I don't know. I think love marriages are a bad idea because you can't commit adultery before marriage. It is a bujjar kurehit. Not that those people might.. but also a love marriage just brings more kaam into you, which we are trying to get rid of..
Heres an example:
1. Love marriages are due to kaam, because when people tell each other they like each other, its because they are in love with their image, beauty, not their soul..
2. Why do love relationships start? because of kaam
***Look at our gurus, they did not get married with love marriages, they adopted the style of arranged marriage, did they not???
What is greater? following our gurus, or following our mind...
These days people adopt something we know as manmat, because most of us are manmukhs. I, for one, am a manmukh. We listen to our mind, not our guru entirely. If we were real sikhs of the guru, some of us would not be on the computer, instead we would be doing naam jap.
The whole idea of love marriage is considered okay by the followers of www.sikhnet.com or i don't know just plain old regular people. I don't really have anything against a love marriage,
if people are concerned that they'll get married to someone that they might hate, they should do ardaas to guru ji,
heck start doing paath now, and we might get to leave the world and unite with god. (of course i do not practice this line))
The real reason of a marriage of gursikhs is for them to remember god, so it can become an easier task, then they are one soul in 2 bodies