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You all have it wrong, dont get married if you dont want sex. Simple. If you want to get married, youre going to have sex regardless. In some traditions sex is selfless act where you're giving pleasure to your partner and not just meeting your own desires.

If you want advice about being celibate, ask someone who isnt married and doesnt tell you to get married.

"Oh I want kids", then youre going to have sex then isnt it? "But my Baba said Kaam is bad and you should avoid it all costs", dont get married. "My baba said you should get married but avoid Kaam". Ask yourself why should you get married and stop listening to that Baba.

If in the beginning there was only God, then I would assume God would be taking pieces of itself and creating it using himself as the pieces. Hence God is part of creation. When we die, we go back to God's missing piece and merge back.

No input I guess.

Compare it with trending video which makes maps "racist". 

Sad story but Im guessing they probably went out with each other. 

On 7/9/2008 at 5:15 PM, Gangster said:

Does Sikhi say anything about blind faith?

 

Also....

 

Is it good to question religions as well as your own, while searching for answers?

Yes, its called blindly following rituals without knowing their meaning.

On the subject of "Law of karma". Sitting back and letting "karma" do something is Reailty is in reality an oxymoron. It's like expecting an action to take place when there is no action to settle it. I'm not talking about it paradoxically either. If I was then, taking no action is better than action. This can be applied to doing something will cause more harm than good. 

Action (Karma) is only done with intent not by doing nothing. 

On 4/24/2020 at 6:40 PM, ipledgeblue said:

oh so is that where the implementation in Sharia Law or Islam comes from, where it is ok to kill a non-muslim? Or an inspiration at least?!?

No, muslims believe that Mohammad is the next and last prophet after Jesus. Muslims also believe that their version of history is right and everyone that doesnt have the same view is a kaffar, this also includes Jews and Christians. 

On 2/17/2020 at 11:15 AM, harsharan000 said:

God is one, basic principles are same among all religions , then why some religions (Christian , Muslim etc.) allow to eat meat?

Regarding the topic of this present thread, that much I could say : Satgur bajoh hor kachee hae Bani.

In one of the 10 commandments of christianism, it is said : Thou shall not kill.

It does not say do not kill men, or u can kill animals, it just says: thou shall not kill. For any killing implicates creating "karam".

The law of karma, is not known nor accepted by many, yet it is verily true.

Then too, not only the basics of any dharam count, but after that, the higher teachings are very important also as per Gurmat, in order to reach that ultimate reality of Waheguru.

Creation is imperfect and has to continue running like that somehow, and its explanations  maybe out of the reach of our limited minds, thus not accept the higher truths as per Gurbani.

Our main duty is to have cleared up our minds with the aid of Gurbani in order to fulfill our objective in human life of merging our surtees in Him, and also do the needful and be helpful to all beings as nishkam seva, for in all resides His Jot.

Rest is all His  hukum, which we may never understand, until we merge in Him and become one with Him, the highest level of consciousness or chetanta.

Sat Sree Akal.

 

Thou shall not kill, is refering to the Jews that have accepted the law of Yahwah and only applied for his people not the gentiles. Which explains all the killings of gentiles talked about in the bible but they cant do it to their OWN people because gentiles are not apart of the law. Jews are allowed to eat meat, only curtain types. Which when you think about it, also applies to Muslims who view everyone whos a non-believer an emermy of their god under their law. This is why killings are still going on. If it was left to "The Law of Karma" it would have been delt with long time ago.

"Law of Karma" is BS and only should be taken to what it means, actions. Karma can be applied for bad and good actions but it doesn't mean your transfering energy in a magical way. There is no reflective force that bouncies Bad or Good Actions to and from a person like a conversation. If that was the case, I'd be a lot happier. Reailty is, bad things happen and people that get away with bad things and never have karma delt with unless its justice they seek. Bad people will think they are good because its all subjective and how you can prove yourself right by using truth. 

We should start believeing things more practically.

When people think about God, they usually thing about God of all life and that everything is central to GOD. But then you have another view where God seems to treat people differently and favours his own people over others and even kills allows killings of people who follow other gods. But the real question is who is The God which is above the religion you follow. 

I think this is the real reason why. This guy went more into Sikhi. This girl missed the clean cut guy. Now she's heart broken that "he's moved on". Now she's feeling nostalgic about the time she had with him before he went fully into Sikhi. 

Probably a fake account

3 hours ago, Mooorakh said:

Well I only meant men are emotionally weak, they are not able to express themselves ( normally) ... they would look harsh but aren't actually... And rather are egoist so he won't call her just unblock her..so she would have to clearly express her, Play with her feelings and be strong thas only if she would have understood it the way you have...  As the answer was meant for

Still you can say watever you wish to... We all hv freedom of speech!

I am not going to argue on THIS ... 

No offense but when Men do express their feelings, its usualy straight to the point. Some women (not all) would cry, then the man would will feel bad. THIS IS WHY MEN DONT EXPRESS EMOTIONS. I would say go for a nice guy but then most women hate nice guys. Men and Women are different but both CAN work together, Ying and Yang. This is the dualistic nature of the world.

