sexy_singh

"You can tell her she doesn't need to compete with other women because you think she's beautiful in her own unique way ... which woman in their right mind will not appreciate that type of love and guidance? " i know singhs who do just that. myself, im a shallow idjiot. maybe with time that will change. cant resist a beautiful face .. and i suspect makeup helps to get that impression. impressing others isnt such a bad thing. its often useful. anyway. i leave this one for the women folk. it doesnt matter what i say.

i dont think anyone is disputing that "fact" but surely the way to "freedom from all those social pressures" isnt the equal opposite pressure not to wear makeup at all. Where is the freedom in that?

singh, thats silly. as a male i can get turned on by anything, even pictures of aliens. makeup can make a difference, but if looking to be seduced i'll be seduced anyway, regardless of makeup. it should be my imperative to resist losing control of my senses. we arent animals right?

well said beast . whats wrong with leaving sikh women the freedom to decide what is appropriate? hang on, that doesnt mean we throw out all the boundaries because thats ideal. if i coloured my dhari, whats wrong with that? im still wearing my dhari right? if i was rolling around in mud, because god forbid life demanded that of me, would i have sinned or somethin? what if im working in the field and by the end of the day my dhari is covered in dust, would that be wrong? baring in mind, i wouldnt mind that affect as it might look cool. what if my kid has a birthday party and decided to sprinkle glow in the dark glitter on my dhari, would i get upset and tell it to stop. hmm, i prolly would tell it to stop. anyway, i respect ppl who decide not to wear makeup cuz they are comfortable with their body and dont care so much what others think about that, good for them. i dont think the others are being dismissive of such a person.

around about 30 minutes, which is where iam right now, he starts talking about old school singhs. and it really does make one wonder. man, they were so cool. before that i wasnt really moved by the propaganda. if ur gonna watch it, dont go by first impressions!

"get all her makeup stuff together and flush it down the toilet flush twice just to make sure and then do ardas" LOL! .. well done

that was amazing. if i were that way inclined, and i had friends i'd definitely forward this via email!

when ppl say things like this, and i could have written that whole post myself if u had asked me a few months ago, there is truth behind it, but hopefully none of you ppl who care get too disheartened. it really has no bearing on anything. what can come from it? nothin .. its just a rant. u see so many things that u dont like and it ovewhelms u, so then u go and write it all down to get it off ur chest. and then, u ask, now what? which is what gmustuk does at the end.l but its also irresponsible cuz it makes it sound like there is no hope or something. u've only listed all these perceived problems, blown them up and dressed them down. anyway, i could care less about his stupid post. just ignore it. it doesnt help anyone ... *edit* actually, he makes the maybe interesting point about apparent problems being reflections of ourselves. from my experience, and its been an exciting one .. reading stuff like this and thinking it can force you to go out and be an activist or something.

"ps. not being cold hearted of anything, but thats just the way it is. but i'm trying." nice. sikhi can help you recognise those mistakes you've made. this is in a way, the truth. it gives you the truth. no one said the truth was supposed to be sweet. good ppl have it so much easier. they get the truth and they are happy just enjoying being religious. lucky bastards. bad ppl have to suffer the tortorous pangs of regret in their past when shown the truth. this thread has been helpful. thanks breaky and neo

... it really is just a game for the good ..

neo, myself hates me. religion cant help me. it doesnt want to help me, it cant help me. lol maybe waheguru can help me tho. u see my point tho? if u go read scriptures its so much about good or bad. the best it can do is make u aware that u've done wrong and that life is supposed to have a 'higher purpose' .. so you know, and now ur cursed to spending ur life knowing ur unworthy of this awesome way of living.

neo, im glad you brought up sajan. yes he was bad, and then he met guruji and then his life changed. if guruji allowed to him to be a sikh, then he was very lucky. much luckier than me. he probably lived the rest of his life as a devout, sincere man. did he forget about his past? do you think that didnt pain him? whos going to allow me to be a sikh? sajjan was the luckiest man to have ever lived. he was probably the only bad guy to get forgiven. this is a very very very special case. it doesnt happen otherwise. what we are to learn from the sajjan story is that our gurus were truly amazing. that they could forgive and see the good in even the lowest of thugs. that speaks volumes about them. it doesnt mean a bad person can be good however. nothin can make a bad person good. nothing.

