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i know the akj ones in uk do it.

I am not akj

im pro taksaal, but im not taksali either..

im not a part of jathas..

i'll take it out if u want me to, sorry to get u upset

I don't know. I think love marriages are a bad idea because you can't commit adultery before marriage. It is a bujjar kurehit. Not that those people might.. but also a love marriage just brings more kaam into you, which we are trying to get rid of..

Heres an example:

1. Love marriages are due to kaam, because when people tell each other they like each other, its because they are in love with their image, beauty, not their soul..

2. Why do love relationships start? because of kaam

***Look at our gurus, they did not get married with love marriages, they adopted the style of arranged marriage, did they not???

What is greater? following our gurus, or following our mind...

These days people adopt something we know as manmat, because most of us are manmukhs. I, for one, am a manmukh. We listen to our mind, not our guru entirely. If we were real sikhs of the guru, some of us would not be on the computer, instead we would be doing naam jap.

The whole idea of love marriage is considered okay by the followers of www.sikhnet.com or i don't know just plain old regular people. I don't really have anything against a love marriage,

if people are concerned that they'll get married to someone that they might hate, they should do ardaas to guru ji,

heck start doing paath now, and we might get to leave the world and unite with god. (of course i do not practice this line))

The real reason of a marriage of gursikhs is for them to remember god, so it can become an easier task, then they are one soul in 2 bodies

But the majority that do it are situated in the United Kingdom. In canada, there are very few. Although this problem may truly exist in calgary...

yes i know some bibian in canada do it, but not the akj ones for sure, or the damdami taksaal ones...

it is some other ones.. i will not mention there names; for nindya can be very bad..

dont know, some ppl say how can u believe in the teachings of the gurus, if u havent taken amrit,,

ntohingrite now, im brainwashed

i know that guru ji said rehit bina no sikh kahavai.... but how many of us are really keeping this rehit?

@ <a href="http://www.dasmeshdarbar.com/">Click here</a>!

read khalsa jeevan.

Anyways i know my views seem talabanistic, but in our very own shromani gurdwara parbhandak commitee rehit maryada it says a sikh is one who believes in the baptism bequeated by guru ji,

and that is to say, how can u say ur a sikh, if you have not taken amrit..

wjkk wjkf

*Note this is a part of the rehit maryada:

Chapter I : The Definition of Sikh

Ariticle 1

Any human being who faithfully believes in...

One Immortal Being,

Ten Gurus, from Guru Nanak Dev to Guru Gobind Singh,

The Guru Granth Sahib,

The utterances and teachings of the ten Gurus and

The baptism bequeathed by the tenth Guru, and who does not owe allegiance to any other religion, is a Sikh.

What will cutting contact with them do? Nothing really, they will think they are being avoided, this might hurt their feelings if you know of any kurehit committing people..

But you know what, this issue can be resolved, someone should explain to them what real beauty is, and how it is stronger then artificial beauty..

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sister bhenji he is just confusing u more, i suggest you go to real sikhi websites..

www.damdamitaksal.com, it was started by guru ji(the instituition)

also www.gursikhijeevan.com

waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

apology accepted

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i know what ur doing, adding ur posts in between, stop being jalak and tricky

do you know what gurbanee says about cleverness

its says

chatraee syanpa kitai kaam na aeeyai...

that means cleverness and CUNNINGNESS IS Of no use

go ahead have ur laughs, for an adult u are pretty lame

RESPECT 8)

Get your facts straight. I'm not akj. Neither do I support most of their beliefs. All i can say is they are gursikhs. And you should respect them.

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http://www.sikhitothemax.com/page.asp?ShabadID=2130

please click above link

if your lost do simran

your still saying your a sikh, but a sikh is when you take amrit, otherwise you are a punjabi

i know my approach to explain things is wrong, it is not done with pyaar, but done accordingly as such that it hurts;

sorry bhainji, i hope u just realize that i am just trying to help you

Do simran, do ardaas to guru sahib ji, take a hukamnama

this is what i also said, did i not

Ask someone else for advice, im just a kid,

wjkk wjkf

i told u to look at the links, i told you to take amrit and abide by the rehit maryada, i didnt say take amrit and fool around, drink, cut ur hair, do ur eyebrows, and etc.

Amrit is the solution

right now i thikn u should do ardaas to guru ji, because only he can provide you with any answes

also i suggest you take a hukamnama..

Another thing you said you are a sikh

how can u call urself a sikh if you are not following this way of life

your just a punjabi, this is the truth

bhul chuk maaf

also check out www.gursikhijeevan.com

Well first of all you have deceived the guru by drinking. You are not a sikh yet. So its all good.

YOU can become a sikh, if you take amrit

pritham rehit yehai jaan khandey ki pahul shakai-- take khanda da batta amrit- Guru gobind singh ji

secondly,

taking amrit is a way to salvation

when u take amrit follow the rehit

rehit bina no sikh kahavai- guru gobind singh ji

here are some good links for sikh rehit maryada

www.damdamitaksal.com

also visit www.tapoban.org for some great literature..

16 people have viewed this. I know most of you are from the Uk. you should take action, or do active parchaar if you are kesadhari. It is important to be kesadhari, while you are amritdhari.

this is not nindya, this is just awareness which you are already aware of.

hey they are still not sikhs

just because they follow dhan dhan sri guru nanak dev ji

they are almost like radhaswamis, who believe that salvation can be attained without taking amirt

this is a very good petition