Rock

56 minutes ago, CdnSikhGirl said:

and yes even Sants

50 minutes ago, CdnSikhGirl said:

yes even Sants

On 2015-09-07 at 5:58 AM, paapiman said:

Does anyone know, which mantar is used as a Sampat, while doing a Sri Sampat Paath of SDGSJ? Is it the Gayetri mantar?

Do you plan to do a sampat path of SDGSJ ?  I have never heard of it.

The Guru Gayatri Mantra ( Gobinde Mukande Udarey Aparey ...), The first pauri of Chandi Di Var ,  and three other mangalchar sampats were used by Baba Nand Singh Ji in a sampat path of Guru Granth Sahib JI  which he completed in a year.

There is one group who believes that these enitities do exist in real life including shaheed singhs, devi, 33 crore devta, ghosts, pisach, 52 beer, 9 crore durga, etc etc.  I have heard & read enough anecdotes in my life to come to a conclusion that these entities can be real. Universe is bigger than we imagine. If something is mentioned in Gurbani, it probably did happen in actuality.

There is another group like Bhagat who focus on the deeper symbolically message. He is also right.

Choose whichever approach you like, end of all debates.

This forum has the blessings of Sant Ishar Singh Ji Maharaj Rara Sahib wale (n3o knows ) & many other mahapurkhs of Sikh, Buddhist & Hindu traditions.

I have never seen so much praise of Mahapurakhs on any other forum. This is the key to success. Whoever shall bow down to Saints will succeed here & after life.

About 11 years ago, a Sikh forum was a great phenomenon. People were excited to share with their fellow brothers. Msn was just on the rise & being able to talk to strangers was exciting. Everything was new, technology was new, internet was new.  The value was high because the resources were scarce. And people would find rare gems.

I want to thank kam1825 for their initial efforts in the early days for uploading kathas keertan of various sampardas. I got exposed to many resources through online forums like gurmatveechar.com . 

The original generation who was enthusiastic has gotten older now & busy with other duties of family life. I was a teenager back then & super excited about stuff. As your thinking matures you want to write less and less, and only write when really important. Most importantly engaging in debates and arguments can really disturb state of mind. So for most people it is better to be silent.

I don't think the teenagers or others are interested in these things anymore. They have other things to take their time like instagram, snapchat etc.  I wonder whats the new things these days ?

These days we have many resources on Sikhism like youtube, websites. Thus, forums are not much needed.

Also, I feel that mostly people who are in the academic field or in positions of teaching or professors or PHds, use these forums to practise their writing or debating skills or try to intimidate each other lol.  I wonder where are those big guys like Javanmard, is he still a muslim ? What happened to Freed...he was the image hub.

The truth is over time as we mature our interests shift or we get busy with other responsibilities. 

But you def see some gems here and there & learn some interesting concepts.

17 minutes ago, CdnSikhGirl said:

In reality there is only ONEness.  But from our perspective, everything is separate. And obviously we need to experience separateness as part of our *collective* spiritual evolution. I am speaking from our perspective and not from the other side, where only exists ONEness.  My point is that sex is much more than physical. And in some small sense, it's the closest thing we in this human state can compare to merging (and even merging is wrong word) with another entity.  You describe it as a drop in an ocean. But reality is, the drop has never actually left the ocean. We have just forgotten we were here.  In fact I do not identify myself with this body.  This is why I fight so hard to oppose anyone being limited by their physical body just because someone else says so.  Gender is seemingly a huge part of the illusion. But it IS illusion nonetheless.  Anyway, always approach intimacy with your spouse as a huge merging of energy between you and not just physical pleasure.  

  

ok good. I think I got my point across. Yeah obviously intimacy goes beyond the physical boundary no doubt.

5 hours ago, Sat1176 said:

LOL I think a bairagan is getting too hardcore. Lets just see how it goes.

Baba Sat Singh ji brings a bairagan home, spreads asana of deer skin, wear white chola & white turban and start samadhi. Whole family especially wife gets worried lol.

4 hours ago, Guest 4Compassion said:

Are you a Sikh?

Sorry I am not a Sikh hope that is ok with you sir.

