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On 1/15/2022 at 12:17 AM, paapiman said:Don't you think "British" would be a better term for you, rather than "English"?
Bhul chuk maaf
but we are writing / speaking to each other in English now and Not an Indian language? British implies conquered country , colony, or what the Americans call people from UK or as it originally meant it was the greater Brittany ( smaller being in France) from when French Kings ruled UK.. In sort it is England. UK implies Union, of all, anyhow I was born and raised in England...I have the right to be called it as much as anyone..that said I understand your point as most people from immigrant groups will call themselves British.
In which case I am a British Punjabi Sikh
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2 hours ago, paapiman said:So according to you, if most of the Brown immigrants (in 70's and 80's) were Christians, that would not have affected the intensity of the terrorist attacks on the Brown people?
Bhul chuk maaf
that's not what I said...I said later the NF, National Front took over the movement...then it was generally White supremist, but there were also black people in it...the thing to note i that the West Indian's also only spoke English and yes are Christian...us browns were the other in every way, language, food, clothes...we were seen as the alien threat ...
going back to this original piece attacks cab from anyone
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1 hour ago, dalsingh101 said:
Potohari accent too. Pronouncing arab loan words with proper arabic guttural inflection. I tend to try and keep this info secret so they don't adapt to the disclosure.
you just gave it away on here...I tend to try and pronounce my pair bindis so I may be in danger! There are a few actual Sikhs from that area, just as there are Muslims in Pakistan from India who also have Doabi or Malwai accents...though its a good rule of thumb, its not 100% as a result. Sikh girls I know that have gone with Muslims seem to do it out of choice or rebelling in some manner. Then again Muslim and Hindu girls have been known to marry Sikhs as well. The Key is issue is the conversion. Everyone always seems to be olbiged expected to become Muslim. EG Omar Shariff was born catholic but he married a muslim woman and had to convert. And it is definitely that way for women marrying Muslim men. To my knowledge Sikhs don't do that.
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1 hour ago, dalsingh101 said:
That's next on my reading list. You'll probably find me posting a lot of words you used in that vocabulary thread in future.
its also an audiobook, just google it, may save you reading it! Only they spelt my name dillon
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6 minutes ago, dalsingh101 said:
Bhai ji, other brothers have highlighted how some wear karas to pretend to be Sikh to con Sikh females, the amount of times I've had someone who is obviously not Sikh start speaking Panjabi to me and tell me that they are Sikh in recent years is telling too.
It's obvious they are trying to infiltrate us.
The general giveaway to that will be 1) They will have a Majhi accent, most Sikhs in west have Doabi/ Malwae 2) They do look ..."different"
Yeah I know about the Kara thing
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47 minutes ago, dalsingh101 said:
As I've got older it's become increasingly difficult for me to categorise myself along any nationalistic lines. Although I'm uncomfortable with certain aspects of 'Panjabi culture' as practiced by some Sikhs (i.e. casteism, celebrating alcoholism, an excess of non-intellectual/non-spiritual folk songs etc. etc.), younger mixed race relatives have made me understand that I can't deny my Panjabiness. That being said, I don't see it as anything to write a song and dance about let alone start doing bhangra over....lol.
I spent most of my life in england, but it's acutely obvious that I'm not english (and they'll let you know from time to time, even more so these days). The indian thing is problematic for some of us who grew up through 1984 and what followed afterwards.
So I found having a primarily Sikh identity the best. Even if I'm very far from being a great Sikh.
I get where you are coming from. I say I am English as by being born here,,,how dare I been denied the right to be called English,,,and I guess I am lucky that I live in a Middle Class Gora area where this is not an issue and Goray know about Sikhs..but if we take UK as a whole I know what you mean, and maybe I am disassociating myself with India based on my hobby of writing in Punjabi ( Threatened by Hindi/ Urdu/English) and frankly 1984 and Modi RSS
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I think we are taking the subject away from Tahir Gora channel.,,,,nevermind
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6 minutes ago, dalsingh101 said:That's the problem, letting your guard down because of outliners. Even our katar Singhs wouldn't condone our own doing some of the things that emanate from certain quarters.
I feel there is an increasingly growing aversion to 'liberalism' in our community, people feel it weakens boundaries, and makes the panth vulnerable to predators of other communities, and this isn't just limited to pakistanis.
yes I agree with you. Many things they do in their community despite our union of language are alien to my sikh upbringing...including marrying relatives or girls half your age etc...language can unite us and create a discourse...but all the rest of these things are so different...I think the worst I have heard ours do is Honour Killings, though allegedly there was a Sikh member of a northern muslin grooming gang in the news some years ago...anyhow my views on this are on display in my story Gunda, which may offend some muslims, but grooming gangs are a fact
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31 minutes ago, dalsingh101 said:I think it is. Muslim scholars openly admit that slavery was/is a part of the islamic economy, if not central to it (and this includes the sexual slavery of captured female captives, and by the looks of it, even young males). I think these 'cultural norms' are even older than islam itself and were practiced by arabs prior to mohammad being born.
ok so that explains Dulla Bhatti and Taken within the same sentence. I think the issue is there is Punjabi Culture ( so the muslims from Pakistan I know are pro punjabi so different from the mullah types) and then Punjabi sub culture, ( dictated by religion? Thus Sikhs and Hindus are different from Muslims, and Hindus are different from Sikhs etc) and then there is Arab culture which overrides a lot of the behaviour and sets the norms. It is also where Islam comes from.