but just to reply. how am i supposed to be at peace at myself? im a horrible person

dear unbreakable, please try harder at understanding me before coming out with stuff like that. come on, im not stupid, i know all of that.. no offense *edit* sorry veer, i dont expect you or anyone else to sooth my mind. after all im at odds with myself, it is *i* who is the problem

neo, to be perfectly honest, i have such an admiration for sikhi in the terms you talk about.. i cant describe that here. i dont even care so much about the fanatics right now, im being selfish and concentrating on myself. i dont think sikhi is for me though. as a bad person, i cant touch sikhi without feeling guilty, cuz im a bad person and why should i have access to something so beautiful and perfect? sikh cares about good or bad. im bad. see my problem?

neo, if i do horrible things to ppl, .. then turn to you, and ask, "can religion make me a good person?" what would your answer be? i know in some lesser faiths all you have to do is go talk to a priest and its all good- clean slate- ur good but thats crap. how can religion help me as a bad person? it simply cant. because religion is obessed with good vs bad. and what do you know, it cant help a bad person be good, so religion does absolutely nothing for me. so what good is religion, to help good ppl get better? and thats supposed to impress me or something? if someone comes along with a new thing that makes bill gates even more richer am i supposed to clap?

nothing, even religion can make a bad person good, good ppl are already good, what can religion do for them? make them a little better? (In reality is this even true?) who 'really' needs help, the good or the bad? .... religion is not a solution!

infernal, sadly i've tried the whole "start from scratch" thing. it works for some ppl, u know, the kind who suddenly transform from largely flawed beings into clean, lively souls who take to flaunting their reincarnation as a honourable badge. i cant fool myself tho, maybe they can. cant get rid of the past bruv

if righteous living is a bridge from an animal life to that of a conscious being with a firm grasp of his mind then what can we say about our bridges? mine is kinda funny. its missing lots of bricks, i can almost remember what they used to look like. i remember the one that told me what not to eat. i spent a lot of time working that one into my bridge. moving the other ones around until it finally fitted in. It was stable for quite a while before i stubbed my toe on it and calmly removed it, throwing it over the edge. i remember the ones that span the start of my bridge. they're locked in firmly in place. those are the bricks i've never moved. for instance, ive never touched the drugs brick. didnt really felt the need. infact, the start of my bridge is so beautiful despite the rough terrain it traverses. amazingly it still stands. i've heard people arguing about lots of bridges. some say, "its just a brick", a brick alone wont make a bridge. just because you have such and such brick doesnt mean you're bridge is better. they are right, ofcourse. but its also true that without that a brick, and that one and that one, and many others, there would be no bridge. it is important to remember that. there are others busy telling others how to fix their bridges. they try draw attention away from their own, non existent bridge. i stand in the middle of my bridge, not knowing what to do next. should i dive into the water and look for my lost bricks? should i go look for new bricks to replace them with, or should i just leave the gaps and be happy with my tattered, imperfect but still standing bridge?

aw man, infernal thanks .. i think i just realized that this is a case of those who matter dont care and those who care dont matter ck were they right tho?

oh no? a camp..................... how camp .. jokes wish i could go, but i get distracted too easily. good luck to everyone going, looks like a lot of fun

challenge, and what would the farmer use to clean his sheep??

dynamic im slightly worried by your posts :s

i didnt know .. and i wish i didnt know now. who wants to imagine they are rubbing animal fat onto themselves in the shower? i suggest you delete this thread for the good of good hygiene.

is that directed at me? I gotta tell you guys that im the preetiest and devastatingingly handsome. i look like the most well groomed rat you've ever seen. i mean im that good looking that i have a thousand pied pipers following behind me. i make cats coo and roll over when they see me. think splinter from the teenage mutatant turtles and you wont be that far from what i look like. strangers worship my wisdom and tenacity. im the biggest, strongest, most attractive rodent faced person to have ever walked this earth. so much so was my recognition that in high school i was dubbed fondly, "whiskas", "whissssssky" and other adorable names. what i cant imagine is why anyone would think a person of my calibre would look better hairless. because ive seen those mice and trust me when i say there is little to remark about their beauty. i look the best i could ever look even though it betrays conventional wisdom that a smooth face is truly attractive and a hairy one like mine, well it isnt. so much for that!