Samarbir Singh

On 1/5/2022 at 5:30 AM, Guest Kaur said:

Veer ji I can not open the page, is there an other link that I can try ? 

You can try this link. https://t.me/pmkctohana

1 hour ago, dalsingh101 said:

Serious question.

Do you have wild tarantulas in Cali? Have you ever seen one? 

Hahahaha Veerji I haven’t unfortunately seen one. But I think they’re some in the hills of the Bag Area.

7 hours ago, Premi said:

I have family in the Bay Area (Alameda county). How about you ?

I’m from Manteca it’s near Modesto

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I am from California. About an hour away from San Francisco. My parents and a lot of my linage are from Amritsar, tarn taarn area.

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But I also believe bad sangat is also a big part especially the youthful sangat tend to talk about girls and things of this nature from my experience and I think it’s because it is something do with that they have recently discovered these things and our curious but curiosity isn’t necessarily always good thing because this curiosity will make go down the wrong path.

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On 8/9/2021 at 2:39 AM, paapiman said:

Could that be due to sexual repression of young ladies in our community?

What do you think is the solution for it? Don't you think one should be a bit older when they go to uni? Like 19 plus, at least?

 

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So all of my fellow Sikhs. Would you allow, let’s say hypothetically your a male Sikh with a traditional mindset, would you allow your daughter to date and have causal sex with other people, of course not right! It’s not only a traditional Punjabi mindset but this mindset also comes from a religious standpoint. And don’t get me wrong sex isn’t looked down upon if done with your wife or husband but hooking up with different people for pleasure is not allowed by the gurus. So it’s many things that build this mindset. But I myself sometimes think to myself when I do have kids I cannot force them, but can try your best to show the right path, and kids take it to heart because we tell just tell them no! But we need to tell them through a religious point and why it’s wrong. I had to realize that someone cannot force Sikhi onto you, you have to experience and learn about it through your own curiosity. So this my thinking gursikho!

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27 minutes ago, paapiman said:

What is your source?

Sikhs do not worship the Agni dev (Demi-God of Fire). Anand Karaj must involve circling around Sri Waheguru jee (Gurbani), who can create millions of Demi-Gods.

 

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On 10/21/2021 at 2:30 AM, Sajjan_Thug said:

Waheguru Ji

Update 17

10/7-786 Jaaps
10/8-1,101 Jaaps
10/9-761 Jaaps
10/10-1,132 Jaaps
10/11-905 Jaaps
10/12-920 Jaaps
10/13-900 Jaaps

Total done this week 6,505

Total done since started 67,387

57,613 left till 125,000

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Your mun while have a lot power after these jaaps. After all this, jaaping naam for you will be easy Waheguru. You should do Waheguru gurmantar after the Mool Mantar Jaaps are all done
 

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Tuk from Sukhmani Sahib

parabh kai simran anhad jhunkaar.

Remembering God, the unstruck melody vibrates.

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yes there is tuks of Gurbani which refer to the chakras but when you find the truth which is jaaping Waheguru gurmantar. Chakras aren’t significant according to my babek buddi.

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37 minutes ago, Sat1176 said:

That sound your hearing is called sehaj dhun. You can confirm that yourself when you speak one to one with any of the Gurmukhs who teach this path. I personally have so I confirm to you what I have been told. It is the start and as you focus on it you should notice it gets louder and louder. Sometimes it disappears and your left wondering where has it gone? Why has it gone? All you can do is revert back to Gurmantar and start again, trying to still the mind and relaxing in a more sehaj state whilst trying to remain relatively consciousness and aware (not easy). 

Now doing seva of listening to this sound is not easy either and other sounds may come along the way as you go deeper within and your mind becomes more still. Don't expect miracles just cos you hear this sehaj dhun because like others have said it's only the start. How long we stay at only this stage of sehaj dhun only Waheguru knows. Only thing you can do is keep practicing the Gurmantar jaap and when you hear the sehaj dhun also try focus on it slowly trying to climb to the next rung of the ladder. When the time is right Waheguru ji will progress you to the next stage. Don't get impatient or loose faith mate. 