On 4/7/2020 at 10:40 PM, khalsapanth said:

wjkk wjkf 

I was friends with this Sikh guy for over 15 years now, he recently became religious and started to stop drinking, wearing dhamalla and now he loves going gurdwara. He because just like me. I know having lost in sikhi is wrong but I fell in love with him. The things he has spoken to me it seems like he have feelings for me but sadly that was not the case. My heart is breaking so much I don't know what to do I feel like so broken that I can't do anything at all. I don't want to eat  sleep or do anything at all. 

He has blocked me and deleted me and that hurts the most. It shows he wants nothing...I didn't know he hate me so much. 

I spoke about my problems with him and trusted him and know I regret telling him things... I told him how I love him and he doesn't care he said he is just a friend... but now he's not even a friend to me. 

I feel so heartbroken I don't know how to live without him.... please please help me k know last or having feelings is wrong but I don't know what to do. 

I really need help from gursikhs please I feel so broken

I'm sorry if I said anything wrong. Please forgive me and give me some advise please im brokenhearted I love him too much. 

Wahwguru ji ka khalsa wahwguru ji ki fateh 

You've been friends for 15 years, hes changed, hes not the same person. If you were friends for 15 years and he liked you, then you would have been partners much sooner than 15 years. Simple asnwer is, he wasnt attracted to you which is something you have to accept. But this is from a Man perspective, you're a woman and it'll be easier to find a guy for you. Men have to go out of their own way to find someone and get rejected soo many times.

On 1/25/2020 at 2:21 PM, Jageera said:

This answer makes the most sense in this thread.

Good one. Lot of "Sikhs" think that having no sex in marriage is the "Way to live life". When sex can be a selfless thing. This is why no girls want to marry Singhs now adays. Women dont see Singhs as able to be "physical", they always picture a Gyani. If a Sikh wants to celibate, dont get married. Sex can bring two people closer together and encourage pair bonding.

On 8/7/2019 at 6:08 PM, Mooorakh said:

Most people may think that they are unwell if they encounter stages during #meditation #simran. @Soulfinder @tva prasadveerji

 

I think we need to come to reality. And stop believing that everything is Maya. Maya is an illusion but its not an illusion called the matrix. Its your own version of reality of thoughts which creates dilutions, which is why you must be rooted in reality.

By saying romatic stories to people with a problem only makes the problem worse. 

On 7/31/2019 at 11:17 PM, tva prasad said:

I feel a connection with them. Like they are me. And I don't feel like I'm doing anything coz sometimes when I am doing actions I feel like I am everything and I dont do anything. I feel like everything I'm doing is an illlusion. It feels like only my body is doing it but I'm certain in that moment that I'm not my body even if i try to associate myself with it, I cant. Hence sometimes, I can do whatever and not feel anything towards it. 

Really, bro? Thanks, mate.

You can DM if you have any questions. More than happy to help

You feel a connection, thats called empaty, most people already have it.  You know what you should do, treat others as you treat yourself. Dont go around looking for rewards for doing this either, or doing it outwouldly just for show, be it. Know this, if you break someones heart, your Heart is broken.

With the Flat earth theory you think it's 8.4 Million or 84000 lives? 

So where does motivation fit in if it doesn't have a emotional content? Is there any use of doing good karma? Where is the drive? What makes someone drive you for bhagati? Its still within ego, the act of bhagati is still an act coming from the self. 

3 hours ago, harsharan000 said:

The Five so-called "Vices" in Sikhi is your own Emotions, not "Bad Deeds":

Here I disagree, vices are not emotions nor moods. Emotions by themselves, do not induce you to do bad deeds, but on the contrary, anyone, absolutely anyone under the influence of these  vices or thieves,  unmistakenly commit bad deeds or karmas, which take our self farther away from the divinity.

On the contrary, virtues, make us do good karmas, which are essential to invoke His grace on us, and through that His apaar grace, we gradually  get nearer and nearer to Him, for now we are consciouss of ourselves, that in order o merge in that Infinte Ocean of goodness, we have to also become free from our mind and become mindless,  spotless, our real self  as He Himself is.

Stay blessed.

Sat Sree Akal.

I believe they are emotions but emotions can control you. You need theses "Five vices". Kaam to create babies. Krodh to drive you to seek justice. Lobh to seek more knowledge. Moh to be attached to loved ones, dear I say even The Guru. Ahankar, having pride in yourself, someone who has no self worth doesn't feel motivated. 

Theses things can get out of control if left unchecked and yes do the opposite. 

Start with understanding yourself first, what makes you tick, your nature. Your emotions, fears, what makes you happy, sad etc. Then you can go above them. How can you relate to something which is infinite if you havent understood yourself. Maya doesnt mean everything around us is a 3D simulation, Maya is a notion of delusion or belief systems we have or have come to believe in which are not true. This whole relating quantum physics to maya doesnt end your day to day problems, understanding your self does. The Five so-called "Vices" in Sikhi is your own Emotions, not "Bad Deeds".