2 hours ago, CdnSikhGirl said:

Because physical is not reality

Sure

2 hours ago, CdnSikhGirl said:

So what IS real then? Consciousness itself

Sure

2 hours ago, CdnSikhGirl said:

But in reality non-physical / energy is the base state of reality

Ok

2 hours ago, CdnSikhGirl said:

When two humans engage in intimacy their energy actually merges on a nonphysical level.

First of all I assume that by soul, consciousness & energy you mean the same thing. I like to call it atma and lets call it atma for this discussion.

I have no doubt that we are all atmas & all the above you said. But you have not explained how the atmas merge with each other ?

Is the merging temporary only during intimacy ?

What happens when the intimacy ends ?

What happens to merging when the couple breaks away or divorces ?

What happens to merging when one person dies ?

A mother is very intimate with her baby, esp during womb & breastfeeding. She gives her child unconditional love. Is her love for her child any less ? How come her soul does not merge with her daughter. How come her daughter needs a male soul to merge ?

My argument is that Atman is a drop from the Parmatma Ocean. Atman only merges with its source that is Parmatma.

Currently you are identifying yourself with Body & Mind.  The day you realize your soul/Atman you will become Parmatma. You will not need merging with Paramatma or another Atman.

In order to talk about these concepts of higher-consciousness in practical lives one must be realized or be an enlightened being. Merely book knowledge without experience is not enough imo.

Consciousness/Energy/Soul/Atma/Parmatma is everything & everywhere. It does not need any merging. If we are talking at that level then there is no way of disitinguishing one from another. And there is no such thing as sexual intimacy, love or emotions at that level. Nothing remains. Only Sat Chit Ananda Sarupa remains & that does not need any intimacy to take place.

But once you come down to lower consciousness yes intimacy of emotions, body, astral or ethereal or psyche does take place and leaves a psychic impression on each other.

But when you are talking about Souls or Atma there is no such things as merging of souls. Only merging of body, emotions, etheral/astral/mental bodies or psyche.

100% of us on this forum have not discovered Atma yet...so lets not throw big concepts of merging of Souls . Soul neither comes nor goes nor merge with any other soul. It only changes bodies due to ignorance or Agyanta.

22 minutes ago, Sat1176 said:

@Rock funny you should mention Sant Baba Nand Singh ji because recall now seeing a photo him in a similar position. Looks like his head has also dropped.

also in the following Samadhi pic Baba Ji is resting His head on Bairagan.  

@Sat1176  You can also try using a bairagan or something as a chin-rest to prevent your head from tilting forward.

Tundra basically is like a sleep but of deeper quality. I have not personally experienced it only heard that advanced teachers can help you recognize it.

@Raju   Can you elaborate on Tundra concept ? Have you personally experienced it. Thanks.

4 minutes ago, Guest Guest4Compassion said:

This should be a POSTER FOR THE WORLD to FOLLOW!!!!  Let the world learn COMPASSION!  Let there be Compassion, I say.

Compassion maketh man.

I wish, if only it was that easy. Compassion cannot be taught its a flower that blossoms within a pure heart. But yeah without compassion everything is useless.

My apologies the fonts did not come out properly when copying pasting. Hence the confusion.

On 2016-03-31 at 4:38 AM, Guest said:

 what does the jajja type letter in this word ਸਤ੍ਯ੍ਯਿੰ mean? 

22 hours ago, CdnSikhGirl said:

You are supposed to be two souls in one body. Merging with that other half of yourself is not wrong.

How can two souls ever merge with each other ?  It does not make sense to me. This seems like a romantic fairy tale concept. I can understand the merging of body, mind & emotions for enough support to carry on the duties of this world.

Guru Ji says when the husband dies & comes back as a Ghost, the wife runs away in fear ? Where is the love gone then ? What happened to the merging of souls.

( Imagine me saying this in a calm tone & a smile on my face. Don't get defensive lol )

12 hours ago, N30 S!NGH said:

very innocent compassion gesture from innocent child - spirit to spirit no bs just pure compassion. !!! :

This should be a poster for our Vegetarian Gang ;)

2 hours ago, dalsingh101 said:

What country did you grow up in, if you don't mind me asking? 

I grew up in India to be specific. Are you impressed by my taste in TV or just curious. And I am definitely not a Kaur. You won't be disappointed with Daredevil.

