K4ur

To add to that, cleansiness is an ipotant part in Sikhi so keeping clean, like nails..... is just a little thing to add to that.

Still though im sorry... i dont think i usually so judgmental - thats probably the way i came across. Im sorry though still.

I get what ur saying though. Besides, if its okay woth ur mum... then i have no1 has a say in the matter anyway.

VKVF

Penji i wasnt tryna tick u off and im sorry - and reading back woah - that did sound harsh.

You know what it is, ive heard so much polotics yeah that it gets too me hardcore.... Im really sorry u got angry, it was not my intention.

You said u rarley see all this lust stuff at weddings and birthday parties etc... i have done. Thats y i think the way i do, cus of what i have seen and im sorry if that offended u in any way.

Im not going to place you in ANY position. by the sounds of it you sound pretty sure of yourself and u seem to know what u want and what you beleive. Thats totally wicked. Penji i respect u 4 that.

I dont think anything. Ive only just realised how my post sounded - so forgive me if u think that i was judging and u probably gona go off this site thinking wot the hell. All i can say is i dont "think" anything about u and i definatley do not catagorise u in any way...

LOOK - all i can say is im sorry.

u know u may be rite - but then u know wot u sed cud be sed 4 anything. Its that kind of thing that everone in our "culture" uses... and this is wot brings ppl away from SIkhi - making these kinda excuses is wot made this panjabi society so crap.... the fact that ppl started to say we need " live in this world" - TRUE i agree we need 2 start living inn this world - but REALITY CHECK..... just remember why u r living in this world!!!!!

People, mainly elders, use excuses like that canadian-j - for nearly everything and they have forgotten the old ways!

but if u forget about ur culture and focus on religious aspect of life while ur living, ur never going to be able to practice the ghrasti part of life...

it is EXACTLY this kinda thinking that brings ppl down!!!!!! I can go paint balling, cinema, bowling, go out for a hot chocholate with ma m8s, go to alton towers theme parks, do most things and still be a Sikh.... yeah i get wot ur saying, but the way u put it is the exact kinda thinking that gets to me, that u need to "live". Ppl r forgetting why we are actually LIVING!!!!!!!

What i'm finding reading all of ur posts is that ur going to an extreme form of sikhism where there is no balance between the spiritual part of life and material...

I think ur wrong there.... lots of ppl on this site have a lot of fun and joke - i can tell this cus sumtimes they go "off the topic" and start having joke.... i think the complete opposite 2 u there!!!! You cant just say that about ppl u dont know and number 2, i think most of the ppl have got more of a balance in life on this site than most ppl!!!!

nd all of u r prolly gonna say that their not restrictions that it's what the Guru Ji's said, but would the Guru Ji's really want u to live an unhappy life...

Your rite - hu said anything about these restrictions - bhangra and gidda are turning into more and more lustful movements - and this is also in another discussion topic .....yeah lets make that acceptable too shall we?!?!?!?!! When u look into SIkhi deeper ull find all these points u make about would GuruJi really want us to ive an unhappy life and so on... really outta the question!!!! Ppl start using that point to make almost ANYTHING accptabe!!!!!!!

The Guru's were there to guide us to God and gave us a way of life to do it!!!! INFACT - Guru Nanak Dev Ji said to bring ur head on a palm if u wana play his gamoe of love....

The matter of us "enjoying ourselves" and "living our lives" sounds like polotics to me.... AND I HATE POLOTICS!!!!!

I've had enuff!!!!!!!

They aare someone has has the same love for any child like a mother does 4 her child. A mother has this natural quality, but when sum1 is spiritually enlightened, they have this quality too.

Put it this way.. it feels "Woahhhhhhhhhh...!"

You just know. Sum1 spiritually high has an energ. They are like gravity and we get pulled towards them with our hearts. Some things just are and u'll kno it wen u see it.

You just know. Hard to explain. They are sum1 who has no doubts about God that they exist... that kind of auro rubs off... its REAALY hard to describe. Remember they can be disguised too, moral, respect EVERYONE cus u dont know who is and hu isnt. Go to the Gudwara... and some of the Bibia there in the kitchens - the ones that dont talk at all are so high.... woah....

U just know.

Also usually if sumthing is really gud, ppl will criticeise it the most... outta jelousy and stuff... remeber the ones that criticised the most are MORE likley to be the ones that are higher than the rest....

Face it guys - us gals are here to train u!!!

Lolz

I really have no idea, but 4 me, i know i cnt listen to the usic i used to listen and dance to, cus its noo gud 4 my head!

yeah... I think i'll probably have too.

All about timing i gues

My Gudwara ses cant tek Amrit without parents permission.

u know i dont think Shere meant it in a bad way. I think because he probably has quite a disciplined way of thinking and reason - which is fantastic - that is why u have taken his coment like that. The fact pagee is speaking so bluntly and what mite seem quite judging to you, may not seem quite judgin in some sense.... probably feels more factual than judgmental.... but i can understand why u may have taken it like that!!!

However his words are powerful yet probably unique to him and others too.

Sorry i know got nuthing to do with me.

Bul chuk Maafi.

Lolz.

Power to the "Back-in-the-day" Baba'zzz!!!!

aaaaaaaaaaawwwwww........ :cry:

That was sweettttttttt....

(For a girl) What if one of your parents do not allow you to take Amrit? Or get angry at the idea.... how is that person supposed to act?

VKVF

u know what shere k Ji - doesnt matter what ppl think... just ask urself wud it matter to God!!?!?!?

Bas now- im not lecturing u... lolz

You know evri1 has weak points and no1 shud say anything about it to ppl they dont really know!

VKVF

yeah... caste. Something to do with Tarkhan caste.

Shudnt be like this shud it!!!!

Mug Ji - i have no idea and im not even going to try and comprehend any of it... cus i cant. WOAH.... that was just WOAH!!!!!!

wow. that is really gud. Nice wording.

SAFE!!! Thankyouuuuuuuuuu

VKVF

SUchi hunna :!: - u lot are a bunch of JOKAZZZ

VKVF

Vahguru Ji K Khalsa - Vaheguru Ji Ke Fateh

Lolz okay - but then atleast can i say Shere Ji just 4 me that im a "K4ur - to - be"....

Im not sure if u understand.... doesnt matter anyway!

But i wud like to say yeah im glad SUM1 took notice!!!! Its crazy!!!!!

Trust me - ur not the biggest offender. Ive heard worse and at one poitnt i wasnt gona come back on to the site. Your a main person on here but that doesnt make u biggest offender.

Vahguru Ji K Khalsa - Vaheguru Ji Ke Fateh

But if any1 as read any of the Banis - not inc daily 5 banis - what is ur understanding of it?

Please discuss....

Manners?

Why do we say "Vaheguru Ji Ka khalsa... Vaheguru Ji k Fateh"... !?!

okay shere u just put what i was tryna say into actual english vocabulary so congrats ont that... lolzzzz.

My comments were on SIkh gals.

As for the gals who r not into SIkhi (ive refrained from swearing here) they dont know any better!!!

There are pictures of our Guru's on this page!!!!!!!

I dont think we shud swear. Its just going to end up like every other mashed up site!!!!! I think the swearing should be cut down.

People - less harsh too! This site represts Sikhi to none-Sikhs - what impression will they have!?!?!?!!

The way i was taught ... stand out be proud u r SIkhi.

Fine.

Not in the ways of brand named clothes woteva.... makeup - fine if ur married....

Your general appearnce should be all gud... but not dress to impress!! - Ego is such an easy thing to slip in to.....