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Its all GuruJi.

Sorry SORY SORRY Pageeeeeee....! Lolz...! You can be a princess though if u want - JOKE....! If u r crying cuza da simran - i big u u up SOOO MUCH.... u must b such a blessed soul Pagee.... yo.... take it eezee man.... its not worth it..! You know this anyway.... just like the 1 mark in an exam can make the difference... maybe thats how it is in GuruJis realm.... that one time u got angry might ake the difference btween what happens to you. Nuff REspect to u pagee.... surprisingly, u've helped me in a way. Sum1 in a family used to have and still kinda dus have an anger thingy problem... so i know how it is.... but... pagee... im asking u as ur liccle sister being on the other side of anger isnt nice. Infact 4 me its the most uncomfortable plae to be in. More than u an possibly imagine. Pagee... take ur iniplayer or walkan or sumthing yeah wid ur favourite Kirtan on yeah... and just b absorbed in it at work orskool or woteva...! I neva used 2 get along wid ma mum.... i ean NEVA..... i used to be the MOUTHIEST gal u cud eva meet..... but u know its madew me learn a lot bouut things... and i luk back and think its not worth it. It tuk a really big thing to happen in my family to realise how precioous evri1 is... specially ma mum. All i can say to u is realise and open ur eyes quickly..... Fateh

u wer taught right den. 8)

i'll just wait for that day forst.... and it will come!

Guru Gubind Singh Ji Maharaj said that all his Sikh will be "purey - likhey".......(educated) Fateh.

its all kaljug geeeeeezaaaaa....!

wwwwwwoooooooooooooooooowwwwwwwwwww... gwan jiiii.....! Im biggin u up man. Well said sis. Sum1 very wise sed to me u can either be the Princess at the throne under Guru JIs feet... or follow ur frineds like sheep...! VAHEGURU JI KA KHALSA... VAHEGURU JI KE FATEH...!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

mmm... im scare to listen to it.

Im 15 okay I was da gal wearing da latest clothes with they nicest and most poular gal... the whole works.. a typical yr11 gal from a mashed up skool yeah.. da gals gigging and what not and da guys (and gals) wid da spliffs behind the 6th form blocks at and flats... I was ur average typicals asian gal... used to go round thinking i was a Sikh... yeah man.. show off the shiney gold Khanda on a black peice of thread round ma neck... probably lukin like a slappa... and sum of the stuff i did was pretty bad anyway. Nobody eva sed to e i cant stop eating meat or stop doing my eyebrows....etc..... I was brought into SIkhi quite interestingly. Sikhi doesnt just say to stop doing this and that just like dat. Behind every explanation is Sikhi there is a reason. BEHIND EVERY SINGLE ONE. Sumtimes now wen ma mates r going out... i rem da buzz i used to get ont he danclefloor yeah... the fit dhol playa etcc... now i think how much those pll or missing ouut. I know now im Guru Jis daughter... and 100% will be this summa. In replacement of the drinking gig scene.. i got the most blissful scene in the world - Sangat. In replacemnet of the "buzz on da dancefloor" i got so much joy from my Paaht. Everything becomes squeeky simple and honest and true. ALl my reasons for the questions in my head were answered. Yeah it stopped me from goin out wid ma m8z... but wen i tuk that 1 step towards the direction of God... thngs start to change. You have to take that leap. Just think for once.... u knwo what this is sumthing man....! Ppl can be like dat "24/7" cus dey got faith. You got to have the right company yo. If ur friends are gona b going clubbing and stuff - so r u innt. If ur friends are also into religion - so will u be. Your SANGAT is the most important thing in the world. I learnt the hardest way... in my eyes anyway. Your sangat will bring u doubnt in ur mind ji. Like i sed.. im 15 yeah, and its cus of Sangat that i stay in tact. If it wasnt fo that id fall. Path is sharper than the edge of a sword and thinner than a peice of hair.... u cant afford to have BAD sangat. Fateh.

parents dont teach da kids. true though init.

thats gud ya know... its nice having stuff like dat on the site....!

all u goto dois nxt time u know suming is gna get u vexed THINK OF THE CONSEQUENCES which is where most ppl lack... Sumitmesif ive been angered about 1 thing... all the liccle things bug me... it became a habbit for me. Now what i do is question myself. before so much "ukher" (attitude) used to come outta me i used 2 b the biggest B@"CH in the world... to mosta my family an sum m8z. You gotto realise theres more to ppl around u. I went to skool one day and i was looking at all the classes cus u can see dem from the playground. Every1 was working and i was walking to class.... i thougt to myself besides my own world...every single person lives in their world... 99% of the time they r thinking about suming else rather than there work ... got streesses from home or elsewhere....! Every1 u walk past in the street sit past in the bus... is thinking about suming in their life... sum issue or nuva is making them unhappy... and then i realised my slefish and ugly self... i didnt wana b the person i was anymore. All the dramas at home and skool - i though i had it the worst - ofcourse that was bull. You have to learn to repress. When ur angry question it - is it even worth it???? Not 4 u.... but 4 the otha person... mot only is t a sin to b angered in u... but to get sum1 else angry isnt dat worse???? When u said u were crying... was it cuz of da Simran? or was it cuz u had jus been upset? Sum1 sed to me buy a box of tic tacs - and evrytime u get angry eat one tic tac.... i got thru the whole box in less dan a week and i realised how bad i had been. It might take sumthing big or sumthing small to make u realise... veerji, stay on the path or just do Mool Mantar eveyday to help u get ova ur anger intensity... worked 4 me. Just wen u get a spare minuete or 2.... say it ith your heart FULLY man... CRY OUT yo.... u aa Princess rem.... You just gotto open your eyes wider...in that u can understand how.. i know i havnt been to specific...its cuz its different for everyone init. Dont concentrate too much on the technique sis... and theres no need to do it in the dark.... its even better if ur sitting doing it with the sun shining on ur face.... BE STRONG... its kalyug coming into the oom wen u get angry... dont kalyug win sis... be string man... u GuruJi's DAUGHTER... dont get angry ova things.... u goto go out in this world strong and tough.... be strong and dont get trampled ova.. but dont become too strong in that u start tellin everi1 off like... VAHEGURU Simran is the best medicine in theworld.... everyday just take 5 mins out of ur day to do Simran. JUST 5 mins. Out of 12 hours... u can take ou 5 mins cant u???? Just out of love... and after time... u will see da difference. PROMISE. Fateh

