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An anecdote from the life of Srimaan Baba Jagta jee Sevapanthi: Ref: Bhai Jagta Ji Sahib Bhul chuk maaf

Jaap to fight Lust (Kaam): Ref: Shabad Sankat Mochan Bhul chuk maaf

Brother, you are a lucky person. You need to embed this fact into your brain. Acquiring this human body is a blessing Being born in a Sikh family is a great blessing Consuming Khanday wala Amrit is a greater blessing Your decision to improve yourself and do Simran proves that you have love for Sri Satguru jee, which implies that he will immensly love you back. You did 12 malas of Mool Mantar in a day, which is great achievement. Personally, Daas has never done 12 malas in a day. Don't worry about your career failures or not being married. Stay in the present moment. How do you know that getting a high paying job or getting married, won't make things worse for you? How do you determine success? The greatest thing for a Sikh is Lord's grace. ਜੇ ਤਿਸੁ ਨਦਰਿ ਨ ਆਵਈ ਤ ਵਾਤ ਨਪੁਛੈ ਕੇ ॥ If God's gracious glance falls not one him, them, no one would care for him Without grace, you could be a billionaire, very healthy, have power, rule the world, etc; but it won't matter much as the goal of this human life is merging with the source. Additionally, Kaam vaashna will gradually decrease as you age, as long as you keep doing intense Naam Simran and follow Gurmat principles. Other tips, which may be helpful (from another topic): Don't sit idle. If you don't have a job. get one asap. This will keep your mind occupied, and most likely decrease negative thoughts in your mind. You might have heard the saying. "An idle mind is a devil's workshop". It is very pertinent to keep your mind busy. At the workplace, if you perform well, you will be praised, thereby increasing your self-confidence. Secondly, maintain your circadian cycle (as sated by Bhagat Singh jee). Try to sleep from 8 pm - 3 am (or 7 pm - 3 am). Wake up at Amrtivela, take a shower and do Jaap/Nitnem. When you wake up, immediately start doing jaap of Waheguru Mantar (it's a short Mantar). For this purpose. keep a mala/counter nearby Try to befriend Gursikhs and stay in their company. Sangat can be very powerful Do Parikarma of SSGGSJ. Please listen to Gyani jee below: Therefore, brother cheer up. Keep singing praises of the Lord in sangat, keep listening to Katha/Kirtan, doing jaap of Mantars, following Rehat maryada, etc. Bhul chuk maaf

Anything serious? Do ardas and try to stay in chardikala paaji. Bhul chuk maaf

Admins/Mods: Can you please move this topic to Health section? Thanks Bhul chuk maaf

The below might be helpful: Bhul chuk maaf

Jaap to speed up the effect of medication: Ref: Shabad Sankat Mochan Bhul chuk maaf

Jaap to find a great Life Partner (husband for women and wife for men): Another Shabad: Ref: Satguru Shabad Sidhi Bhandar Bhul chuk maaf

Gyani Ranjit SIngh jee Ghohar seems to have plenty of knowledge of Gurbani. Daas had the opportunity to talk with Gyani jee at a Nanaksar Gurughar. Gyani jee cleared a doubt Daas had, regarding a tuk of Sri Sukhmani Sahib jee, in a brilliant practical fashion. Bhul chuk maaf

Thanks bro for the info. Bhul chuk maaf

Jaap for Depression, OCD, and other mental illnesses: Ref: Shabad Sankat Mochan Bhul chuk maaf

Bro, where are the updates for Jan.15? Bhul chuk maaf

Bro, he did not do a bad job explaining the Charitars. You should listen to them, if you haven't. Obviously, it would be better if a spiritually higher person than him, explains the Charitars. Bhul chuk maaf

Gurparsaad, will begin a new topic on the Charitars. Please make a detailed contribution. Thanks in advance. Bhul chuk maaf

Bro, any idea what happened to Nihang Dharam Singh? He had started explaining the Charitars, but has not completed them. Bhul chuk maaf

Bro, do you know which historical source (other than Sri Gur Panth Prakaash by Gyani Rattan Singh jee) has mentioned about this dispute? Bhul chuk maaf

Excellent points. ਨਿੰਦਾ ਭਲੀ ਕਿਸੈ ਕੀ ਨਾਹੀ ਮਨਮੁਖ ਮੁਗਧ ਕਰੰਨਿ ॥ It is not good to slander anyone, but the foolish, self willed manmukhs still do it. Bhul chuk maaf

Please listen to Gyani Thakur Singh jee: Bhul chuk maaf

Sister, the first thing you need to do, is get a job (as sated by Bhagat Singh jee). This will keep your mind occupied, and most likely decrease negative thoughts in your mind. You might have heard the saying. "An idle mind is a devil's workshop". It is very pertinent to keep your mind busy. At the workplace, if you perform well, you will be praised, thereby increasing your self-confidence. Secondly, maintain your circadian cycle (as sated by Bhagat Singh jee). Try to sleep from 8 pm - 3 am (or 7 pm - 3 am). Wake up at Amrtivela, take a shower and do Jaap/Nitnem. When you wake up, immediately start doing jaap of Waheguru Mantar (it's a short Mantar). For this purpose. keep a mala/counter nearby. Other points Keep playing Gurbani on an audio player, when you are asleep. You can keep the volume very low, if you find it difficult to sleep with it. Yoga/Physical workout might be helpful too. Try to befriend Gursikhs and stay in their company. Sangat can be very powerful. Do Parikarma of SSGGSJ. Please listen to Gyani jee below. Bhul chuk maaf

Paaji, have you studied Arabic? Bhul chuk maaf

Good news. In English or Punjabi? Bhul chuk maaf

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Gyani Kulwant Singh jee on Amrit: Bhul chuk maaf

Listen to the debate between an Oil Presser and a Pandit. This might be hilarious. Please listen after 1:00 min: http://www.gurbaniupdesh.org/multimedia/04-Katha/13-Giani%20Thakur%20Singh%20Ji%20%28Patiala%20Wale%29/Katha%20Sri%20Guru%20Granth%20Sahib%20Ji/CD11%28Ang0886-1024%29/0901-Ang-0954-Pankti-03.mp3 Bhul chuk maaf