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@Guru da Singh Veer ji its really sad what you are experiencing as its not a small quick fix problem. 

You could try to be a good role model as that i hope will help convince your wife that gurmat principles rehit is the best.

You could also do ardas and ask Waheguru Guru Sahib Ji to bless your wife for gursikh jeevan which Guru Sahib Ji will help.

You can try to get some literature writtings on Guru Sahibs, Mahapursh jeevanis that will help inspire her into adopting gursikh jeevan.

Here are a few relevant tracks i searched which i hope will help as it relates to this thread. I will add more when i find relevant tracks related to this thread

1 hour ago, harsharan000 said:

Utmost truth.

Glad to share veer ji

2 hours ago, dalsingh101 said:

Man, you got to love this geezer - cally Monty Panesar a kunjar panc***aa! lol

 

Good one veer ji

Best wishes to everyone !!!!!

Saw this on social media as well really horrible to see as its a big insult to our sikh identity.

1 hour ago, Jageera said:

https://www.businesstimes.com.sg/government-economy/gold-and-diamonds-are-an-indian-gurus-best-friend

Just shows that these people are false prophets.

2 hours ago, harsharan000 said:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Veer ji this is 100% correct the post as i am feeling after hearing about Baba Prem Singh Jis sudden passing today

Daas saw this on facebook today and was very feeling sad that Baba Ji have passed away in a car accident today whilst travelling such a sad loss for the Sikh Panth.

https://m.facebook.com/100010368526031/posts/pcb.974465602909048/?photo_id=974472102908398&mds=%2Fphotos%2Fviewer%2F%3Fphotoset_token%3Dpcb.974465602909048%26photo%3D974472102908398%26profileid%3D100001857327195%26source%3D48%26refid%3D52%26_ft_%3Dmf_story_key.974465602909048%3Atop_level_post_id.974465602909048%3Atl_objid.974465602909048%3Acontent_owner_id_new.100010368526031%3Athrowback_story_fbid.974465602909048%3Aphoto_attachments_list.[974465516242390%2C974465569575718%2C974472022908406%2C974472066241735%2C974472102908398]%3Astory_location.9%3Astory_attachment_style.album%26__tn__%3DEH-R%26cached_data%3Dfalse%26ftid%3D&mdp=1&mdf=1

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On 10/14/2019 at 4:30 AM, Guest Gill said:

I have been listening to " brahm kawach gurbani " by guani  thakur singh ....I dont  read  and  write punjabi to begin with but I llisten to mool mantar ...for hours ...Sukhmani sahib daily.....at times it goes on the whole day  on repeat ....I  maybe illiterate in my own mother tongue  but that makes me  no less a  sikh !!...I believe in all religion coz i feel all religion is ONE..Just different ways  of  worshipping !Now all i wanna know is  if what am doing is   Wrong  .... do let me know ...! I remember  2 years back i went to gurdwara   since everyoen was talking so big abt this jatha from UK ...But on the  2nd  day of the jatha  ....the "so called white robe and blue turban young  giani " repeated  a few times " THOSE THAT  do or listen TO sukhmani daily  BUT doesnt understand   it fully is  as good as NOT DOING at all and  shouldnt be  even here   in teh gurdwara ...And  Those words actually HURT me   badly ...I mean WHO IS HE TO JUDGE  anyone  ...I could have  stand up and  told him off  coz i seriously donthave  respect  for these ppl ...that wear white robes  or  blue or  orange  and  claims to be  SAINTS  ...BUT accept $$$ and GOLD   by the gurdwaras LEaders  In this case  YES he  was given gold rings   By the committe  >...!!WHY ? his accomodaton was arranged and paid  for ....Anyway   those words  still rings in my ears  but  I think HE  couldnt stop me  from Listening  to my sukhmani path  and mool mantar  ...AN DYES I DONT Understand   its meaning BUT  I also know  these prayers are  in my blood ..my soul ..my breath.....!..

 

IN my 60s .....but prayers been my guidance    always!!