1 hour ago, CdnSikhGirl said:

 Our marriage is basically built on spirituality and not lust at all. 

3 hours ago, CdnSikhGirl said:

Intimacy is a normal part of relationship between two people who love each other. 

I did try watching it. It is dark complex lots of politics/strategy/drama ,hits on taboo stuff . But for me a lot was going on and it seemed slow. Everyone has unique tastes.

I  would recommend Band of Brothers or Daredevil Season 2 instead. I could never get myself to watch GOT I am not sure what all the hype is about. Similarly Walking Dead got boring real quick. I guess I have really high standard if I am going to waste my time on a TV show.

21 minutes ago, CdnSikhGirl said:

Husband and wife become one soul in two bodies.

ਏਕ ਜੋਤਿ ਹੈ ਸਤ ਚਿਤ ਆਨੰਦ ਰੂਪ ਔਰੁ ਦੋ ਮੂਰਤੀਆਂ ਹੈਂ ਜੀਵ ਈਸਰ, ਇਸਤ੍ਰੀ ਪਤੀ ਸੋ ਸਾਸਤ੍ਰੋਂ ਮੇਂ ਕਹਤੇ ਹੈਂ॥੩॥  

Also a deeper meaning is that One Jot is Sat Chit Ananda Saroop and two bodies are Jeev & Ishwar.

I do understand the love between husband & wife  but one thing I never understood is where does the love go when wife turns over 50 and the husband feels unsatisfied or frustrated because he cannot get his needs fulfilled. or even after 10 years the love between marriages fade away. Lust is a big part of man & woman love, I dont think it can be spiritual.

Men are also lustful.  This gives understanding of Charitars as well.

Guru Ji says "The lustful, lecherous man desires many women, and he never stops peeking into the homes of others.Day after day, he commits adultery again and again, and then he regrets his actions; he wastes away in misery and greed. ||3||"     Ang 672.

Kaamavanth Kaamee Bahu Naaree Par Grih Joh N Chookai ||Dhin Prath Karai Karai Pashhuthaapai Sog Lobh Mehi Sookai ||3||

ਕਾਮਵੰਤ ਕਾਮੀ ਬਹੁ ਨਾਰੀ ਪਰ ਗ੍ਰਿਹ ਜੋਹ ਨ ਚੂਕੈ ॥ਦਿਨ ਪ੍ਰਤਿ ਕਰੈ ਕਰੈ ਪਛੁਤਾਪੈ ਸੋਗ ਲੋਭ ਮਹਿ ਸੂਕੈ ॥੩॥

ਕਾਮਵੰਤ ਹੋ ਕਰ ਕਾਮ ਵਾ ਇਸਤ੍ਰੀਆਂ ਅਨੇਕੋਂ ਸਾਥ ਸਪਰਸ ਕਰਤਾ ਹੈ, ਤਾਂ ਵੀ ਪਰਾਏ ਘਰ ਅਰਥਾਤ ਪਰ ਇਸਤ੍ਰੀਓਂ ਕਾ (ਜੋਹ) ਦੇਖਣਾ ਇਸ ਸੇ ਨਹੀਂ (ਚੂਕੈ) ਹਟਤਾ ਹੈ॥ਇਹ ਜੀਵ ਦਿਨ ਦਿਨ ਪ੍ਰਤੀ ਭੋਗੋਂ ਕੋ ਭੋਗ ਕਰ ਕਰ ਕੇ ਪਸਚਾਤਾਪ ਕਰਤਾ ਹੈ ਔਰ ਲੋਭ ਮੋਹਿ ਆਦੀ ਵਿਕਾਰੋਂ ਮੇਂ ਸੁਕਤਾ ਜਾਤਾ ਹੈ ਵਾ ਲੋਭ ਮੋਹ ਇਸ ਕੇ ਰਿਦੇ ਮੇਂ ਸੁੰਕਤੇ ਅਰਥਾਤ ਫੈਲ ਜਾਤੇ ਹੈਂ॥੩॥

Chapter 12 was very inspiring.  Thanks for sharing link sat.  It's a simple but deep read and gets you going . 

The story of bamboo and elephant was a good one.

also the reading about living in present moment was good.

and death...