True Love - another forwarded email

[Mehtab Singh]

It was a busy morning, approximately 8:30 am, when an elderly

gentleman in his 80's, arrived to have stitches removed from his

thumb.

He stated that he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.

I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be

over an hour before someone would be able to see him.

I saw him looking at his watch and decided, since I was not busy with

another patient, I would evaluate his wound.

On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got

the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.

While taking care of his wound, we began to engage in conversation.

I asked him if he had a doctor's appointment this morning, as he was

in such a hurry.

The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to

eat breakfast with his wife.

I then inquired as to her health.

He told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a

victim of Alzheimer's disease.

As we talked, and I finished dressing his wound, I asked if she would

be worried if he was a bit late.

He replied that she no longer knew who he was; that she had not

recognized him in five years now.

I was surprised, and asked him.

"And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you

are?"

He smiled as he patted my hand and said:

"She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is."

I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm, and

thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life."

True love is neither physical, nor romantic.

True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and

will not be.

Just had to share it with you all.

Oh, by the way, peace is seeing a sunset and knowing who to thank.

"The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of

everything; they just make the best of everything that comes along

their way."