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  1. I hope the families of our brothers are fine and do not need any help..i wish could something for all of these brothers..i am proud of them .Waheguru Ang Sang Sahaai
  2. The problem is ..there is one camp who simply doesnt want to accept women. another camp which accepts women with conditions applied , if we had valiant women like Mai Bhago and Mata Sahib Devi/Devaa ..we do not know how they were part of the Khalsa and how were they initiated. Best is ..follow what you feel ..Andar Hukame Sabko ..Baahar Hukam Na Koe...
  3. This has been the scenario amongst several families , sehajdharis and monne who's ancestry was keshdhari. I wouldnt blame them entirely because there are groups who spread hatred and have a bigoted mindset. My close friend is son of a Granthi and he too doesnt not participate in any Sikhi religious events.
  4. I do not agree to playing blame game on the hindus ..if that was that true then there would be no women scholars nor would there be women priests conducting religious rituals ..and i know a woman who voluntarily conducts pooja...so please its better we keep our hatred in our pockets.
  5. Satkirin ..i understand history can never be unbiased..and please be clear on my stand ..I am not against women taking amrit and tying dastaars...this is their choice..i am not in favor of curbing one's choice..my only question is there was something different way back which i had seen and now something different emerging ..my feeling is something is being infused by certain groups with a weird idea to cut off from the roots..as we clearly see anti Dasam lobby ..so please do not take me as one of the male chauvinists who thinks of women as a weaker gender .. ..i cannot comment on Bhai Chaupa singh ji since i have no knowledge
  6. Satkirin ..rather making it a ego issue i feel we need to introspect ..say if in case women were not given amrit ..what would be the reason..i have lived in india since i was born..its been 37 years ..in 37 years of my life its been a few years i started seeing women wearing a dastaar...i do not know of the rest of you ..it is these days that i find sikh women who do not do shringaar.. i maybe wrong ..but in my personal opinion if there was amrit sanskaar for women ..i do not think the maryada was the same ..Punjabi women were known for their beauty since ancient times ..i belong to a community which had the custom of bride price in the olden days ..i come across mention of high bride prices being paid for women of our clan from Punjab and Himachal because they were known to be extremely beautiful. Rehat maryada prevents making any changes to kes which involves cutting them by any method. Is there any account by any historian who would remark at the unusual practice of turbaned women...we need to find this ..if anyone has any source then please share.
  7. Check this video.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hnG4wmEH93Q
  8. Another flaw is with his claim as the last master of shastarvidiya..unnecessarily inviting trouble
  9. If you listen to Puratan Nihangs ..its not much different from what he says ..specially if you listen to Baba Ballisingh 's videos on youtube ..in my opinion Nidar exaggerates which maybe part of his business gimmicks..in his initial version of shastarvidiya he gave too much weight to sukkha and jhatka maryada ...as if without them one is not a Sikh..he is got a dumb webmaster there ...says things the wrong way.
  10. In fact there wont be place for gay marriages in any religion, if you go against the society and establish your setup then it is absolutely different like there are gay churches which might be just a meeting point for gays rather than anything religious. I feel it is better to keep both the concepts in different corners.. Ask yourself ...is homosexual activity as normal as heterosexual ? tomorrow pedophiles would ask for their 'rights' then Zoonoses would follow.. ...the list is never ending. . Sikhi is about connecting to the Supreme Power directly...when you follow Sikhi...without the dogmas which people create on their own..you will feel the longing for being One with Him the Akaal Purakh..The Timeless Lord...The Bani suggests you get connected and a flow inside you will always want to keep connecting. Try this ...reciting EK Oanhnnkaaar...and just breathe in and out ...relax your nerves ...ask your self who are you ...are you this body ? are you this soul? when you close your eyes ..visualize a vast light coming from the clouds....try to meditate...you will get all the answers from Inside ...HE resides in you ..He is Right Inside You ..He is Akaaal...The All Pervading ..
  11. Bro what is your country of origin ? You lay too much stress on same sex marriage .Can this be the only yardstick for liberalism ? Love marriage is accepted largely...there are few of them who are strongly clinging to the clan identities ...things are changing . The western society is an amalgamated society and therefore is not based on principles that rigidly ..and there is a constant adding of more diverse cultures..even from the remotest corners of the world. Therefore it wont be the same as a society which is already established and has had a foundation centuries old .
