure if that akes sense but yeah well there u go.

Fateh

k i dont know the technicals but sum of the words u lot have used - i know nuthing about..... :?

i guess i dont knw the nitty grityy's....

any1 willing to explain wot ur chatting bout??? and fairly.

sorry -- i jus dont understand wot ur chatting about?

FANtasticccccccccccccccccccc

I know harder sed than done but.... a Sikh shud always be in Chirdi Kalaaa..... (high spirits)

well wot i meant was that my m8s at skool are not into Sikhi... so theyre just towards Guru... aybew not Manmuckhs.... but just not towards Guru....

lolz - well ur da 4th person i told - and now i guesss evry1 else on this board... lolz. Thankjuuuuuuuuuu....

8)

yeah thats gud...

but i was told that b4 i tuk Amrit (by the way i tuk it - lolz)...

Just about being careful init.....

i duno bout "that CD" thing....

teach ur liccle kids not too either cus they usually have bright ones to cath attention... but sum have em to scare ppl away too.... well there u go!!!

I cud tell ya loads of things that they do but id get ripped 4 saying it on here.... just STAY AWAY... and never luk in their eyes either....

Just go on with ur life init...

Dont make it ur life though and get worried or para about the cars that pass ya.....

Just be awware... thats it, and if u do ur nitnem or Paaht that day - then that stuff shud autoatically stay away fro ya anyway!!!

lolz

sorry

u can luk at YOUR maala silly me.

Sumtimes Muslim or Kaley /muslim (in name) have em hanging on their mirrors by their heads... in the car... that reflect wots behind them... dont ever EVER look at those maala's. Sorry 4 not being specific.

Your maala is obviously safe init... unless ur into black magic ofcourse - well then ur just wasted anyway!!!!!!!

never look at a maala!!!! Sumtimes ull see em hanging the mirror off aa car and other places.

DO NOT look at them... can take all yaar bhagti away!!!

mmmmmmmm

i know exactly how ya feel!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Jassa Ji is rite though still. Very true!