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  1. Saihajleen, lets focus on how amazing the bond between the mother and her children is, no matter what, the son and daughter probably think she is perfect as their mum...... :wink:

    Makes me think about the bond / love between Akaal and us, except, half the time we don't see it.....and if we consider the whole world is an expression of Akaal.....then we are all an expression of Akaal... :shock: :shock:

    Thats what I got from this story....How I wish I was reuinited with my beloved. But then..Akaal is in us anyway, we just got to realise it ...and we too can reuinite just like this family did. :roll: :D

  2. The book is by Paulo Coelho and another book by him is "the manual of the warrior of light"

    Beautiful books, its as if, reading the first book, you are on a journey, and it really is a soul moving book about the realisation that Akaal is a part of you and you are a part of Akaal so therefore you are a part of the whole world. :mrgreen:

    the manual of the warrior of light is a book for any warrior saint...so perfect for shaster dhari Sikhs. :yo:

  3. ok.. my mum and dad always tell me "theea tho pesi nee leydhi" and this can be very frustrating especially when I offer them the money or stuff and I say things like "mum when i'm rich i'll buy you a ....." and shes like.."why? until i have my hands and feet and can earn theres no need for me to take things off my daughters."

    My dad explains that that Guru Gobind Singh Ji wanted to abolish the money aspect associated with daughters, ie dowry and especially the selling of daughters. So he said that never should a daughter have her money/property taken off he by relatives or others. (ie the remark it is poisen to Gursikhs)

    Some singhs (my dad tells me) wouldnt even drink water at a girls house because of this.

    He also says that women when they go to their new house as wives should be treated nicely and not as the practice is nowadays to get wives from india, work 16 hour days and then to take their earned money off them making them dependant on the family.

    you would be surprised how much this goes on. :(:(

    Sorry if I have already posted this before. :D

  4. OK earlier I said that a malaa for counting how many mool manter paats you do for example isn't that practical and it is easier for me to count on my fingers...however that only applies to when I'm at the Gurdwara. :roll:

    And since I practically live there :D I naturally just thought of that as my natural envronment for using a malaa, and today I thought, if I was a home there's absolutely nothing wrong with using a malaa to count to make sure that your own personal targets of amount of paat should be at least maintained. Who is going to see you apart from family?

    However at the gurdwara where everyone sees you, its impractical because then all of a sudden sangat will think very highly of you but it doesn't stop there, they will tell you how highly they think of you too (trust me on this) and then the age old trap of homai opens up ..thus ruining all the hard work thats been done! :shock: :shock:

  5. KS why can't you differentiate between real life and the internet? :shock:

    "ur making it out like ur well experienced in the rehat lol...from what i know u dont even grow ur kesh!!!!!! "

    This comment is really personal, and the point was just about 'discussing' jewellery!

    Joker. :roll:

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