  12. The animal earned the respect of 'mother' due to its utility and psychologically we treat it n the same way..might not hesitate to eat beef of buffalo jhatkaed but cow is one of the animals i wouldn't want to consume.
  13. Start having cod liver oil capsules it will work well also do light massage of mustard oil without applying strong pressure..after massage tie turkish towel to your feet and pour hot water...should be really hot...the turkish towel will protect your skin from burning .. what i feel is it is beginning of stiffening which may lead to arthritis.
  14. Maharaj mentions of cow protection... XhI dyh AwigAw qurkn gih KpwaUN ] gaU Gwq kw doK jg isauN imtwaUN ] ieh hukm idE ik qurkW nUM mwr imtWvW [ gaU mwrn dw duK swry sMswr ivcoN imtw dyvW [ Command me to kill and destroy the Turks (Muslims). Eliminate the killing of the cow from the entire universe. XhI Aws pUrn krhu qum hmwrI ] imtY kst gaUAn CutY Kyd BwrI ] ieho myrI ie`Cw qusIN pUrI kro [ gaU, kSt Aqy BwrI duK qoN mukiq ho jwvy [ Grant me this boon. Relieve the cow of agony and all ailments. XhI bynqI Kws hmrI suxIjY ] Asur mwr kr r`C gaUAn krIjY ] ieho myrI Kws Arz suxo [ rwkiSSW (AsurW) nUM mwrky gaU (grIb) dI rkSW kro [ Kindly adhere to my specific request. Annihilate the evil demons and safeguard the cow (destitute).
  15. With great regret i would like to inform all of you that our esteemed forum member BhagatSingh veer ji 's father sahib passed away a few days back . Parmatma unhadi aatma nu Charhdikala bakshish kare.
  16. jo mere Dasve Paatsaah ji di baani da mazaak kare...oh laandi buchi...this is the bad luck of Khalsa that a malechh has come in the bhes of a gursikh...i challenge all the so called kharkoos ehdi seva kar deyo fer assi manneye ke tusi kharkoo ho...the whole separatist lobby is with him and he roaming freely. Darsan professor te dhunda ...Sikhi da mazaak banna ke rakkheya hai.. Yaad rakkheyo Khalsa aauga charhh ke ..ehde varge da khaatma hona aa...
  17. He is intending to increase his database ...this pakhandi has no place here..jisne baani da mazaak kita..chhitar parade honi hai ehdi..
  18. Dhunda the joker ...now what more can you expect from him ..he might even want to suggest prostitution for keeping yourself fit
  19. I too am from a hindu family and the thing i understand is ..there is no such thing as Hinduism...because there is no one standard way of worship or belief ..Vedas are the most authentic source ..i follow Sikhism though..am not a keshdhari
  20. Yes true ..even the Vedas ask you to follow the One Power Supreme..Akaal Parmatma. So please do not think we disrespect Ganesh ji ..He is a Sevadar of Akaal and much superior to us Humans ..so with due Respect to Him ..we request you to consider our boundaries and post relevant accordingly.
  21. There is a dire need to create awareness about halal certification and the effect on society . There is lack of awareness in India itself, most Hindus and Sikhs do not understand the difference since they cannot watch their meat from being slaughtered .
  22. Who gives you the authority to decide? If you would quote " Guru Maaneyo Granth " does it mean just Siri Aad Granth Sahib ji ? Just as the 9 Gurus did not stress on just reading their writings what makes you think the Tenth Guru would stress on reading what Himself has composed ? If you want to follow only Siri Guru Aad Granth Sahib ji then there is no question of calling yourself Khalsa ..being Kesdhaari and tyaar bar tyaar with 5 kakkars ..in case if you are Amritdhaari.. I know this is off topic but please ..no Anti Dasam stand here...
  23. The possibility here is the cow might have got killed by the person accidentally ..the mentality of the so called priestly class then was to extract money in the name of conducting rituals to 'free' the person of the 'sin' and Guru Sahib knew the futility of such rituals which would follow. Uggardanti Bani by Guru Sahib says "gau ghat ka dukh jagat se mitau"
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