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I will have no problems bowing to my wife. A new post will be started regarding single Gurbani tuks. Waheguru jee kaa Khalsa Waheguru jee kee Fateh

I think we are getting off-topic. We should move out of this thread. Waheguru jee kaa Khalsa Waheguru jee kee Fateh

Sister, a Gurmukh male will never expect his wife to bow to him, but a Gurmukh female will do so, out of respect for her husband. It is similar to a Gurmukh female will not expect her son/daughter to bow to her, but her children will bow to her, out of respect. It is pretty simple to understand. Have you heard of the time travel sakhi, of a Gurmukh woman during the times of third master? Waheguru jee kaa Khalsa Waheguru jee kee Fateh

The following two arths are not opposite to each other, according to me. This is a teaching for a woman. ਕਹੁ ਨਾਨਕ ਜਿਨਿ ਪ੍ਰਿਉ ਪਰਮੇਸਰੁ ਕਰਿ ਜਾਨਿਆ ॥ कहु नानक जिनि प्रिउ परमेसरु करि जानिआ ॥ Kaho Nānak jin pari▫o parmesar kar jāni▫ā. Says Nanak, she who looks upon the husband as a lord Or This is a teaching for all mankind ਕਹੁ ਨਾਨਕ ਜਿਨਿ ਪ੍ਰਿਉ ਪਰਮੇਸਰੁ ਕਰਿ ਜਾਨਿਆ ॥ कहु नानक जिनि प्रिउ परमेसरु करि जानिआ ॥ Kaho Nānak jin pari▫o parmesar kar jāni▫ā. Says Nanak, she who looks upon the Transcendent Lord as her Husband, It is very similar to the following tuk. It can have two arths - One is a blessing to a son by his mother and the other, a blessing by God to all humans. They don't contradict each other. ਪੂਤਾ ਮਾਤਾ ਕੀ ਆਸੀਸ ॥ In fact, this is the beauty of Gurbani. It is able to talk to so many people with different levels, through the same verse. Do you have any more examples of tuks which cannot stand alone? Waheguru jee kaa Khalsa Waheguru jee kee Fateh

But the above tuk has 'ਜੇ ' in it, which means if. For example, does the following statement in English make sense. "If you are late to work and you do not perform" Any person who has basic English skills will know that it is an incomplete sentence. It is different from the below tuk. Awdysu iqsY Awdysu ] Also, I have said many Gurbani tuks can stand alone. I did not say all of them, but I am open to the possibility that they can stand alone. Do you have any more examples? Waheguru jee kaa Khalsa Waheguru jee kee Fateh

I greatly appreciate your efforts in fighting for Sikh rights (even though you are a non-Indian in ancestry). You should be a role model for many Sikhs around the globe. All Sikh females should look upon you for inspiration. Once again, thanks a lot for whatever you have done for the khalsa panth. Waheguru jee kaa Khalsa Waheguru jee kee Fateh

Good points bro. But just want to add other sects which were started during the times of tenth master or before - Sevapanthi, Udhasi, Nirmalay (branches into Rara Sahib, Nanaksar, etc), etc. Waheguru jee kaa Khalsa Waheguru jee kee Fateh

I had made comments and asked certain questions to you, but you did not reply to them. Bro, I think you are asking too many questions. How about we tackle one question completely, before we move on to other questions? At the end of the day, it's your choice. Peace

Can you please provide examples of single Gurbani tuks which can be used to justify any anti-Gurmat activities? I am curious to know. Many Gurbani tuks can stand alone on their own without context and uthanka. Like for example, the below tuk only has three words in it, but can stand alone. Awdysu iqsY Awdysu ] If you take the context and uthanka into picture, then too it makes sense. It might have many more arths. Waheguru jee kaa Khalsa Waheguru jee kee Fateh

Bro, what do you suggest? Remember I am just a low-level jagayasu. Waheguru jee kaa Khalsa Waheguru jee kee Fateh

I never said women should only wear salwaar kameez. I said loose clothes, which could mean - loose jeans/pants and shirts/t-shirts. Men must also cover themselves with loose clothes and not expose their bodies. Even, they will be guilty if they cause vikaars in the minds of females. I never denied that. Waheguru jee kaa Khalsa Waheguru jee kee Fateh

Bro, I am a vikaree banda, what do you want me to call myself? a sant? - There is no ninda or ustat in it. A vikaree is a vikaree as a dog is a dog. Waheguru jee kaa Khalsa Waheguru jee kee Fateh