Mmmm..... hard one... or maybe not. Is sum1 causes anger in you...not only must you ask God to forgive u... u must ask God to forgive them for any actins and thoughts they have for causing anger or anyfin.... Even though most fail... i know i have.... its a test isnt it?

Lolz - incase u cudnt tell im laughing...! That was a kool one RK...! VKVF

thanx soulja....

lolzzzzzzzzzzz Neo.... I duno... no exact date knida thing - im in dat place where all the thoughts are battling each otha out.... even though i know i defo will, i just dont kow yet. I dont know hot to be sure... even though i know i will... im scared of taking that leap. Sum1 sed 2 e dat afta u tek Amrit... everything that happens 2 u is God's command. Even though it already is it is for sure now. mmmmmmmmmmm.... im scared thow still....! CONGRATS to u thow pagee.... wish u the best path. Hopefully... these summa holidays init. And khalsa soulja.... big u up... u have helped e in the past aswell yeh with a lot so THANKUUU...! Nuff respec 2 u pagee... do u feel different? u prob say yeah - the obvious yeh - but how did u feel coing out of the ceremony... im sorry if that was a personal question. u dont have 2 answer...

oooooooooooooooooohhhh.... i remember this topic - im sure this has been on b4?!?!?! 1) I thik its wrong but cus of the danger at these clubs especially for sikh gals. So much kaljug out der - specilly in da clubs. and 2) Be careful Simi penji - dnt eva go to these places alone... even then it is not safe!!! 3) CONGRATS to Neo. I hope to take Arit this summa... im a liccle scared - can i ask u... r u? Im only 15 yeah... im scared..... How do u feel?

You know when u cry... your soul is so hungry to be with God - that is all its desire... and when your soul is so strong in the love of God (when u listen and sing open heartledly and let the sounds in) your soul is crying in infinate praise for Them.

Rem - The Male Sants have wives u know - soul is 1 - etc.... I dont mean its beause of the male.... what i htink is that whe 2 ppl get married there soul is 1 and God see's them as 1.... so if the husband is spiritualy high so will da wife be... and VICE VERSA...!

See, us women like 2 let u think that u go thru more struggles...!!! All part of the control...! As 4 the complaining - u know we r training u ...! Muwhahahahhaaaaaaaaaaaaaa... Lolzzzz

That wuz WIKID...!!!!!!!!!!

shes right

Oil ur hair b4 u wash it - properly rub it in yeah- and they will soon stop. Remember it wont happen overnight but it will soon work so dats 1 solution. and be honest to yourself - y r u cutting it? I was iven sum gr8 advice... just follow the path of GuruJi as much as u can yeah and will follow. ANd trust me it will. In time i garuntee u wont even want to... BUT... just follow the path in EVERY WAY U CAN...!!!!!!! The rest will happen. DOnt think i cant do this or i cant do that.... just do wot u can and get on with it!!!! If u want to follow the path as much as u say u do.... u will follow this path truley and these things will become minor. They say that the path is sharper than a sword and thinner than 1 strand of hair!!!! Just stay on this path and be on it STRONG - and the rest will come.

you decide to stick to this path yeah... u know... ull be the DIAMOND of da family...! Nuff REspect 2 uuuuu...!!! Stand out like a TRUE Khalsa... and soon ppl wont even have the guts to say anything about you or your concerns...!!!!!!!!!! Be proud - youve been in a SIKH family - this is your chance... cherish it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Look deep within in yourself and you'll see the answers are there. Your family will learn to change in time. You take this path paggee... trruuuuust meee yeah... IT ALL GUD...!!!!!!! VKVFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFf

u know wot - IM IN DA EXACT SAME BOAT AS U...!!!!!! Nearly amritshak hope 2 b soon!!!! My m8z r totally wasted i tell u straight. Thin is im da only daughter in da house and got brothers so even if i wanted to gigs and stuff - i wudnt b aloud!!!!! You know wot... just do an Ardas yeah... plz God help me find the RIGHT company!!!!! You just gotto apply your ways into ur life yeah - and ull be confident in where u have been in da past and where and wot u do from today on!!! Hope this helpz u. Vaheguru JI Ka Khalsa... Vaheguru Ji Ke Fateh -rem, lifes a big TEST!!!!!!