Waheguru je ka Khalsa
Waheguru je ke Fateh!
Dearest Sangat,
I have just been reading the posts about this subject and i just thought I wud add my two cents in as well!
As an Amritdari Singhni(who wears a turban!) I have been clubbing. I have been a couple of times and I find it now extremely boring. Having been only a couple of times I had a great time because of the group of people I went with. My sangat that I went with went only for the music and to have a dance.
Kaljug is everywhere and is most probably heightened in clubs but God can be found at clubs wen I found out the last time I went clubbing. I went into a club in Cardiff (Wales) where there are hardly any asians let alone sikhs! Neways I went to the club and I had the best time ever why? because a group of sikh lads who were holiday in Cardiff at that time were there too and one of them approached me and we spent about an hour or so talking about sikhi and he said to me that just that day he was telling his family he gonne grow his kesh and now seeing me there he took it as a sign to get more into his sikhi. This completely boosted me! That I had helped in some way to spread the word of our Gurus.
Now I know that people may criticise me and that is fine. If you feel better doing that then do it. At the end of the day I dont judge others because that makes me egotistical and sikhi is all about pyar. Waheguru has given us all a brain to think for ourselves. I accept that other people have a different rehat to me that doesnt make them wrong and it doesnt make me right. We all have a personal relationship with Waheguru that is unique to you and Waheguru.
Finally I just wanted to say that sikhi is about pyar for each other. If you live your life with Pyar for yourself, others and Waheguru then that pyar will radiate from within and the people around will see your anand and want to share that.
Sorry If i have offended anyone and May you all stay in Chardikala with Waheguru's blessings!
Waheguru je ka khalsa
Waheguru je ke fateh!