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awww... thanks for helping me out.... Thing is last year was my first yr in uni, and i admit, i din't study that much..... thats why this year i wanted it to be different, and actually prove to myself that i wasn't dumb.... and i'm in the sciences.... And i failed my physics midterm which i got back yesterday... i don't get it, i mean i worked on all the hard problems in the textbook and the practice midterm and it seemed ok, and then it seems like i completely blanked out on the midterm, i mean for the amount of time that i put in, my mark reflects nothin of that sort.... And it's not easy takin home these marks to my parents, they jus think that i'm not studying.... I've changed my studying habits like sooo many times, but i don't know what works for me..... all i know is that if i have someone that talks concepts and ideas over with me, it tends to stay better, otherwise i only absorb like 50% of the info..... but no ones willing to sit and work with me, all my friends are busy wit their school work and stuff and my parents r too busy watchin tv.... it bites... cuz i have a goal that i want to achieve, but i can't because my stupid marks are gettin in the way.... I thought that if one puts in the hours hard core, they'll get somethin out, but i guess that jus means i'm an anomaly

I finally have accepted the fact that I'm stupid.... no matter what i do, or study or wuteva, my marks in uni suck!!!...... Last year I admit I din't study as much as i could, but this year, i've been working my butt off and i'm still pretty much in the failing criteria which is like completely ticking me off.... :x I don't know what to do, i feel like i'm just lost and an idiot and nuttin is gonna work for me..... I've finally lost the Miss ~Cj~ Kaur touch here..... :shock: I've been doing my paath too in the mornings to help me focus, but nuttin seems to be working.... i'm just plain stupid!!!! *sniff, sniff*

This is aimed to little sis Kaur, I understand your mindset that u don't want to make the wrong move by doing something that may be against what the Guru Ji's says and what ur parents say... However luv, it might happen to u unexpectedly, when one friend of yours, a guy obviously, becomes a little extra special compared to the rest, and it'll be completely out of the blue.... now what are you going to do to prevent it, not associate with guys at all, luv, we live in a world where we have to work with everyone around us, including guys, so there's no way out of it, and it's not a bad thing, as long as the person has the same values and similar goals as you do..... So, chill out for a bit, because neither do u, nor i nor anyone else knows who, how and why we're going to marry the person we do.... I'm 19 eh, so i'm not looking, but i know there are guys around me that would love to go out with me, and i think one's kinda in a serious mode, however, I know what i want and what my values are, therefore i know that these guys aren't for me, so I'm still friends with them and don't encourage them. But one day i have a feeling, that i'll meet someone else, as a friend, but someone who'll become my best friend and would be able to relate to me and my family.... and that's the way i think it should be.... because then it's based on something more than physical appearance or anything of that sort, but on an understanding and it'll happen out of the blue..... thas the beauty of it. My parents i know want the best for me, and it's not like they're going to bring home a bum off the street to marry me off to, but there is a generation gap between us, and my mom and i are best friends, but she doesn't realise what i think makes a good husband, and she talks about all this other stuff about families and how they should match each other, but then again, what if the individuals don't match, they're likes and dislikes...(but don't marry someone w/100% same likes as u, thas borin....)... it's hard sometimes for parents to judge our taste, because they don't stop to ask us what is important in our lives, they assume quite a bit, and it's all in best interest of us, but sometimes mistakes do occur.... and i've seen it within my family....so it's upto you how well u believe ur family knows u.... In the end it's ur choice of how u want to go around it, and u r still quite young.... but i'm just sayin Sis, that u need to relax a bit and let destiny take it's own course, cuz u neva know where u'll end up.....

Very funny, very very very funny.... can't u see i'm laughin my head off here..... Mate w/out we're toast!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I think it's all illusion stuff, jus like david copperfield, nuttin real, jus foolin the ppl....

Lol.... Kismat.... that's my sister!!!!!

JSB ji... I don't think so.... I'm not one for peer pressure as it is.... Anyways... Narsingha Bhaji... was wondering, u keep mentioning that such and such site will have the information, wait for it, but when r these websites going to be up and running? I'd like to know the information as soon as possible.....