This may explain it. The guys I know are more Sufi orientated which means they are of the same ilk as Santan Hindus and thus more in sync with Baba Nanak's Sikhi but not I guess the Khalsa. So then all I can say is the pro punjabi guys seem to be different. It is an interesting point for me that the pro punjabi ones are mainly hailing from within Pakistan and are also targeted as Indian spies or traitors by those that put Islam before national pride. Also that the ones we are talking about may specifically include those in the west who like Sikhs in the west bought the wounds of 47 with them and lets face it are the guys my generation fought in the clubs and pubs in the 80s and 90s because of the hate between our communities at the time. I think many of them further alienated themselves from Pakistan after 9/11 and its consequences and lacking any linguistic connection with the Punjab joined the international Islamic brotherhood in reaction to George Bush etc and now are more like the Arabs you describe.
As I said take them individually.. anyhow one thing I am in agreement with you all...whenever I ask them about why they don't critize terrorism or all this grooming, there is no response, yet they are vocal about west picking on them. I have noted the ones I know in Pakistan disassociate themselves with these British products.
last night I happen to see a film set in Columbia with a similar storyline to Taken,,so I think it is an international issue not just a muslim one..I also recall that Romanian gangs do it as well
Maybe the question should be why are Arabs like this?
GurjantGnostic this is my answer to you as well re insight
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34 minutes ago, GurjantGnostic said:
What are your thoughts on reconciling Sikhi, with muslim neighbors who consider us kafir? And belive that criminalizing us and sex traficking us is permitted due to our status outside of the abrahamic paradigm?
I have close muslim friends. I know it's a weird question, but how can one exactly coexist with a group that doesn't view them as human, feels they have a religous duty to convert you and don't consider crimes against you a crime?
Language is often a barrier. Has your experience with Punjabi as a language given you any insights into this topic in a broader way?
all I can say is that the pro punjabi muslims I know from Pakistan itself don't give me that impression. Dare I say it that they may be left wing- arty farty in their nature...maybe thus very liberal within the confines of the punjabi culture combined with Islam. Even we have Katar Sikhs. That said they do not reflect the ones in Britain, and those I think since 9/11 and all that, are not the same. One Pakistani Professor put it like this to me years ago..Urdu is a language of hate, Punjabi of love...so I guess you have to take all humans individually as you find them. All Abrahamic Religions are illogical anyhow, but that is just my view..so I think those who consider anyone Kafir/ Heritic/ or Lower caste are all cut from the same cloth..not clothes I want to wear
In short it depends who your neighbour is. Grooming is certainly a problem in the UK and is associated with gangs mostly made up of muslim men. I did not think Sex trafficking is permitted though..Yesterday was Lori / Lodi...its most famous person is Dulla Bhatti of Lahore, a muslim who fought Mughals, saving Hindu women. So I don't think it is a religious thing, ( I could be wrong but ask a Muslim woman what she thinks of this) but a cultural arrogance???
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so I know I got no replies here. Maybe it is a dumb question. However this is the stuff I got on CitySikhs Facebook. No where above I said Hindus are not included in being Punjabi. I just feel from my experience if I meet an Indian not from Punjab on the train, pretty soon we are speaking in English because there is no common language and not even our food and cultures are in alignment. However on the same train I meet a Punjabi of any background, including Pakistani, we can ( at least the older generation who don't speak Urdu / Hindi as first language) talk in Punjabi and culturally have a lot in common.
Also I am finding that the lack of education within people from India is lower than those outside about their own countries! I do believe even we are indoctrinated here and that anyone is and to seek the truth they have to watch the news etc not from their country but an outside one to know the truth.. Anyhow snippets below of some of the ridiculous conversation, allegedly linked to my question . People's ID's have been hidden intentionally by me, but you can find original conversation on CitySikhs facebook site.
where would you say Guru Gobind singh ji from?
what do you mean when you say Before we became part of India?