Also veer ji i remember another time when i was at a outdoor event for a samgam in London as there were quite a lot of Sikh stalls selling dharamic stuff i wanted a large size english roman gutka with panj banis as that one at the time was small to read and my eyes would hurt. 

So anyway i am asking a few people if they sell any gutkas in english. 

One of the guys who met i found him unpleasent at the time as i asked him about the gutka pothis. He said "oh have you thought about learning gurmuki punjabi ?" 

I was shocked by this remark and got annoyed a lot so i questioned that does he know these banis and that what he do his paath from. 

I properly put him down and he had no answer nor his other stall guy as he questioned him which made me feel happy.

On 10/14/2019 at 4:30 AM, Guest Gill said:

I have been listening to " brahm kawach gurbani " by guani  thakur singh ....I dont  read  and  write punjabi to begin with but I llisten to mool mantar ...for hours ...Sukhmani sahib daily.....at times it goes on the whole day  on repeat ....I  maybe illiterate in my own mother tongue  but that makes me  no less a  sikh !!...I believe in all religion coz i feel all religion is ONE..Just different ways  of  worshipping !Now all i wanna know is  if what am doing is   Wrong  .... do let me know ...! I remember  2 years back i went to gurdwara   since everyoen was talking so big abt this jatha from UK ...But on the  2nd  day of the jatha  ....the "so called white robe and blue turban young  giani " repeated  a few times " THOSE THAT  do or listen TO sukhmani daily  BUT doesnt understand   it fully is  as good as NOT DOING at all and  shouldnt be  even here   in teh gurdwara ...And  Those words actually HURT me   badly ...I mean WHO IS HE TO JUDGE  anyone  ...I could have  stand up and  told him off  coz i seriously donthave  respect  for these ppl ...that wear white robes  or  blue or  orange  and  claims to be  SAINTS  ...BUT accept $$$ and GOLD   by the gurdwaras LEaders  In this case  YES he  was given gold rings   By the committe  >...!!WHY ? his accomodaton was arranged and paid  for ....Anyway   those words  still rings in my ears  but  I think HE  couldnt stop me  from Listening  to my sukhmani path  and mool mantar  ...AN DYES I DONT Understand   its meaning BUT  I also know  these prayers are  in my blood ..my soul ..my breath.....!..

 

IN my 60s .....but prayers been my guidance    always!!

First of all veer ji its really terrible that what you have been feeling especially the way you have written the post its really vile disguisting behaviour by that jatha as how it has effected you.

There is a old saying "beware of the false prophet" which totally applies to these people who are parcharaks and the impact that it has on you.

That guy is not even a small ant who walks under Sant Baba Gurbachan Singh Ji Khalsa Bhindrawale and who does he think he is saying the comment about understanding Sukhmani Sahib when Baba Jis mind brain is way bigger than his peanut size brain.

Here is a link with Sukhmani Sahib Katha from Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji that Baba Ji did and its got more knowledge then any of these jathas you will see or hear in the gurdwara.

I myself was in a same situation once where i didn't know japji sahib or even half of the banis that i do nowdays. But its all Wahegurus kirpa.

This guy i remember one time says to me a few years before i had gotten into nitnem banis. He said "oh roman english is not the same as gurmuki punjabi gutka". 

I ignored that guy cos he was a very ego proudy person at that time. As i don't let these stuff get to me.

But its not a nice moment though to remember cos i can see how it has effected you in the same way when i remember those words i get annoyed and its not a nice feeling.

http://www.gurmatveechar.com/audio.php?q=f&f=/Katha/01_Puratan_Katha/Sant_Gurbachan_Singh_(Bhindran_wale)/Guru_Granth_Sahib_Larivaar_Katha/Volume_04_Ang_0250-0346

@dalsingh101veer ji here is another site i found which has lots of saakhis and information about mahapurshs 

http://www.mahapurakh.com/

@dalsingh101 veer ji i found this saakhi from Baba Harnam Singh Ji Rampurkhera wale which reminded me from your experince with the cat and doing simran.

https://www.sikhnet.com/gurbani/audio/guru-nanak-dev-jis-darshan-022

21 minutes ago, dalsingh101 said:

Where can I learn about these mahapurshs? 