Others will come on this topic to discourage you and that's their right to give you an alternative opinion. Your already doubting, lost and confused and I don't blame you. It's not an easy path, believe you me coz I been trying for years. Getting close to a gurmukh who will take you under their guidance is also not easy. Especially if you cannot go have regular sangat in their presence as most live in India. Online sessions help but it still leaves questions in your mind until you have a 1 to 1 with them and clear any doubts. But once you have asked and got your answer like I know you have, you got to take their word for it and then keep practicing. 

Just to give you some scale to the journey ahead lets say there is more stages to come and we are still on the first step so just be grateful you identified the ladder and slowly trying to climb up. Other are yet to even acknowledge the ladder may exist. Everyone is on their own journey and I hope everyone finds a ladder that works for them. 

1. Sehaj dhun

2. Shabad ghanayray (so loud you can hear them internally when at a party) 

3. Anhad shabad (panj Shabad) 

4. Naad (naam) - Sound of an aircraft

5. Internal amrit or amrit verkha from listening to naam. Stage 4.

6. Parkash internally and externally. 

I was listening to one katha last week and the gurmukh said stick with sehaj dhun until you get to stage 4. So if you hear any other sound remain focused the sehaj dhun anyway. Waiting for the naad is the next rung to switch to after sehaj dhun. Let other sounds pass you by. Just hearing the sounds is not enough, you also need to be in the right state of mind, and be listening to them at the right place heading upwards. Lots to learn... You've been given good advice by some in this thread. Suggest you take it if serious. If not then up to you.... 

Anyway good luck Bro. WaheGuru kirpa karan. 

 

 

Thank you bro

1:12

kind of sounds like this but for me it’s way quieter.

(don’t mind the title)

5 hours ago, paapiman said:

Gurparsaad, Daas will pm you.

Thanks 

 

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36 minutes ago, Lucky said:

Correct.

The early sounds you hear are pavan shabads. . You still have a way to go before the real bhagtee begins and naam gets pargat.

It will be confusing a little this stage and it is only happening because you are going antarghat. . At this stage you can start practice going deep into saas saas. start with saas grass, get quieter as you settle...into saas saas( jap quietly with breath...keep going until settled enough to do saas saa but ALL the japna in silence with surti,. ie. breathe in-"wahe", breathe out "guru'... 'wahe-guru" done internally in complete silence with surti

Thank you so much Ji

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Ever since I found out I shouldn’t eat or drink before Nitnem, I don’t eat or drink before I recite Nitnem. But a question just arose out of my mind if you could eat or drink if you were just listening to Nitnem

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Waheguru I know that in some well know Gurmukh in the times Guru Gobind Singh Ji Maharaj has a rehatnama with one the rehats being to not eat before doing Nitnem (forgive me if I am wrong). Does that mean we cant eat even if we’re just listening to Nitnem and not reading Nitnem. Or no, you just can’t eat or drink anything before Nitnem?

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On 6/20/2021 at 6:19 AM, Kaur10 said:

Try this for 21 times,  do Ardas daily whenever you remember, wherever you are, whatever you are doing to Waheguru to help you.  It would work!  

 

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Bhen Ji, I can’t read or write Punjabi, only speak it.

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7 minutes ago, Soulfinder said:

Veer ji here is a post that dass posted on this thread

 

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Waheguru all those videos were unavailable.

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1 hour ago, paapiman said:

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Another thing to remember bro is that the first 90 minutes or so, after waking up, is probably the most productive period of your day. Based on it, you should try to do the maximum amount of Naam Simran during that time period.

 

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Bro kaam (lust) has such tight hold on me recently I’m trying to stop using my phone because you know… but I need my phone for a lot of things. I just need to get a grip on kaam.

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23 minutes ago, paapiman said:

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Won't you be off in the summers? Then, you should be able to wake up at 2.00 am or so right?

Try doing the maximum amount of Naam Simran at Amritvela. Amritvela is the best time for Naam Simran.

Can't you try to sleep a little earlier? Even if you sleep at 9.30 pm, you should be able to wake up at 3.30 am. That's 6 hrs. of sleep. You can take another nap after Naam Simran. At first, it might be difficult for you to change your schedule, but your body will probably gradually get use to it.

 

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Will try for sure. But im probably going to asleep but my body get used to it.

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