Weird person
man you really need to brush up your history, you know who was Poras?
it became Punjab? It was always there. What are you really talking about? We are known for our geographical position than Religious and we always had this identity.
his is taking it in the wrong direction. Yes Porus ( real name Puna) was from Majha area of modern Punjab and yes Gobind Singh was not from Punjab, but from Patna, but his ancestry just like ours was Punjabi. Like we speak English in UK, he spoke Barj Bhasha ( Hindi as a language did not exist at the time).
so if you know that history, you know this region beyond Indus was always known as warriors. Entire Hinduism belongs to Punjab, all vedas were written on this land, majority of the Rishis were Punjabi including Gorakh Nath,
yes but Hindustan is a Mughal regional right down to Tamil Nadu area when they ruled . The term was a western / foreign term for anyone east of river Indus just like European is a term for anyone west of Turkey and Iraq and North of Africa. These are all still separate countries as per languageConsidering how I defined myself I would say Guru Gobind was Punjabi Heritage, Bihari by birth and being raised ( much like I am English ) initially Hindu by definition then Sikh by being raised in the Sikh community and then Modern Sikh (Khalsa ) created by himself . The issue I raised had nothing to do with the Gurus so why was it taken in that direction ? The issue was of modern India and it being a state in the way I describeding Porus was a famous Indian king, his real name was Purushotama. He belonged to PURU tribe mentioned in RIG VEDA, the Ancient books of India. Porus ruled the Punjab region and expanded his kingdom between the Jhelum River and Chenab River in the Indian Subcontinent. He was a legendary warrior and more war skills. He made the army most powerful with war skills. Even Alexander had also made difficulty to defeat Porus. His parents name didn’t know clearly. However, his son name also Porus.you know the timing between both of these historical events?Now what does any of the above have to do with my question?I'd say it's up to the individual how they define their identity.How much of your identity (as described in detail above) would you say, has been influenced by the events in Panjab, in 1984?There seems to be a concerted effort to nullify aspects of our inherent Hindu identity, as a result of 1984. And to a degree, that's understandable, as justice hasn't been done. The perpetrators remain free, whilst the affected, have suffered and received no justice.That's a fair point. If you note I did state I recognise I am Indian, just India..secondly you will have noted I included Hindu, Sikh, Muslim and Christian within the definition of being Punjabi. So I am very aware of the Hindu and the Buddhist roots long before any of us became Muslim, Christian or Sikh.. It am defining myself by the two languages I know and the languages of those lands. So Yes English because I am raised in UK and educated in English. But Punjabi because I originate from the Indus Valley which is currently still referred in its western region as Punjab. If we go back to the time of the Reg Vida then like an esteemed poster, Ranvir, above has already mentioned, we came from the land of 7 rivers. so no I don't deny my Hindu / Buddhist past.and to deal with your fair point, lack of proper international apology by Congress and the Gandhi family, fake investigations, and the current Right wing ( who this time happen to be SOME Hindu folks) extermists who vote for the current regime inciting hatred by using 1984 monikers on social media etc etc naturally colours my attitude towards India. Is that not understandable? I accept logically of a population of 1 billion Hindus, The RSS mob etc hopefully are not the whole population and no way in 1984 it was a massive part of the population ( If you read my Punjabi fiction you will find its a Hindu character that saves some Sikhs in Delhi 84) who killed Sikhs. But a silent non protesting majority...well that's how Hitler came to power and was able to kill the Jews. You may not see it if you are living in India, but unless Congress and Gandhi family resolve these historical issues and until the current regime doesnt come out of power this is how many Sikhs will feel. Going outside the Sikh aspect, it is logical for me to call myself British / English as I am from here as much as it is logical for a Punjabi Sikh to call themselves Indian, as they are raised there. That is all that means. But yes if you relook at my post the Punjabi Identity includes Hindus and Muslims as well. The language is the identifier in my view and had not the British annexed Punjab today there would be no Pakistan and Ranjit Singh's Punjab at least would have remained independent of modern India ( A British imperial construct) and secular...with Punjabi pride amongst Hindu, Sikh and Muslim Brethren. And my opinion is not fixed or necessarily correct which is why I asked everyone their view. The danger of city sikhs is it has become full of fake RSS trouble makers and no one knows who they are talking to... you or I could have fake Sikh IDs here for example. The admin certainly is prejudice to punjabi language postsalso I did say in my individual case...I am not speaking for other Punjabis or Sikhs...merely asking their viewsSeems like online you dont know who you are talking to nor do they make sensei am beginning to wonder if we should all not comment on social media and only have debates with people physically in front of us? Social Media perpetuates hate and misunderstanding?? -
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2 hours ago, GurjantGnostic said:As for the injury. Without weapons like a baton, the victim either falls breaking the leg in the chaos, or more common it means they got stomped.
While I have a great deal of sympathies with black people all over this planet, and believe that our loyalties go back a long time, all of us speaking here, we can make no mistake that they are very very damaged, that they are very colonialized, very imperialized, very marginalized, and capable of a lot of ignorance themselves.