If you don't want me to reply to your posts, then I won't do so. Bhul Chuk Maaf. Waheguru jee kaa Khalsa Waheguru jee kee Fateh

I am sorry if I offended anyone or hurt someone's feelings. I am just trying to learn about Gurmat as much as I can. If someone does not want to adhere to the orthodox Sikh beliefs, then I am fine with it (on a personal level). Waheguru jee kaa Khalsa Waheguru jee kee Fateh

Were you able to confirm this information? Thanks. Waheguru jee kaa Khalsa Waheguru jee kee Fateh

You cannot compare a society where women are dressed modestly (from a male perspective)........... I hope you read the entire sentence. I am talking from the perspective of a male. Waheguru jee kaa Khalsa Waheguru jee kee Fateh

Evidence that animals are into oral sex too. http://www.thefrisky.com/photos/9-animals-who-are-into-oral-sex/ I am almost sure that they are not doing this for procreation, but rather for pleasure. I do agree with a bit you said about spouse. I think most animals don't have a concept of spouse in their minds. Therefore, we are different from animals in two ways - one, we have a concept of spouse and the other, we can choose to engage in sexual activity, only for procreation. Khalsa jee, a person like me should try to raise above theses animal instincts. Waheguru jee kaa Khalsa Waheguru jee kee Fateh

Sister, I think you need to relax. Waheguru jee kaa Khalsa Waheguru jee kee Fateh

Sister, I am talking from the perspective of a male. Did you actually read the first post on this topic or have you just started hating me? I completely agree that men must also dress appropriately with covered and loose clothing. They must not show their muscles, chest, etc. But I have no idea (in details) what women look at when they see men, as I am straight. I cannot talk in details about those matters. I am affected by half-naked women not half-naked men. Waheguru jee kaa Khalsa Waheguru jee kee Fateh

Please talk to Gyani Kulwant Singh jee Habri about it as I heard the above mentioned arth in his katha. Most likely, he has more Gurmat knowledge than you. Waheguru jee kaa Khalsa Waheguru jee kee Fateh

Three more points regarding women. Firstly, Satguru Sri Guru Nanak Dev jee Maharaaj decides to form his body inside a woman. Again, this gave honor to the women. He could have just appeared like Bhagwan Narsingh jee Maharaaj. Secondly, the first woman to have darshan (also kirpa) of Satguru Sri Guru Nanak dev jee Maharaaj was a woman, named Mata Daulatan. Thirdly, the first Sikh is also a woman, which is Mata Bebe Nankee jee. Great uplifting of women by Satguru jee from very low levels to great heights. Dhan Dhan Satguru Sri Guru Nanak Dev jee Maharaaj.

Evidence to show where men stare at, when they look at women. http://guardianlv.co...womens-breasts/ You tell me brother, if a woman is dressed in loose clothes (no sexual body parts revealed), what are the chances that a man will keep staring at her as compared to a woman who has tight clothes on. I think, we all know the answer. Again, I am talking from the perspective of a jagayasu (low level one). Waheguru jee kaa Khalsa Waheguru jee kee Fateh

Evidence to show where men stare at, when they look at women. http://guardianlv.com/2013/10/study-confirms-that-men-stare-at-womens-breasts/ You tell me brother, if a woman is dressed in loose clothes (no sexual body parts revealed), what are the chances that a man will keep staring at her as compared to a woman who has tight clothes on. I think, we all know the answer. Again, I am talking from the perspective of a jagayasu (low level one). Waheguru jee kaa Khalsa Waheguru jee kee Fateh

More scientific evidence linking the color red to sex. "Social psychologists with an evolutionary bent are in love with the color red. Women wear red, according to this view, as a sexual signal to attract men (e.g. Elliot et al., 2012). In non-human primates, females show they’re ready to mate by displaying red on their bodies, including face, chest, or genitalia." [1] [1] - https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201212/is-red-the-color-sexual-desire Obviously, I understand, more research needs to be done in this field. But, Gurmat is the most advanced science. Easy way out - Follow Gurmat blindly. One day or the other, science will prove a lot of things written in Gurbani. Waheguru jee kaa Khalsa Waheguru jee kee Fateh

Color definitely has an impact on human mind. Please read the information in the link below. http://www.colour-affects.co.uk/psychological-properties-of-colours Waheguru jee kaa Khalsa Waheguru jee kee Fateh