Very funny!.... I don't think i'm at that stage where I'd put myself up for experiment like that!

fine fine... whateva... thas just my opinion...

I know, but it still would be fun to see the Muslims try to come up with some sadistic reason why it works.... I know i'm kinda sad...

But still.... it is medically proven that one goes into shock at the site of blood and to me that's still pretty bad....

Interesting... would there be any website where khalsa Soulja's questions could be posted, cuz it would be very interesting to see what type of responses one would get to these questions...

Out of curiosity, I was wondering what most ppl think of Ismaili muslims. as most sunni's and shia's don't really consider them muslim... and ismaili's believe they are true because they still have the lineage of Imams... so what does everyone out there think?

The way that Imam's work is as such... When the prophet was about to die he named someone as the next Prophet in line... and he also mentioned that the Imam"ship" would go to the person who the Imam himself would name, not necessarily the first born... however, most firstborn sons felt that they would always become the next Imam, but the split between Shia's and Sunni's came intially rite after Mohammed past away... but the split between Shia's and Ismaili occurred later on... and hence Ismaili's still have an Imam to date... The splits usually occurred when the first born thought he'd get it and had a following of ppl, but the Imam would name the younger son...

How would it not suffer.... it's alive and it sees itself bleeding, yes there would be no pain, but the shock of it!!! I mean, imagine urself, in no pain but seeing blood everywhere coming from you .... it's horrible....

Kewl... thanks...went to the site... and it doesn't seem as harsh as halal, as the animal is killed instantaneously... and althought halal may have it's compassionate rules and all, it's still horrendous to have an animal bleed profusely as such while it's still alive...

Look i'm sorry if i sound ignorant, but I am... I'm asking u both because I know ur very knowledgable.... so plz.... And Chandi is one of Durga Maa's 9 forms...

Hmmm... interesting... so as the third panth, we abolish the old, yet in some ways follow something similar to it... and With Chandi, isn't that to do with Hinduism? I'm confused, there's so much overlap it seems between sikhism and other religions, yet aren't we supposed to be individualistic?

Neo Ji.... wow... i've neva seen u sooo into posts like recently, I've been going through some stuff and u've come our very passionate... everything ok?

Lalleshvari Ji, then what is the underlying difference between jhatka and halal.... why would Guru Ji allow one but not the other, if the pain factor is the same...(isn't the reason for halal is to make it pure through prayers???) please enlighten..

My papa and I were having a big discussion on this once we heard what happened... Edmonton's heading in the wrong direction and at a faster rate than surrey is... horrible stuff indeed.... but the stupid community is far more involved with amassing wealth for the Gurdhwara (which they eat themselves) then about the youth , there is no guidance here anymore... I seriously feel like going up on stage at the Gurdhwara and blasting everyone for the direction they have shown the youngsters.... to them all that matters is money any way to get it and spend it... I happened to know the third guy that they're looking for, not personally, but as a youth, he was part of the Gurdhwara sewa committee... not a gursikh mind u.... these chaps are all messed up big time.. PLEASE NOTE: there was a typo that was drawn to my attention... the third guy isn't a gursikh and I meant not... not now.... sorry ppl....

but do u know what kills me... sometimes I think we create such situations for ourselves... Listen to this... Paul Martin has been questioned about whether his leadership will go through or not as the members of the liberal party are mainly sikhs and chinese... that does not represent canada equally... the role of the leadership is to ensure that majority and minority are happy, but if the minority gains control then that's the tyranny of the minority on the majority from which stems hatred... we have to learn to cooperate with everyone.... Also brown munday are bad at creating stupid images of the east indian community... today 2 guys were caught in Edmonton for credit card frauds and other things like that... 3rds on a canada wide wanted list... stupid stupid ppl...

Damn, thas soooo harsh, what would be the point in playing in such a game if one was receiving so much abuse... even if one loves playing, there would be a threshold of how much one could take of it....

Very funny JSB ji... very funny....

perhaps I did, it's just that I don't watch too many soccer games and when I do, it's on tv and u can't tell what ppl are screaming... here at hockey games most ppl root for the player that's got the puck..