And while skin does give us some indication who one's ancestors are, it is no indication as to what lies beneath. For you never know, given the opportunity whether they will choose to side within themselves genetically, with the rapist oppressor or with the native person struggling for self-determination for all people.
Sure sociologist and psychologists could explain why a marginalized group of people, given the opportunity, will turn on the only people placed lower in the social ladder than they are at the time. It does not excuse it and it does not mean that any of us can fall victim to it we must be prepared to defend ourselves.
Now there's also a difference between a crime motivated purely by hate and one that could say be a robbery which features a racial slur.
agreed with all said
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14 hours ago, paapiman said:They called them Black Skinheads right?
Was there any element of religion involved in these terrorist attacks? Most West Indians must have been Christians (same as the White people), while the Brown Asians were mostly non-Christians.
Bhul chuk maaf
no Skin head movement was more related to music, appropriation of West Indian Culture SKA music etc then got kidnapped by white nationalism. ( NF). Nowadays I think anyone who is brown equals muslim terrorist in the eyes of all these groups in the west. racism is not exclusive to white people. They can even be victims of it. So this was a blunt racist attack on brown people
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2 hours ago, dalsingh101 said:I think you might be old enough to remember Roop. In the 70s/80s attacks on 'asians' became so normalised that even some west indians would do them.
In those days Black people were Skinheads as well
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this is getting worse and worse ...the images suggest not all racists are white... a naïve assumption anyhow
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check this person out in that case. Or just type gimmi tv punjabi bethak in youtube
https://apnaorg.com/punjabi-baithak/
and yes I am one of them
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unity is possible. Nazeer is a FB associate of mine
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Let me make clear where I am coming from
Based on Origin am I Indian? Yes
Based on Birth? No I am English and thus dual inheritor to both cultures
Based on Culture? No, I say Punjabi.
Now why do I distinguish my last answer?
well bullet point wise:-
- The reasons given above
- A country essentially is established by Language. E,g All if Europe is Christian ( Like most of India is Hindu) but Spain, Greece, Russia and UK, their real cultures are based on their language and food etc. Religion is the final factor. So apply that logic to India and it is 25 separate countries that Invaders such as the Mughals and British made into India / Hindustan. Same with local Indian regional empires
- Then based on my logic post 47 India and Pakistan are no more than still part of British Empire. My logic? The law is all in English. Hindi ( a British invented language) and English are used for ruling. How would we feel if we were in a court case an it was conducted in Arabic/ German etc? Same logic. Language comes first.
- Ok lets go on the word Hindustan. Enough said.
- Following that, 1984
- Literally what is happening now in India..look at all the hate posts on social media, asking for the killing of Sikhs, How different from 80s Congress or 1947?
- So am I Indian? No, in my case I am A British / English Punjabi Sikh, my heritage is Punjab, shared with Punjabi speaking Sikhs, Hindus, Muslims and Christians / Atheists. Language is key, the all else
So agree or bitterly disagree?
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On 1/6/2022 at 4:12 PM, Premi said:
A committee should look at all the common traditional sources of vocab from other languages, e.g. Prakrit, Sanskrit, Farsi, Turkish langs, Hindi etc and decide and make this uniform
But hardly any Panjabi I know speaks without mixing some English words either consciously or subconsciously
agreed. See may answer about the Push Sanskrit Punjabi dictionary..currently I am fighting them / debating with them via the keyboard. Too many so called Punjabi Professors in Indian University who have introduced Hindi words to Punjabi language , books , dictionaries and TV, Same isssue in Pakistan to lesser degree re Arabic etc
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On 9/18/2021 at 11:00 PM, ਰੂਪ ਢਿੱਲੋਂ said:
Just found out for someone these are actually called ਜੰਤਰਅੰਸ਼ and ਤੰਤਰਅੰਸ਼
that said all this is debatable. I had invented my own words for these. These words were given to me by a Group in the UK/ India trying to create a technical dictionary in Punjabi...my only concern is that they are pushing Sanskrit as the source / base for these words and this may damage punjabi by Hindizing it. Punjabi should be understood on both sides of the border. Maybe the answer is just to write the English words in Gurmurkhi? They may develop into Punjabi like Bicycle did to Saikal
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On 1/6/2022 at 4:08 PM, Premi said:How did you get so interested in Panjabi literature? Does it run in your family ?
no. Its a long story, Quickest answer is go on google or youtube and look up the videos and tv interviews
Short answer, I always read English novels and did Eng Lit at A level. I wanted to write a novel in English about Sikh characters but the path to that lead to learning Gurmukhi and next thing I know I am writing Punjabi stories for the British Sikh kids who don't want to read about the pind..it began from there
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I'm only reading punjabi books at the moment
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Do you Consider yourself Indian or Punjabi?
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err...i can't stop the public from creating pages about me...but yeah moved out of Southall...:)