Nihal_Kaur Posted October 28, 2003 Report Share Posted October 28, 2003 Do all parents go mad as soon as girls get their degrees? I've just finished a four yr degree and the pressure is really on...but I don't get it, why can't they wait for a bit? I think its a bit like forced marriage even though they label it "arranged marriage" because of the amount of emotional and parential pressure they put on. :cry: 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 28, 2003 Report Share Posted October 28, 2003 Penj, I can totally relate, they do go completely bonkers, I can vouch for that. Right now all I can do is act dumb and go along with what they do until they find a guy, at which point I can take out my prospective marriage partner qualities required list and KNOCK EM DOWN EACH TIME! :cry: :evil: :x 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nihal_Kaur Posted October 28, 2003 Author Report Share Posted October 28, 2003 my criteria is long 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 28, 2003 Report Share Posted October 28, 2003 Choosing a right partner is not maya penji... Take your time and go for the one who you have dream for and fits in your list of "future husband" .... 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nihal_Kaur Posted October 28, 2003 Author Report Share Posted October 28, 2003 i cant see it happening. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 28, 2003 Report Share Posted October 28, 2003 Lets form up an bachelor singhs and singhani's group... make them in 100's or 200's. Form an jathaaaaaaaaaaaaa or an faujjjjjj :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: Also lets test them too but by puttin x and y's in ONE PLACE .... It shall be quite an experiment ...i say... 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Khandaydhaar Posted October 28, 2003 Report Share Posted October 28, 2003 Also lets test them too but by puttin x and y's in ONE PLACE .... It shall be quite an experiment ...i say... x and y? confusing it is...plz explain...u mean som kinda maths equation? y=mx+c or if ax2+bx+c=0 :? :? or x=singh and y=singnni m lost..sorry :x maths is not my fav sub 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest kaur1699 Posted October 28, 2003 Report Share Posted October 28, 2003 Fateh Ji, I think Neo is refering to 'x' as in females and 'y' as in males... 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 28, 2003 Report Share Posted October 28, 2003 Fateh Ji, I think Neo is refering to 'x' as in females and 'y' as in males... no its other way around geeza 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 28, 2003 Report Share Posted October 28, 2003 On a serious note, I can understand what you're going through, I am too now. I know you must respect your Dad highly and parents do know us very well and are qualified to find the right person, but some of the decision making should be left to you, you will be the one spending your life with your partner, so please take your time and explain to your parents the reasons for you wanting to wait, sometimes they feel it may be because you're doing something wrong :roll: so it's good to be open and honest with them, it isn't a minor issue, please don't let your respect for your Dad, which is commendable, ruin your life ok? I feel for you Penj, it's a hard situation, and it may surprise you but guys go through it too, so we can't blame this one on them too Take care Gurfateh 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nihal_Kaur Posted October 28, 2003 Author Report Share Posted October 28, 2003 <<<<<<<<<<silly ramblings>>>>>>>>>>> 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 28, 2003 Report Share Posted October 28, 2003 unless he is a nihang You have came to the right place then penji 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mugermach Singh Posted October 28, 2003 Report Share Posted October 28, 2003 What?????? Nihangs on sikhawareness.com. I've heard everything now..... 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jsb Posted October 28, 2003 Report Share Posted October 28, 2003 mugermach, have your folks been pressuring you to find a guy, too? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mugermach Singh Posted October 29, 2003 Report Share Posted October 29, 2003 have they not contacted your parents yet??? :shock: 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Javanmard Posted October 29, 2003 Report Share Posted October 29, 2003 Live your life. Don't let others decide for you 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jsb Posted October 29, 2003 Report Share Posted October 29, 2003 have they not contacted your parents yet??? :shock: well my parents did mention a UK boy for me.. but i had to say no, cuz i wanted a boy not a uk boy, aka girl 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mugermach Singh Posted October 29, 2003 Report Share Posted October 29, 2003 Mugermach Singh wrote: have they not contacted your parents yet??? well my parents did mention a UK boy for me.. but i had to say no, cuz i wanted a boy not a uk boy, aka girl you want a boy aka girl, i.e a corss dresser. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sherni-E-Punjab Posted October 29, 2003 Report Share Posted October 29, 2003 LOLLLL!! Off the topic here yeh, ...whats up with all the UK people saying ....." Penj" and "Phaj" ...LOL What happened to the "I" LOL! 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr §ingh Posted October 29, 2003 Report Share Posted October 29, 2003 this thread is getting slightly amusing now SO i decided to post this...taken from another site: HOW TO STOP PEOPLE FROM BUGGING YOU ABOUT GETTING MARRIED Old aunts used to come up to me at weddings, poking me in the ribs and cackling, telling me, "You're next." They stopped after I started doing the same thing to them at funerals. Ooh btw this is my 350th post :hearme: :mrgreen: :jurra: :party: 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nihal_Kaur Posted October 29, 2003 Author Report Share Posted October 29, 2003 :roll: 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mugermach Singh Posted October 29, 2003 Report Share Posted October 29, 2003 gupt about being married? thats gonna be a hard secret to keep, esp nowadays, when other people know your getting married even b4 you. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nihal_Kaur Posted October 29, 2003 Author Report Share Posted October 29, 2003 well can someone tell me who I'm getting married to...I could do with knowing. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mugermach Singh Posted October 29, 2003 Report Share Posted October 29, 2003 i have looked into my crystal ball. I see a short, damn, neighbours is on, laters perople. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jsb Posted October 29, 2003 Report Share Posted October 29, 2003 just for clarifications, me and Mugermach are not involved romantically haha 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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