Veer ji here a few quick results i have found so far but i will add more when i get new information

http://www.dsgharkhowal.com/?page_id=84

https://www.santisharsinghji.com/product/thirteen-diamonds-the-treasures-of-bhai-daya-singh-ji/

https://www.sikhiwiki.org/index.php/Daya_Singh_Samparda

2 minutes ago, dalsingh101 said:

I had no idea about sant ji's spiritual lineage. I didn't know he was from a lineage that included the Sikh freedom fight Bhai Maharaj Singh ji, until I read it on this forum a few weeks ago. 

I also didn't know that the lineage goes back to first Panj Piara Daya Singh ji. 

I feel blest with having his darshan as a kid now, even if it's taken me this long to realise who he was and what he did for the panth. 

Veer ji you have got a lot of kirpa as you met baba ji as a child. 

Their lineage was very blessed as a lot of mahapurshs like Baba Karam Singh Ji Hoti Mardan, Baba Jawala Singh Ji Harkowale belonged to that line.

Interesting information was that both Baba Jawala Singh Ji and Baba Isher Singh Ji were the 10th on the lineage from Bhai Daya Singh Ji.

I have got a family friend who had darshan of Baba Isher Singh Ji as Sant ji put their hand on his head for 20/25 mins as he had a lot of problems as the doctors couldn't help him as he falled on Baba Jis charan crying.

3 hours ago, dalsingh101 said:

A good example of a nonJut who pushed and escalated Sikhi in East London is Sant Isher Singh Ji. He came here and did parchaar to all, including Juts in the late 70s when the community was just getting on their feet and under attack too.  And he didn't do it when the panth was in a position to fill up the golak, like now. He did it from the heart and soul. 

Veer ji my dad,grandma and his brother saw Baba Jis deewans back in the 70s. And yes i do remember hearing about those days a lot even though these years before my birth.

Also during this decade Sant Baba Puran Singh Ji,Sant Mihan Singh Ji were in the uk as well and played a big part for parchaar and sikhi.

Also i got family friends who mention those times as well and my mama ji as he came to uk in early 70s

5 hours ago, Mooorakh said:

 ਕਥਾ ਵਿਚਾਰ ਸਰਵਨ ਕਰੋ ਜੀ।

 *ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਨਾਲ ਪਿਆਰ ਪਾਉਣ ਦੀ ਜੁਗਤਿ* 

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 *ਮਲੇਸ਼ੀਆ ਕੈਂਪ ਸਮਾਗਮ ਦਿਨ ਛੇਵਾਂ* 

 *ਸਿਮਰਨਜੀਤ ਸਿੰਘ ਟੋਹਾਨਾ* ☝

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Thanks for sharing bhen ji

1 hour ago, dalsingh101 said:

That's very true veer ji. But we should also take note of how some of these brothers and sisters are treated quite shabbily by some people in Gurdwaras. That is disgraceful. 

Also, these people are on the frontline. This is Guru ji's hukam of how this panth is spreading. It's an important step in our community becoming truly global, and becoming diverse outside of Panjabcentrism, as it was supposed to, and originally was. 

Veer ji i agree 100% with you that its shocking and sad how they are treated at gurdwara its disguisting behaviour.

Here is a video i found on social media which shows even in public the police won't leave them alone either 

35 minutes ago, dalsingh101 said:

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/av/uk-38586025/the-african-american-sikh-convert

Very good find veer ji here is a few more related videos i have found which shows waheguru can do kirpa on anyone regardless of colour,caste,religion etc

2 hours ago, dalsingh101 said:

This is what happens when you introduce Sikhi to low IQ pendu types. They turn it into some sort of dogma, or a primitive 'appeasing the gods' to achieve tangible goals. Real spiritual.......

Some of these people would probably sacrifice children to 'the gods' to get more money if they could get away with it. 

This is no different to Hindu 'idolatry'. 

Embarrassing. 

Veer ji you are 100% correct just when you think they couldn't sink any lower now this. Made me lost for words seeing this.